May have cheated on the OH

[D_Mark]

So, got quite drunk on Saturday night.

May have pulled a close friend of both me and my g/f. Not only that but she's my best mate's ex girlfriend.

Now I can't seem to get this girl out my head and I'm not too sure what to do.

Do I completly forget about it or do I push and see if there's any mutural feelings (I've had feelings for her for a while, just not acted on this till saturday for obvious reasons).

Since Sat as well I've felt slightly dispondent to my OH.

I'm confused and need some abuse. Fire away.

Yes I have set a new acount up to post this before you ask.

[900T-R]

Don't get drunk. Sorted.

[Get Karter]

We get so many of these 'Dear Deardrie' questions on here.

I sometimes suspect they are made up...just like the Sun's ones.

[Scott328i]

How long have you been with your current missus

[blindswelledrat]

What do you mean by 'may'?
What do you want us to say?
"Woooo get in there chap" or "oooh you bd".
Bear in mind that you will get the exact opposite of your answer to that question.

[MrVelox]

Scott328i said:

How long have you been with your current missus

About another hour or so from the looks of it.

[D_Mark]

over 5 years.

Why would i make this up?

[Justayellowbadge]

Who was buying the cider from the offie for you?

[crofty1984]

If she put her fingers in your bum....

[D_Mark]

Justayellowbadge said:

Who was buying the cider from the offie for you?

I'm in my late 20s

I suspect I'm looking for someone to have a go at me if i'm honest but a little bit of considered advice wouldn't go amiss.

[GolfGT]

And you post on here after 2 posts? er why..

[_Batty_]

pics of both please.

drop the munter.

unless munter swallows/takes trap 2/plasters radio etc...

[Scott328i]

D_Mark said:

over 5 years.

Why would i make this up?

So you would go chasing some random bird over your 5 year gf?

[D_Mark]

dibbers006 said:

D_Mark said:

I'm a cheating sg

You clearly don't respect your G/F and her 'mate' clearly doesn't value her friendship. So why don't you both fk of together before anyone gets more hurt than they could already.



HTH

That's not all true, this is the first time I have ever even thought about doing anything like this. Always been faithful, love my girlfriend but I@m questioning my own feelings now.

[elle]

dibbers006 said:

You clearly don't respect your G/F and her 'mate' clearly doesn't value her friendship. So why don't you both fk of together before anyone gets more hurt than they could already.



HTH

Good advice there....Take it!

[wargriff]

you now have your cake, so eat away young man

[D_Mark]

elle said:

dibbers006 said:

You clearly don't respect your G/F and her 'mate' clearly doesn't value her friendship. So why don't you both fk of together before anyone gets more hurt than they could already.



HTH

Good advice there....Take it!

Could it not have been just a stupid mistake?

[GKP]

This isn't your head or your heart making you feel like this. It's your willy.

There may be trouble ahead...

[DaveL485]

You never know till you ask. So, ask.

You'll know either way then.

[missy-a-k]

Yes you cheated on her, clearly.
Yes you are scum - but are human and male and we all make mistakes.
Can't believe you are considering following this new 'lead' up without so much as the respect to finish your OH first!
Sort your head out you mess!
I would suggest in this situation your feelings for your OH clearly aren't strong enough to warrant being in a realtionship any longer so you need to consider that being the end of that my dear.