Every 14 year old boy's dream?
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Victor McDade

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4,395 posts

212 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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Have to say if this was a 24 year old bloke sleeping with a 14 year old girl, I'd be disgusted and hope that the guy got everything coming to him.

Yet here, whilst I accept what this woman did was wrong, I'm not really disgusted. Problem with me? Or is this simply how society has conditioned us?






Telegraph said:
Mother discovered in bed with 14-year-old boy is jailed
A mother-of-two who was caught having sex with her 14-year-old schoolboy lover has been jailed for three years.


Susanne Divers, 25, was caught in bed with the teenager when her partner came home unexpectedly from work.

She befriended the boy last year and began meeting him for sex for two months.

The boy, who cannot be named for legal reasons, was so taken by the affair he bragged to his mates on on Facebook: ''I've got the best girl in the world.''

Divers, a mother-of-two, pleaded guilty to eight offences of sexual activity between Dec 28, 2009 and Feb 2 this year.

She cried in the dock when she was jailed for three years at Leicester Crown Court last Friday.

Sentencing, Judge John Milmo QC told her she cheated on her partner in a ''flagrant manner''.

He said: ''You persisted to have sexual intercourse on about nine occasions. If ever there was a time to stop it was when the police warned to stay away.

''Your partner came home and found you both naked, with [the boy] lying on top of you.

''You betrayed your partner in a quite flagrant manner. He's written to the court and appears to have forgiven you.''

Earlier the court heard Divers met the boy during a party when she was dared to kiss him.

They soon began swapping saucy text messages and naked pictures of each other.

The boy would play truant from school to meet Divers for sex at her home in Melton, Leics.

But when she ended the relationship he was so heartbroken he tried to hang himself and the pair started seeing each other again.

Paul Prior, prosecuting, said: ''There was no complaint by the boy, but she was warned by the police to keep away from him. They carried on and arranged meetings around the defendant's partner's shifts.

''On January 22, the boy visited the defendant's partner and showed him incriminating texts and told him they'd had sex on seven occasions.

''She said it was lies and that she never wanted to see the boy again. He then went home and attempted to take his own life.

''On February 2 Divers' partner was unwell and came home early.

''He heard noises upstairs and found the bedroom door locked. He pushed the door in to see the boy having sexual intercourse with the defendant.

''The boy ran away and the defendant was assaulted [slapped] by her partner, for which he was cautioned by police.''

Divers was bailed and sent the boy a love letter on February 27 saying she was ''engaged'' to him.

Barbara McDonnell, mitigating, said Divers had lost the care of her two sons, aged six and eight, from a former relationship.

She said: ''It's very unusual to find a female defendant facing charges of sexual activity.

''She takes full responsibility for her actions and makes no attempt to place the blame on him.''

Divers was also ordered to sign the Sex Offenders' Register for live and banned from ever working with children.

A sex offences prevention order states she cannot have unsupervised contact with any male under 16.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/crime/8214509/Mother-discovered-in-bed-with-14-year-old-boy-is-jailed.html

SystemParanoia

14,343 posts

228 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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if i was the boy i wouldn't be complaining either!!


Tsippy

15,078 posts

199 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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I wonder how much she cost per hour? Looks like a hooker!

TuxRacer

13,966 posts

221 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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Tsippy said:
I wonder how much she cost per hour? Looks like a hooker!
Great, isn't it! lick

ZesPak

26,150 posts

226 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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At 14, I had some floppy disks of "saucy" 320*240 pictures :/
That boy is my hero.

Mastiff

2,515 posts

271 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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Victor McDade said:
Paul Prior, prosecuting, said: ''There was no complaint by the boy,
No surprise there then.

"I'd hit that ike a ginger stepchild"lick

God help me I do love a slapper!!

Deva Link

26,934 posts

275 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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You have to wonder about the sentencing though - 3 years yikes and she's got 2 kids.

Mr Gearchange

5,892 posts

236 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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Indeed. I'm very much in agreement with the OP that if the genders were reversed I would be disgusted.

However, in my considered opinion. 14 year old lad FTW!

He must have fking loved it - he would have been the envy of all his mates - and now the story has come out in the press I'm sure he is going round to all the disblievers saying "See I fking told you I nailed her!"

Rather than being the victim in all this - I bet he is utterly made up.

ZesPak

26,150 posts

226 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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Deva Link said:
You have to wonder about the sentencing though - 3 years yikesand she's got 2 kids.
... 3 kids she won't see again (unsupervised) 'till they are 16. irked

sjc

16,444 posts

300 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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Come on guys, the kid got so fked in his head he tried to hang himself,probably not a period in his life he's now gonna look back and think what a lucky sod he was is it?

MK4 Slowride

10,028 posts

238 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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Niiice!


hairykrishna

14,527 posts

233 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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I lost my virginity to a 22 year old when I was 15. She took advantage of me. It was awesome.

grumbledoak

32,571 posts

263 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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I wish the article was clearer on what she was charged with; I had thought 14 was age of consent for straight sex with boys? It's not like they can get pregnant.

Deva Link

26,934 posts

275 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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hairykrishna said:
I lost my virginity to a 22 year old when I was 15. She took advantage of me. It was awesome.
Ring Claims Direct - there could be a few bob in it now for you. smile

Deva Link

26,934 posts

275 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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grumbledoak said:
I wish the article was clearer on what she was charged with;
sexual activity with a child

I know the picture above is a bit blurry, but she only looks 14 herself.

MrV

2,748 posts

258 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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grumbledoak said:
I wish the article was clearer on what she was charged with; I had thought 14 was age of consent for straight sex with boys? It's not like they can get pregnant.
Bit more in depth report here

http://www.thisisleicestershire.co.uk/news/Woman-c...

I am guessing the part where see got straight back in contact with him after being bailed didn't help her case.

Saying that at 14 I would have been at her like a shot smile

TuxRacer

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221 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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grumbledoak said:
I wish the article was clearer on what she was charged with; I had thought 14 was age of consent for straight sex with boys? It's not like they can get pregnant.
I thought... and this is only what I recall from a sex ed class when I was about 14 so it's highly likely to be inaccurate... that there was some sort of weird restriction on it perhaps like at 14/15 you could consent with someone else who was 14/15 but not with someone 16 or over?

Deva Link

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275 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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Guam said:
Deva Link said:
You have to wonder about the sentencing though - 3 years yikes and she's got 2 kids.
Reading between the lines she had already been leaned on by the Plod (who could have gone for the throat first time around) ignoring them I reckon lead to her situation.


Fair play to the plod on this one I feel, as they recognised there is a difference between Teenage boys and girls in these matters.

She should have paid attention first time round the block smile

And yes I would have nailed it as well!
She does sound a bit bonkers. There was a very flirty Mum of one of my friends when I was that age but we were all terrified of her!

thinfourth2

32,414 posts

234 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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Guam said:
Deva Link said:
You have to wonder about the sentencing though - 3 years yikes and she's got 2 kids.
Reading between the lines she had already been leaned on by the Plod (who could have gone for the throat first time around) ignoring them I reckon lead to her situation.
The sentance will be ignoring the state not because she shagged a 14yr old boy.


The state doesn't like being ignored

ZesPak

26,150 posts

226 months

Tuesday 21st December 2010
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tbh it's all her fault, not the boy's. She deserves a good slapping much more than the boy does.