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Just been talking to my sister, she found out today that her boyfriend who she rents a house with has been secretly looking into getting a mortgage and buying a house - ON HIS OWN.
Before anyone makes any comments about women snooping on their men, she found an 0870 number on the phone bill which had a call duration of over an hour and didn't recognise it so she called it and it was Northern Rock's mortgage line. She then checked the computer and found some websites for estate agents in nearby towns.
I cannot believe this. It's not even the first time he's done something like this either. She confronted him and he apparently said he didn't know what he was going to do, but he's obviously put some thought into this so that line is clearly bollocks.
Unbelieveable.
Before anyone makes any comments about women snooping on their men, she found an 0870 number on the phone bill which had a call duration of over an hour and didn't recognise it so she called it and it was Northern Rock's mortgage line. She then checked the computer and found some websites for estate agents in nearby towns.
I cannot believe this. It's not even the first time he's done something like this either. She confronted him and he apparently said he didn't know what he was going to do, but he's obviously put some thought into this so that line is clearly bollocks.
Unbelieveable.
I just said, she didn't snoop. They've had problems before with being charged for phone calls they didn't make so she wanted to check the call was actually theirs.
Plus, remember, I know this guy. She's been with him for 5 years and he's a cock.
Furthermore, would you trust a man who gets phone numbers of girls when he's out drinking and then calls them to slag off his girlfriend (my sister) to them?
>> Edited by silversun on Friday 21st October 16:35
Plus, remember, I know this guy. She's been with him for 5 years and he's a cock.
Furthermore, would you trust a man who gets phone numbers of girls when he's out drinking and then calls them to slag off his girlfriend (my sister) to them?
>> Edited by silversun on Friday 21st October 16:35
Piglet said:
Ohhh look at that family of pigs flying past the window.......
>> Edited by Piglet on Friday 21st October 16:35
Yeah, my point exactly. Funny how the bloke does something bad and you lot all fly to his defence and accuse her of snooping when I clearly stated she wasn't snooping.
baffles me that you want to post your frustration with your sisters' boyfriend on here..
..it's not as if it a case of bogroll bird or something earth shattering
tell her to kick him out if he's such a cock, or perhaps get him alone in a room and threaten to knock his teeth so far down his throat he'll have to stick food up his arse if he wants to chew it
choices...
..it's not as if it a case of bogroll bird or something earth shattering
tell her to kick him out if he's such a cock, or perhaps get him alone in a room and threaten to knock his teeth so far down his throat he'll have to stick food up his arse if he wants to chew it
choices...
I think she should have asked him about it before checking up on him.
I know she's your sister but I wouldn't like it either.There doesn't seem to be too much trust in him! SORRY just read the bit about other calls.I take it back.
Get rid of him!
>> Edited by stovey on Friday 21st October 16:41
I know she's your sister but I wouldn't like it either.There doesn't seem to be too much trust in him! SORRY just read the bit about other calls.I take it back.
Get rid of him!
>> Edited by stovey on Friday 21st October 16:41
silversun said:
Just been talking to my sister, she found out today that her boyfriend who she rents a house with has been secretly looking into getting a mortgage and buying a house - ON HIS OWN.
Sounds like he is stringing your sister along so he has somewhere to live while he looks for a place of his own. Possibly leaving your sister with all of the rent (assuming they split it) to find on here own.
Logical just not very nice
My spidey-senses also tell me to make sure she keeps a REALLY close eye on all finances under which she may be liable.
If someone is prepared to use someone like he apparently is... I reckon they'd not be above a little shafting too.
He needs kicking out though... or their relationship at least needs "rationalising"!
If someone is prepared to use someone like he apparently is... I reckon they'd not be above a little shafting too.
He needs kicking out though... or their relationship at least needs "rationalising"!
silversun said:
No, I am angry for her and sad that she stays with him because he's worn her confidence down so badly that she thinks no-one else will go out with her.
I realise this is a sensitive issue as its your sister, but I am afraid that love is only worth it when both parties are happy and honest. If your sister is getting her confidence battered to such an extent that she believes no one else would want her, she needs time for herself to think about who she is and what she wants.
One sided relationships are vey painful, and often it is caused by exploitation from the 'other half'. The best advice I can give is to get this man the hell out of her life. If he wanted to be with her with his heart, he would not be doing anything behind her back and she would know exactly where his loyalties lie.
The fact that you have already stated that he is a 'dick' furthermore confirms my suspicions that he needs a word in his ear - and I am not talking about violence.
There is no point in spending time in a relationship that is not fulfilling and happy.
Life - this is not a dress rehearsal
I agree about this checking up buisness being sneaky.I had an ex who used to go through my stuff so I left fake notes from imaginary girls in my bag.
It was funny seeing her trying to bring it up without admitting what she'd been up to.
The relationship didn't last very long. . .
Obviously.
It was funny seeing her trying to bring it up without admitting what she'd been up to.
The relationship didn't last very long. . .
Obviously.
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