Sex with a 13 year old girl?

[UKBob]

I had a meeting with a client on friday after work, a professional makeup artist after a website. We were looking at photos on her laptop of makup work she had done for movies, decomposed bodies, cuts, gashes, bruising, blistering and of course models and face work. She was easy to talk to, and asked me what I thought of the work she'd done, and the looks of the various models faces both re: the makeup and their actual beauty. All very good I said.

She showed me one sophisticated looking woman of about 18 or 19, asked me if I thought she was beautiful (which I did) and if I bumped into her in a club, hypothetically speaking, as a man would I want to take her home after a night on the town.

Again, hypothetically speaking, probably yes I said. She was after all a stunningly beautiful and sophisticated looking woman. She then went on to tell me that the girl was actually her daughters 13 year old friend :yikes:

I dont go for younger women anyway, nearly all my girlfriends have been from 2 to 20 years older than me... :teacher: But for the younger blokes out there looking for someone of their own age, I'd guess you have to be pretty careful who you took home after a few drinks! My sister didnt look 19 when she was 14, but at 14 she did occassionally go clubbing (and obviously did a little drinking) with her friends.

[turbobloke]

Then you get to thinking about going Dutch...but jailbait has always been a problem, and always will be ... a girl's performance indicators are arriving earlier and getting bigger all the time, not least according to the undie surveys appearing in PH threads.

[wedg1e]

To be fair, men don't fancy 'older' women, they fancy younger ones.
Take me: I'm 41. Not many 41-year-old ladies turn my head, but plenty of 21-year-old ones do.
In fact, going by my dad's reactions to the young ladies of Peterborough last week, the 'problem' gets 'worse' as you get older...
Sadly, not many 21yo ladies find plump, saggy, greying 41yo men attractive... Even though we have a wealth of experience to offer and a relaxed confidence :bullsh!t: that means we're not after instantly ransacking your undies (not to say that we won't, given half a chance)...er... ummm, someone pass me down a ladder, I'm in a deep hole here

[cosmoschick]

wedg1e said:

Not many 41-year-old ladies turn my head, but plenty of 21-year-old ones do.

Not many 40 plus year old chaps turn my head not even if they're driving an Aston although I might have a sneaky at the car. But 21-year old blokes aren't particularly appealing either.

[rich 36]

I think we all know whats being implied here!

[lightningghost]

what's your ideal age then, cosmoschick?


(and is your name anything to do with cosmic girl by Jamiroquai?)

[wedg1e]

cosmoschick said:

wedg1e said: Not many 41-year-old ladies turn my head, but plenty of 21-year-old ones do. Not many 40 plus year old chaps turn my head not even if they're driving an Aston although I might have a sneaky at the car. But 21-year old blokes aren't particularly appealing either.

Now I'm not saying that I could LIVE with a 21yo, don't get me wrong!

But they do have a beneficial effect on the 'phwoar' gland...

[cosmoschick]

lightningghost said:

what's your ideal age then, cosmoschick?

I'd say 22-39.

[rich 36]

cosmoschick said:

wedg1e said:Not many 41-year-old ladies turn my head, but plenty of 21-year-old ones do.




Not many 40 plus year old chaps turn my head not even if they're driving an Aston although I might have a sneaky at the car. But 21-year old blokes aren't particularly appealing either.

[lightningghost]

cosmoschick said:

lightningghost said: what's your ideal age then, cosmoschick? I'd say 22-39.

[Muncher]

I got chatted up by a 13 year old at a party recently. On first glance she looked about 19 but as soon as she started talking to me I realised she wasn't at all.


In any case, I prefer older women by a mile. I'm 21 and I've had this discussion with my m8s, it's generally agreed the ideal woman is 29.

[rich 36]

would an 'adams apple' bother you much?

[Balmoral Green]

If a 13 year old girl looks 19, and you fancy her, is that paedophilia? I would say not, even though technically it is, and it would be illegal. But if a 19 year old girl looks 13, and you fancy her, I would say that was paedophilia, even though technically it wasnt, and it would be legal. Paedophilia is a sexual attraction to minors, but I would have thought that the prime requirement would be to 'look' like a minor, the actual age does cloud the issue somewhat.

[Mrs Fish]

James here:

I will never forget at our wedding our bridesmaid was 12 and looked about 18. I will never forget having a burger talking to one of the band members and after she walked by he commented so I pushed him and he was yes wouldn't mind giving her one and he thought she was about 18-19. I then confirmed she was 12......

Funnily enough he went a bit quiet after that.

>> Edited by Mrs Fish on Sunday 4th September 09:38

[R988]

Muncher said:

In any case, I prefer older women by a mile. I'm 21 and I've had this discussion with my m8s, it's generally agreed the ideal woman is 29.

male sexual peak is supposed to be at 18-25ish age range, female sexual peak is around 28-35, so I guess thats only natural



I'm 22 but look only around 16 (some people even seem to have trouble believing that ). I'm always amazed/annoyed when I meet women my own age as they always look so much older (not that I'd dare tell them that ). Then again occaisionally I'll come across a 25 yo who looks about 15 or a 15 year old who looks about 25, all far too confusing.

Its made even more complicated by the fact women are loathe to tell you their real age (assuming, as a man, your stupid enough to defy accepted social wisdom and ask) and will likely lie a bit anyway (if they are young they say they are older, if older they say they are younger, though between about 18-23 they seem to more or less tell the truth). You can't go around ID checking women either, bouncers at clubs normally turn a blind eye to under age girls so no help there.

Solution have a and order a russian bride off the net :cheers:

[love machine]

I can't see in the life of me why any half intelligent bloke would want to shag a child, even one which was legal. I find most girls below 25 lacking any depth or ability to hold my interest. I reckon women seem to hit their mid 20's and then suddenly get interesting minds. (anyone agree?)

Sorry to talk about women objectively, ladies.

[_dan_]

If theres grass on the wicket, lets play cricket!!

sorry!!

[wedg1e]

Another thing: young women clart themselves up with makeup, mostly (it appears) to make themselves look older.
Then when they ARE older, they have to clag on more makeup to hide the skin they've ruined by clagging it up from a young age....

IMHO of course, I'm no dermatologist... but you try to get your woman (esp. the older variety) to go out 'natural' and see the response you get

[hustlebabe]

wedg1e said:

Another thing: young women clart themselves up with makeup, mostly (it appears) to make themselves look older. Then when they ARE older, they have to clag on more makeup to hide the skin they've ruined by clagging it up from a young age.... IMHO of course, I'm no dermatologist... but you try to get your woman (esp. the older variety) to go out 'natural' and see the response you get

What problems you Teesider guys have with your women...
Must be your cold, wet weather
Live further down south and you may find 'em more revealing...

[hammerwerfer]

I am officially a dirty old man. Seeing that girlies 30 years yonger than me are perfectly legal now actually keeps me going.

Now to convince them that the reciprocal works is the trick. Any young, wealthy, good looking females out there to see me through my dotage?