Born without a face....anyone see?
Born without a face....anyone see?
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father ted

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3,069 posts

276 months

Tuesday 17th May 2005
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Did anyone see how the little girl got on in this programme?......i saw just up to the part where she went into theatre.....had to switch off then .....just too distressing to watch for me.

I hope they made her life a bit easier....poor girl.

pesty

42,655 posts

285 months

Tuesday 17th May 2005
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no.

Ive seen 2 adverts for this programme.

one about the girl with no face and the other about the girl who has aged beyond her years.

I had to fight back the tears just watching the adverts.

No way I could wacth all of teh programme. kind of puts things in perspective dosnt it.

father ted

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3,069 posts

276 months

Tuesday 17th May 2005
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certainly does.

too often,people take a healthy 'normal' life for granted.

I hate to see any child suffer like they do.....

kneedowndeano

7,414 posts

282 months

Tuesday 17th May 2005
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Watched the girl without a face. She is still to have loads more operations, but the docs are actually starting to form a face by taking bone from other areas to create a new structure or to cover new holes that appear in her skull. Compared to what she looked like when she was born, there has been a massive transformation, current prediction say that she will be in her teens before she has a face that will be more acceptable to society (as it were).

pesty

42,655 posts

285 months

Tuesday 17th May 2005
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father ted said:
certainly does.

too often,people take a healthy 'normal' life for granted.

I hate to see any child suffer like they do.....


me too I can't stand watching children in pain.

I have problems, we all do but at the end of teh day I have 2 perfect children. I dont know how I would cope in that situation

silverback mike

11,293 posts

282 months

Tuesday 17th May 2005
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Truly amazing what can be done. Makes you wonder why people winge about miniscule things.

Got to hand it to the medics, the parents, and the little girl herself. I found the programme particularly moving, and the bravery of the parents astounding.

anonymous-user

83 months

Tuesday 17th May 2005
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Had to admire her parents for their incredible strength.

alexkp

16,484 posts

273 months

Tuesday 17th May 2005
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I find these types of programmes very humbling and moving.

It does also make me wonder if sometomes we do the right thing in respect of medical technology.

Fifty years ago that child would not have survived. Do we always do the right thing in preserving life no matter what? Does it make us more or less civilised?

I really don't know the answer to that very difficult question, and would be interested in others opinions.



>> Edited by alexkp on Tuesday 17th May 22:37

jessica

6,321 posts

281 months

Tuesday 17th May 2005
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we should all accept people for who they are and not what they look like.

that little girl has lots more surgery to go through before she even gets to normalish.But inside her is a beautiful person.

her parents are strong and they love her unconditionally
she will get there in the end.
as a society we need to be more tolerant of people who are different.

BliarOut

72,863 posts

268 months

Tuesday 17th May 2005
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The worst bit for me was when she tried to cry, but you couldn't hear it

Made me so thankful for my wonderful daughters

Kneedowndeano

7,414 posts

282 months

Wednesday 18th May 2005
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BliarOut said:
The worst bit for me was when she tried to cry, but you couldn't hear it

Made me so thankful for my wonderful daughters


That got to me too, i was starting to well up!

stumartin

1,706 posts

266 months

Wednesday 18th May 2005
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garyhun said:
Had to admire her parents for their incredible strength.



Her parents were truly admirable; a tower of strength and support for both their children. The little girl was so impressive to be so full of life and energy, you could see in the way other children interacted with her that her personality shone through. Without gushing too much, it was a great programme.

[/rare moment of blokey sensitivity ]

nubbin

6,809 posts

307 months

Wednesday 18th May 2005
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Me and Mrs. Nubbin had a huge debate about it - very difficult subject.

However, the years of reconstructive surgey should lead to a reasonably normal face, probably akin to someone who's had severe facial burns. I hope the parents and the little girl can stand up to all the years of suffering ahead of them. Very sad.

tinman0

18,231 posts

269 months

Wednesday 18th May 2005
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stumartin said:

garyhun said:
Had to admire her parents for their incredible strength.




Her parents were truly admirable; a tower of strength and support for both their children. The little girl was so impressive to be so full of life and energy, you could see in the way other children interacted with her that her personality shone through. Without gushing too much, it was a great programme.

[/rare moment of blokey sensitivity ]



their strength brought a tear to my eye. no matter what her disability, they saw through it and gave unconditional love only a parent can.


btw, who was paying for the medical care?

havoc

33,336 posts

264 months

Wednesday 18th May 2005
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We watched it. Really amazing, both the strength of the parents and the ability/technology of the surgeons.

The in-theatre footage was very graphic, be glad you missed it Ted. For a non-sqeamish info-junkie like me, it was very informative, but Becky couldn't watch it all.

We're both hoping they revisit her in 2-3 years time for an update.

Kneedowndeano

7,414 posts

282 months

Wednesday 18th May 2005
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tinman0 said:




btw, who was paying for the medical care?



US Army/navy. Its been about $3million so far.

edited because i can't edit.

>> Edited by Kneedowndeano on Wednesday 18th May 12:19

stumartin

1,706 posts

266 months

Wednesday 18th May 2005
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Kneedowndeano said:

stumartin said:




btw, who was paying for the medical care?



US Army/navy. Its been about $3million so far.


I didn't ask that - Tinman did! But, yes - the father is in the navy IIRC and hence they've been picking up the tab on insurance.

bigandclever

14,346 posts

267 months

Wednesday 18th May 2005
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Lots more information here... www.armytimes.com/story.php?f=1-292236-573160.php

Most of the time, Channel 5 gets flak for showing lowest common denominator tv - and sometimes it has an absolute gem of a program.