A thought........
Discussion
Lets see, so you have been married for 15 years, nice house etc, and you want to jump ship for a potentially better option? Have you thought what this would do to your wife,in-laws etc, and if so, are you prepared for the inevtiable backlash?? If so, then make a decision and go for whichever option you choose!
I'm in my early 40's and am having exactly the same thoughts.
Problem is that these thoughts come upon me in the evening (no doubt aided by some booze most days).
After a sleep, and upon reflection, these thoughts seem slightly ridiculous - I love my partner and don't want to leave her.
Yet I still have these thoughts.
It's a real problem.
Problem is that these thoughts come upon me in the evening (no doubt aided by some booze most days).
After a sleep, and upon reflection, these thoughts seem slightly ridiculous - I love my partner and don't want to leave her.
Yet I still have these thoughts.
It's a real problem.
You said you have a nice house/wife/car, etc, but you are bored. Bored with what ? How much is your wife/family a part of your new plans ?
If they are a part of it then go and do something else if you are fortunate enough to have that oppourtunity - if they are not then god knows - just make sure you don't ask people on an internet forum.
If they are a part of it then go and do something else if you are fortunate enough to have that oppourtunity - if they are not then god knows - just make sure you don't ask people on an internet forum.
BIG COL said:
V8mate said:
Post a photo of her - we'll tell you if the grass really is greener.
Yes this true, a younger model, and yes there will be a gigantic s
t storm, but is like too short, have been married for 7 years, together for 16, had the chance many times but never did, You won't sleep unless you have our stamp of approval.
BIG COL said:
V8mate said:
Post a photo of her - we'll tell you if the grass really is greener.
Yes this true, a younger model, and yes there will be a gigantic st storm, but is like too short, have been married for 7 years, together for 16, had the chance many times but never did, t. It all becomes just the same.IMO of course
Mid life crisis which is by no means exclusive to you. Forget about it. Doing what you're thinking of doing will only mess up everything you have worked hard for over the past years. Who's to say your wife isn't feeling a little of the same? But women are generally less selfish about these things. Take your wife away for a second honeymoon and then concentrate of making your family life at home more exciting and enriching for all of you.
[AJ] said:
Mid life crisis which is by no means exclusive to you. Forget about it. Doing what you're thinking of doing will only mess up everything you have worked hard for over the past years. Who's to say your wife isn't feeling a little of the same? But women are generally less selfish about these things. Take your wife away for a second honeymoon and then concentrate of making your family life at home more exciting and enriching for all of you. Just have a wk.
EFA k.
TBH, you need to be having this decision with the misses, rather than some forum friends. I don't know what you should do mate, but deep deep down I recon you do know and need to have a proper think. IMHO you should probably take a week off work and go away for a week and sort your mind out (not for your new skirt, rather to clear your head and work everything out).
Whatever you choose to do, good luck and I really hope you are happy! (Just remember how many people you will be making unhappy and how unhappy you will be making them!!)
Cheers
The Moose
Whatever you choose to do, good luck and I really hope you are happy! (Just remember how many people you will be making unhappy and how unhappy you will be making them!!)
Cheers
The Moose
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