Any advice on stopping toddlers get car sick?

Any advice on stopping toddlers get car sick?

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UTH

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10,681 posts

193 months

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As titled really, our daughter is nearly 3 and more often than not any car journey more than an hour will involve puking.
We're driving to our family holiday outside Paris next month, now Mrs UTH is getting less keen as she's just returned from a 2 hour drive with more puking.

Any advice please.

Panamax

6,210 posts

49 months

Tuesday
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UTH said:
Any advice please.
A good, clear view out of the front windscreen. Remove front headrest if no front passenger. Obscure the rear side window.
Definitely no phones, books, small toys.
Appropriate medication for longer journeys (if only to break the habit).

UTH

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193 months

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Panamax said:
UTH said:
Any advice please.
A good, clear view out of the front windscreen. Remove front headrest if no front passenger. Obscure the rear side window.
Definitely no phones, books, small toys.
Appropriate medication for longer journeys (if only to break the habit).
Hmmmmm, sadly it'll be two toddler and two adults in one car, so unless one of the adults is happy to be stuck in the back the whole trip, we might struggle to do those things.

Medication I'm keen for!!

essayer

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209 months

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Are she in a rear facing seat? Can she see out the front/side windows?

fooman

276 posts

79 months

Tuesday
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Middle rear seat if not front seat. No tablets, videos, phones, books. Important to be lookimg forward it's usually the disconnect between what child is looking at and motion on inner ear that causes most travel sickness. Oh and sick bags ready if all else fails.

UTH

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essayer said:
Are she in a rear facing seat? Can she see out the front/side windows?
Front facing seat, behind passenger. Probably can't see out the front very well, and in the summer we do have one of those things covering the window mostly, so I guess her view outside isn't great.

LimaDelta

7,289 posts

233 months

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What's the car? Some are far worse than others. In our case a change of vehicles quickly cured the car-sickness. Not the most convenient option I grant you, but it works!

chip*

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243 months

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Maybe try placing the child in the front pax seat (with airbag switched off!).
I suffered with car sickness as a child , and remembered been plonked at the very front seat of coaches which helped to reduce the motion sickness.


UTH

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LimaDelta said:
What's the car? Some are far worse than others. In our case a change of vehicles quickly cured the car-sickness. Not the most convenient option I grant you, but it works!
VW T-Cross......would have thought a pretty inoffensive car.
She did it once in my Focus RS.....more understandable, that one.

E63eeeeee...

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64 months

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I remember those days. Stopping more frequently, tablets and those pressure-point wristbands all seemed to have some effect if they didn't completely cure it.

ATG

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As said above, motion sickness is largely due to some subconscious bit of your brain getting a conflicted picture of your movement. The inner ears' motion sensors are correctly telling the brain that you're moving, but the brain is registering that a lot of the stuff in your field of vision is stationary relative to you. So the data from your ears says "you're moving" but the data from your eyes says "you're stationary" ... and your brain concludes "I might be hallucinating because I've been poisoned" ... so you throw up. That stationary stuff you're seeing is the inside of the car. Hence you want to start looking at the landscape outside the car so you're brain is unambiguously aware that it is indeed moving. The kid needs a clear view of the outside world.

And you need to break the cycle as soon as possible. If you get car sick a lot, the condition gets triggered by earlier and earlier cues ... i.e. your brain starts anticipating that it's going to get car sick and therefore starts you puking straightaway. My sister used to get travel sick on planes. It eventually got so bad that just the smell of kerosene in the car park outside the airport would make her puke.

UTH

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ATG said:
As said above, motion sickness is largely due to some subconscious bit of your brain getting a conflicted picture of your movement. The inner ears' motion sensors are correctly telling the brain that you're moving, but the brain is registering that a lot of the stuff in your field of vision is stationary relative to you. So the data from your ears says "you're moving" but the data from your eyes says "you're stationary" ... and your brain concludes "I might be hallucinating because I've been poisoned" ... so you throw up. That stationary stuff you're seeing is the inside of the car. Hence you want to start looking at the landscape outside the car so you're brain is unambiguously aware that it is indeed moving. The kid needs a clear view of the outside world.

