Goodbye Bentley

Author
Discussion

Kev_Mk3

Original Poster:

3,234 posts

109 months

Saturday 3rd May
quotequote all
Last night we lost my little black shadow.

Nearly 8 years ago I made a plan to get a dog to help mum with her chemo & keep her company (well to look after the dog while I went to work). He kept her on her toes till she sadly passed.

He is the best thing I ever did as he was amazing. Loved a cuddle, was cheeky, loved us all being a softy and best of all loved his food.

Dog was in a lot of pain Friday so rushed him to the Mrs_G who's a vet nurse who xray'd him and could only find a swollen stomach. Knocked him out and put a tube in to get out what we thought was air but liquid came out.

She brought him home off his face and we booked to go see a out of hours vet the next day as they said let him rest see how he is. We hoped it was a bad gastritis bug doing it but knew it could be bad and prepped a bit. Mrs_G woke me at 1:30 am saying he's gone down hill so going to the 24hr specialist down the road. I gave him a cuddle, said goodbye and on the way (its 10 minutes from my house) he passed away. He wasn't in pain due to the meds but he deteriorated so fast as in less than 12 hours. He is now with a cremation place locally, we are not doing an autopsy it wont change anything.

We knew his life would be shorter than normal due to elbow issues, he already had plates and pins in one to which we kept on top of pain meds but he had a fantastic life & was never a problem at all but didn't think it would be this short.


Love & miss you my little cheese eating mate we are all devastated especially Little_G.

Rest well and look after our other loved ones x



garythesign

2,456 posts

102 months

Saturday 3rd May
quotequote all
What beautiful eyes

Sorry to read this.

I have lost dogs suddenly and also over a long period of time.

Neither is easy

Good luck to your family

DorsetSparky

339 posts

24 months

Saturday 3rd May
quotequote all
So sad reading this. Holding my Golden pup even closer. Smiled at the 'cheese eating mate' bit - we can all relate. Hope Bentley is chowing down on his favourite cheese up there.

Wish

1,581 posts

263 months

Saturday 3rd May
quotequote all
Heart breaking. Sorry for your loss.


moorx

4,187 posts

128 months

Saturday 3rd May
quotequote all
Really sorry to read this, what a gorgeous boy Bentley was and obviously much loved.

Run free at the Bridge, Bentley. Hugs to those who are missing you.

Kev_Mk3

Original Poster:

3,234 posts

109 months

Saturday 3rd May
quotequote all
Thank you all. Less than 24hrs later and still cant get over it. Keep looking for him when the fridge opens and saving something from my dinner for him etc but he isnt staring at me frown

Paulsd

309 posts

108 months

Sunday 4th May
quotequote all
I’m so sorry for your loss. Fly high Bentley.

Bentley looks like he was a very handsome chap.

Everything they say about labradors is true and then some - loving, loyal (and food “motivated” of course!)

I’ve seen a dog instagram meme recently and one of the lines is that you know you would stop time for them if you could. I know I would.

TGCOTF-dewey

6,472 posts

69 months

Sunday 4th May
quotequote all
He was a lovely looking dog. Very handsome. Reminds me of my first black lab Bramble - very similar looking to Bentley.

They really do get under your skin. It is heartbreaking when you lose them.


Its Just Adz

16,181 posts

223 months

Monday 5th May
quotequote all
Really sorry to read this.

Kev_Mk3

Original Poster:

3,234 posts

109 months

Monday 5th May
quotequote all
He is now home with us and the cremation chap put some hair into keyrings for us with paw and nose prints which well broke me.

We had just fully restocked his food etc before passing so I took it to a local dog rescue today and spotted on the board they had re homed a Bentley this month so was a moment to make me smile. They really appreciated the donation along with the near £1000 worth of medication we had just bought for his leg spin at least its really going to help others and that's the main thing.

No plans to get another as not sure I can go through this all again.

Thank you all for your kind words x

moorx

4,187 posts

128 months

Monday 5th May
quotequote all
Kev_Mk3 said:
He is now home with us and the cremation chap put some hair into keyrings for us with paw and nose prints which well broke me.

We had just fully restocked his food etc before passing so I took it to a local dog rescue today and spotted on the board they had re homed a Bentley this month so was a moment to make me smile. They really appreciated the donation along with the near £1000 worth of medication we had just bought for his leg spin at least its really going to help others and that's the main thing.

No plans to get another as not sure I can go through this all again.

Thank you all for your kind words x
Well done for that gesture, I am sure that the rescue were really grateful.

Give yourself time.

Big E 118

2,439 posts

183 months

Wednesday 7th May
quotequote all
So sorry for your loss, our black lab is a Bentley as well!

They're such great members of the family and I'm sure you'll all have lovely memories of the time you spent together.


DannyScene

7,247 posts

169 months

Wednesday 7th May
quotequote all
Sorry for your loss, we had our 16 year old cat PTS yesterday, the house feels very empty without him now, my condolences and wishing you all the best

Kev_Mk3

Original Poster:

3,234 posts

109 months

Wednesday 7th May
quotequote all
DannyScene said:
Sorry for your loss, we had our 16 year old cat PTS yesterday, the house feels very empty without him now, my condolences and wishing you all the best
So sorry to hear, these fluff balls really do get under our skins.

TGCOTF-dewey

6,472 posts

69 months

Wednesday 7th May
quotequote all
Kev_Mk3 said:
No plans to get another as not sure I can go through this all again.
You will...maybe not immediately, and they won't replace him, but they'll be a different equally great dog.

This crumble, he replaced Bramble (Son's choice). Chalk and cheese dogs, but still awesome.




Skyedriver

20,512 posts

296 months

Wednesday 7th May
quotequote all
Sorry to hear about Bentley, Kev.
looks a really handsome feller with a knowing look.

Understand the cheese bit, our Lucy passed 4 weeks ago tomorrow, was always there for cheese (or ham). We no longer have a "pre-wash" on the dishwasher either as our other dog isn't interested.

RIP but run free through the long grass Bentley.

Kev_Mk3

Original Poster:

3,234 posts

109 months

Wednesday 7th May
quotequote all
Skyedriver said:
Sorry to hear about Bentley, Kev.
looks a really handsome feller with a knowing look.

Understand the cheese bit, our Lucy passed 4 weeks ago tomorrow, was always there for cheese (or ham). We no longer have a "pre-wash" on the dishwasher either as our other dog isn't interested.

RIP but run free through the long grass Bentley.
Yes the Pre - wash is a big deal.

Child came in from school today and dropped some gingerbread man saying it was for Bentley.. He didn't arrive and we chuckled.


Also sorry for the loss of Lucy, hopefully they are bouncing round after cheese together