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Bacon Is Proof

Original Poster:

5,740 posts

261 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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Apologies if there is already a thread running, you'll understand:

The OH's mother is about to die from cancer.
Can the OH travel from Cambridge to Cornwall to see her?

She obviously desperately wants to see her one last time but doesn't want to get turned away mid-journey.

She would be travelling by train, although I could probably borrow a car if needed and drive her.

She doesn't have long to make this decision.

Thanks.

scotlandtim

467 posts

158 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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Officially - No

I would though.

Might be an idea to phone her GP and get him / her to email you a letter stating - shes on end of life care with a very poor prognosis and needs family to provide end of life support in current climate?


Sorry to hear this by the way

Rushjob

2,312 posts

288 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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Why on earth would you think this travel was inappropriate? Condolences and get her on her way. Now.

longblackcoat

5,047 posts

213 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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https://www.college.police.uk/What-we-do/COVID-19/...

This would fit in the "providing support" element.

Get going - now. I'd drive, personally; the trains are rubbish at the moment.

pavarotti1980

6,381 posts

114 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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Bacon Is Proof said:
Apologies if there is already a thread running, you'll understand:

The OH's mother is about to die from cancer.
Can the OH travel from Cambridge to Cornwall to see her?

She obviously desperately wants to see her one last time but doesn't want to get turned away mid-journey.

She would be travelling by train, although I could probably borrow a car if needed and drive her.

She doesn't have long to make this decision.

Thanks.
Go and see her.

If stopped, its care being provided to relative

steveo3002

11,234 posts

204 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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go and worry about tickets later

Carrot

7,294 posts

232 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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Does your OH have any correspondence from the hospital?

May help if they do get stopped by an over-zealous officer.

I would definitely be gone.

pavarotti1980

6,381 posts

114 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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Carrot said:
Does your OH have any correspondence from the hospital?

May help if they do get stopped by an over-zealous officer.

I would definitely be gone.
I wouldnt even worry about that. Live in care for immediate relative.

Riley Blue

23,205 posts

256 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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longblackcoat said:
https://www.college.police.uk/What-we-do/COVID-19/...

This would fit in the "providing support" element.

Get going - now. I'd drive, personally; the trains are rubbish at the moment.
Agreed.

From the document above:

"The applicable threshold is that of ‘reasonable excuse’."

You have a 'reasonable excuse'.

I'd drive too.

agtlaw

7,416 posts

236 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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scotlandtim said:
Officially - No
Ignore this.

The OP has described "a reasonable excuse" to leave their home.

Reg 6(2)(d) - "to provide care or assistance ... to a vulnerable person."

If stopped and if true then OH should say - "my mother is dying of cancer and I'm travelling so I can care for her in her final days" rather than "I just want to say goodbye."


Bacon Is Proof

Original Poster:

5,740 posts

261 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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Thanks chaps, It's what I told her but she is a natural born worrier and I knew PH would provide reassurance promptly.

Unfortunately we got the phone call on the way to the station.

Thanks again.

irocfan

49,164 posts

220 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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bugger was just about to echo what everyone else on here has said - get going for your goodbyes, but 'the call' sounds like what I sincely hope it isn't.

Condolences either way frown

surveyor

18,705 posts

214 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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I drove 1100 miles last week throughout England and Wales, all for work so permitted.

I saw quite a few police cars, but very few seemed to be stopping anyone, especially on the motorway network. My motorhome was ignored.

Jasandjules

72,648 posts

259 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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Do you really care whether or not it is "lawful" at this stage? Visit her. Worry about the rest later if needs be

craigjm

21,627 posts

230 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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Jasandjules said:
Do you really care whether or not it is "lawful" at this stage? Visit her. Worry about the rest later if needs be
Sounds to me like she died earlier frown

A1VDY

3,575 posts

157 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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Very sorry to hear of your loss.
It also happened to me with my own mother, I was 3 hours too late..

martinbiz

3,703 posts

175 months

Monday 20th April 2020
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anonymous said:
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JEEEEEEEEEZ !!! He doesnt need to do any of that, he just needs to get in his car and drive, when are people going to get a grip of this situation, rather than soaking up fake rubbish off the internet about what they can and can't do.

OP Very sorry for your loss if the worst has happened

KAgantua

5,190 posts

161 months

Tuesday 21st April 2020
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martinbiz said:
anonymous said:
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JEEEEEEEEEZ !!! He doesnt need to do any of that, he just needs to get in his car and drive, when are people going to get a grip of this situation, rather than soaking up fake rubbish off the internet about what they can and can't do.

OP Very sorry for your loss if the worst has happened
Totally agreed -