And you need to break the cycle as soon as possible. If you get car sick a lot, the condition gets triggered by earlier and earlier cues ... i.e. your brain starts anticipating that it's going to get car sick and therefore starts you puking straightaway. My sister used to get travel sick on planes. It eventually got so bad that just the smell of kerosene in the car park outside the airport would make her puke.
Wow, interesting info, and concerning regards breaking the cycle. We'll start taking this seriously, last thing we need is for this to become a big problem.

LimaDelta

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233 months

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UTH said:
LimaDelta said:
What's the car? Some are far worse than others. In our case a change of vehicles quickly cured the car-sickness. Not the most convenient option I grant you, but it works!
VW T-Cross......would have thought a pretty inoffensive car.
She did it once in my Focus RS.....more understandable, that one.
My daughter hated both my Hiluxes and regularly suffered travel sickness in them. Was always fine in other cars though.

Skodillac

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45 months

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Got to sit them in the front seat I reckon. It was the only thing which held my youngest's insides inside her.

Any grown adult who cares about the child and the uninterrupted and vomit free progress of a journey will be magnanimous enough to sit in the back, surely. My missus and I took turns.

LimaDelta

7,289 posts

233 months

Tuesday
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ATG said:
As said above, motion sickness is largely due to some subconscious bit of your brain getting a conflicted picture of your movement. The inner ears' motion sensors are correctly telling the brain that you're moving, but the brain is registering that a lot of the stuff in your field of vision is stationary relative to you. So the data from your ears says "you're moving" but the data from your eyes says "you're stationary" ... and your brain concludes "I might be hallucinating because I've been poisoned" ... so you throw up. That stationary stuff you're seeing is the inside of the car. Hence you want to start looking at the landscape outside the car so you're brain is unambiguously aware that it is indeed moving. The kid needs a clear view of the outside world.

And you need to break the cycle as soon as possible. If you get car sick a lot, the condition gets triggered by earlier and earlier cues ... i.e. your brain starts anticipating that it's going to get car sick and therefore starts you puking straightaway. My sister used to get travel sick on planes. It eventually got so bad that just the smell of kerosene in the car park outside the airport would make her puke.
yes It can become self-fulfilling. Especially if people keep telling said child that they suffer car sickness, or hand them a Waitrose bag for life 'just in case' whenever they get in the car.

Peanut Gallery

2,587 posts

125 months

Tuesday
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I get it, tried ginger, over-the-counter travel sick tablets, under-the-counter travel sick tablets, music, no music. In the end I had best results of being cool to cold, wearing the wrist pressure bracelet things, focusing on the road and chewing chewing gum.

The gum was the most effective.

bennno

13,858 posts

284 months

Tuesday
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UTH said:
As titled really, our daughter is nearly 3 and more often than not any car journey more than an hour will involve puking.
We're driving to our family holiday outside Paris next month, now Mrs UTH is getting less keen as she's just returned from a 2 hour drive with more puking.

Any advice please.
Is she being given a mobile or iPad type device?

vaud

55,097 posts

170 months

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Keep the car colder than you think is needed. Kids over heat really quickly. Pre-emptive calpol for some sleep might help.
Cold water in bottles (iced). Nothing sweet to eat - neutral things like breadsticks.
No ipads. Front view for them. Add calm audio books on the car audio or calm music.
Keep the driving super calm as if you were driving the King.
Frequent stops with a walk around.

Most grow out of it but it can take time.

Good luck.

Skodillac

7,752 posts

45 months

vaud said:
breadsticks
Good call. We always grab TUC crackers and they were always pretty well received by the binlids. And me. Crunch crunch.

boyse7en

7,593 posts

180 months

My daughter used to get car sick a lot as a toddler - never mind trips of an hour, she would be hurling before we were out of town, so less than 10 minutes!

We tried wrist bands, motion sickness tablets and various other homespun remedies, none of which really made a difference. Putting her in the front seat helped (airbag off) as did opening the windows (maybe the rushing air helps to confirm to the brain that you are, indeed, moving).

Never cured it. We kept a collection of sick bags and wet wipes in the centre console of every car, and she was quite capable of hurling in the bag by herself even as a very small child. Oddly, once she had been sick she would be fine for several hours before she felt dodgy again.

She's gradually improved as she has got older, and now aged 16 she is mostly fine in cars, but gets bad in coaches and buses. Hopefully it will go completely once she learns to drive (as I have never heard of anyone getting car sick while driving).

TL/DR
You'll never cure it. Teach your toddler to be sick in a bag