Dumping someone
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buggalugs

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9,259 posts

257 months

Sunday 3rd May 2009
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After a week or so of plotting and picking my moment, agonising over the right words to say (its not you its me doesn't quite cut it) I finally did the deed.

I feel like I just shot a puppy in the face.

Thing is I've only been seeing her for a three weeks! Am I the biggest pussy alive? I frikking hate this. I'd allways much rather be dumped than dump someone.

I'm doing the internet dating thing, and I've been around the block enough times now to not have too much of a problem getting randoms to go out on dates, laugh at their jokes, remember which one's gran is dead and which ones got a dog. I should be having a whale of a time but I just haven't got the stomach for this side of it frown

And now I'm sat here wallowing like a self-centered prick, all upset about how *I* feel, what this means to *me*. She's the one whos just been dumped, what have I got to be upset about? fk relationships - tomorrow I'm going to chop a tree down, weed the lawn and play with engines all day.

Catharsis over, pass some more alcohol.

Steamer

14,081 posts

233 months

Sunday 3rd May 2009
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Turn your phone off and hope shes not a 'jumper'.

You'll feel much better tomorrow - youve got engines to play with!

Besides, if you are both doing the internet dating thing, she'll be someone else's problem by tomorrow night.

SpydieNut

5,918 posts

243 months

Sunday 3rd May 2009
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just as well you got in there 1st mate


any day now she'd have woken up in a bad mood - having dreamt you were cheating on her - and then dumped you!!

Los Palmas 7

29,908 posts

250 months

Sunday 3rd May 2009
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buggalugs said:
Thing is I've only been seeing her for a three weeks!
Jesus man, I've had shorter marriages than that.

Get over her and under someone else. I'm sure she will.

Topboy

653 posts

279 months

Sunday 3rd May 2009
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So ask yourself this question?

Why are you feeling soo bad that you have finished after only 3 weeks?

Sheets Tabuer

20,695 posts

235 months

Sunday 3rd May 2009
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Should have dumped her by text, from what I gather at listening to the OH on the phone with her mates this is the in way to do it.

mybrainhurts

90,809 posts

275 months

Sunday 3rd May 2009
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buggalugs said:
I'm doing the internet dating thing, and I've been around the block enough times now to not have too much of a problem getting randoms to go out on dates, laugh at their jokes, remember which one's gran is dead and which ones got a dog.
I'm really sorry to hear your dog died...

My gran was not a dog...:sob:

buggalugs

Original Poster:

9,259 posts

257 months

Monday 4th May 2009
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Lol - cheers guys, I really am over-analysing the fk out of this aren't I. She was such a sweetheart, so genuine, and possibly had some self esteem issues... I got all fatherly and emotional there for a second. I think one more drink should do it biggrin

Tunku

7,703 posts

248 months

Monday 4th May 2009
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buggalugs said:
After a week or so of plotting and picking my moment, agonising over the right words to say (its not you its me doesn't quite cut it) I finally did the deed.

I feel like I just shot a puppy in the face.

Thing is I've only been seeing her for a three weeks! Am I the biggest pussy alive? I frikking hate this. I'd allways much rather be dumped than dump someone.

I'm doing the internet dating thing, and I've been around the block enough times now to not have too much of a problem getting randoms to go out on dates, laugh at their jokes, remember which one's gran is dead and which ones got a dog. I should be having a whale of a time but I just haven't got the stomach for this side of it frown

And now I'm sat here wallowing like a self-centered prick, all upset about how *I* feel, what this means to *me*. She's the one whos just been dumped, what have I got to be upset about? fk relationships - tomorrow I'm going to chop a tree down, weed the lawn and play with engines all day.

Catharsis over, pass some more alcohol.
Are you very young? If so, don't sweat it. If not, grow up you wuss! biggrin

Landlord

12,689 posts

277 months

Monday 4th May 2009
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Mate - the bottom line is that she's got a vagina therefore she wins.

Don't sweat it.

Topboy

653 posts

279 months

Monday 4th May 2009
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buggalugs said:
Lol - cheers guys, I really am over-analysing the fk out of this aren't I. She was such a sweetheart, so genuine, and possibly had some self esteem issues... I got all fatherly and emotional there for a second. I think one more drink should do it biggrin
WTF...you finished with her FFS.....whats your problem

12 inch legend

8,973 posts

207 months

Monday 4th May 2009
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3 weeks? FFS ive had bouts of diarrhea last longer than that!!!

Strap a pair on son, plenty more clunge out there!

Colonial

13,553 posts

225 months

Monday 4th May 2009
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12 inch legend said:
3 weeks? FFS ive had bouts of diarrhea last longer than that!!!

Strap a pair on son, plenty more clunge out there!
Tell me more about this strap on business.

12 inch legend

8,973 posts

207 months

Monday 4th May 2009
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Colonial said:
12 inch legend said:
3 weeks? FFS ive had bouts of diarrhea last longer than that!!!

Strap a pair on son, plenty more clunge out there!
Tell me more about this strap on business.
I cant im afraid, too exclusive.

Colonial

13,553 posts

225 months

Monday 4th May 2009
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12 inch legend said:
Colonial said:
12 inch legend said:
3 weeks? FFS ive had bouts of diarrhea last longer than that!!!

Strap a pair on son, plenty more clunge out there!
Tell me more about this strap on business.
I cant im afraid, too exclusive.
The 12 inch legend name intrigued me

Actually, I'm just glad someone else is here. i had a fear of having my posts over the entire page. That would look sad.

12 inch legend

8,973 posts

207 months

Monday 4th May 2009
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Colonial said:
12 inch legend said:
Colonial said:
12 inch legend said:
3 weeks? FFS ive had bouts of diarrhea last longer than that!!!

Strap a pair on son, plenty more clunge out there!
Tell me more about this strap on business.
I cant im afraid, too exclusive.
The 12 inch legend name intrigued me

Actually, I'm just glad someone else is here. i had a fear of having my posts over the entire page. That would look sad.
Ha ha ha i did notice your names about 8 times in a column! Long night shift starting to draw to a close, thought everyone would be out on the lash tonight!

Nobody You Know

8,422 posts

213 months

Monday 4th May 2009
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You're actually with multiple women and you're complaining! Just one would would be a nice bonus for me.

Colonial

13,553 posts

225 months

Monday 4th May 2009
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12 inch legend said:
Colonial said:
12 inch legend said:
Colonial said:
12 inch legend said:
3 weeks? FFS ive had bouts of diarrhea last longer than that!!!

Strap a pair on son, plenty more clunge out there!
Tell me more about this strap on business.
I cant im afraid, too exclusive.
The 12 inch legend name intrigued me

Actually, I'm just glad someone else is here. i had a fear of having my posts over the entire page. That would look sad.
Ha ha ha i did notice your names about 8 times in a column! Long night shift starting to draw to a close, thought everyone would be out on the lash tonight!
Early lunch break for me. About to get back too work

Jasandjules

71,681 posts

249 months

Monday 4th May 2009
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Ok,

So what is the problem exactly?

You didn't want to be with someone, now you're not.

MISS E

5,190 posts

230 months

Monday 4th May 2009
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Landlord said:
Mate - the bottom line is that she's got a vagina therefore she wins.

Don't sweat it.
hehe