**** Buddies

[Eddh]

Anyone concidering it just don't bother its more trouble than its worth.

'Emotions don't get involved so no-one is going to get hurt'

bks. fking hell I hate women sometimes, learnt this one the hard way.

[sleep envy]

were you dropped out of the bed like a used condom?

[Eddh]

sleep envy said:

were you dropped out of the bed like a used condom?

Pretty much, ex comes crawling back and you get thrown out the window. Problem been that she is probably my best friend who is supposed to be at our for Christmas.

I'm just hoping the friendship can survive...

[Rugbyman]

Eddh said:

Anyone concidering it just don't bother its more trouble than its worth.

'Emotions don't get involved so no-one is going to get hurt'

bks. fking hell I hate women sometimes, learnt this one the hard way.

Emotions will always come in to it.......unless your a prositute....

[Eddh]

anonymous said:

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Cheers BR, that acturally cheered me up a bit, always the one to offer a nice slant on things!

[JJCW]

Never works, ever.

[Don]

Eddh said:

I'm just hoping the friendship can survive...

It won't if YOU get all "weird" on her. Focus on being the nice guy she's friends with and keep your hands to yourself.

You never know. But retain some pride, eh?

[andy400]

Eddh said:

Anyone concidering it just don't bother its more trouble than its worth.

Rubbish, one of the best things in a bachelor's life (or a married man's I suppose, but that's not my style).

[Tony*T3]

Eddh said:

sleep envy said:

were you dropped out of the bed like a used condom?

Pretty much, ex comes crawling back and you get thrown out the window. Problem been that she is probably my best friend who is supposed to be at our for Christmas.

I'm just hoping the friendship can survive...

You've surely missed the point of being a 'fk buddy' in the first place, havent you? Someone to fuk until something better comes along. Someone to drop when clearly not needed.

[scorp]

I'm not sure about all this fvck buddy malarky, how can you do something that involves affectionate actions and not have any emotional attachment at all afterwards ?

You'd have to be pretty hard and callous not to, or a porn star.

[Mc Lovin]

Just because it doesn't work for one person doesnt mean it doesn't work for anyone.....

[sleep envy]

Eddh said:

Problem been that she is probably my best friend

she was so not a fk buddy to you

[Rugbyman]

I wonder what the lady PHers views are ?

[MrMoonyMan]

Eddh said:

sleep envy said:

were you dropped out of the bed like a used condom?

Pretty much...I'm just hoping the friendship can survive...

What. Are you a girl? Free shag, enjoy it while it lasts then move on.

[sleep envy]

scorp said:

I'm not sure about all this fvck buddy malarky, how can you do something that involves affectionate actions and not have any emotional attachment at all afterwards ?

You'd have to be pretty hard and callous not to, or a porn star.

it does work and has done for me in the past

just make sure it's not a close friend and both people understand that it's casual sex and nothing more

[Harry Flashman]

Eddh said:

Anyone concidering it just don't bother its more trouble than its worth.

'Emotions don't get involved so no-one is going to get hurt'

bks. fking hell I hate women sometimes, learnt this one the hard way.

Have a couple, and in mutually single patches we "help each other out". Best to be someone you've know for ages so there's very little risk of your feelings towards them changing.

[JonRB]

sleep envy said:

Eddh said:

Problem been that she is probably my best friend

she was so not a fk buddy to you

[haggy]

Eddh said:

sleep envy said:

were you dropped out of the bed like a used condom?

Pretty much, ex comes crawling back and you get thrown out the window. Problem been that she is probably my best friend who is supposed to be at our for Christmas.

I'm just hoping the friendship can survive...

A girl as a best friend..?? Sorry, but girls are for either shagg1ng or going out with, not best friends!

[mechsympathy]

Tony*T3 said:

You've surely missed the point of being a 'fk buddy' in the first place, havent you? Someone to fuk until something better comes along. Someone to drop when clearly not needed.

You're just gutted she found someone else first.

[TonyHetherington]

Hang on this seems the wrong way round - YOU are upset that she's gone back to her ex?!

YOU broke the cardinal rule and brought feelings into it