Is it better to live in the North or South….?
Is it better to live in the North or South….?
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Chim_Girl

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6,268 posts

288 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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Chav Girl may be heading saaarf….

There is a possible job change that would involve a move from the Arctic North; the job is likely to be split between two sites; Docklands and the South Coast. Looking at the map somewhere like Haywards Heath, East Grinstead would seem the kind of location we would need to live in. House prices seem to be similar to here in Yorkshire, so that isn’t a huge consideration. However, I am interested to find out if anyone has any thoughts, particularly if you’ve lived in both the north and south. Do you prefer one to the other, if so why...?

Mrs Fish

30,018 posts

287 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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cosmoschick

7,977 posts

278 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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Chim_Girl said:
Looking at the map somewhere like Haywards Heath, East Grinstead would seem the kind of location we would need to live in.


That's where I live!

DanBoy

4,899 posts

272 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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I think if you compare the price of beer in the two regions, it will give a fair idea of how the overall cost of living differs between North and South.

In Manchester I paid £1.05 for a pint of Banks'.

In London I once paid £2.80 for a pint of Tetleys.



selmer

2,760 posts

271 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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You'll regret it dahhhling.
You can always nip to London for a weekend to get your fix of culture/art/shopping etc. Even a trip on Eurostar is fairly straightforward from the North.

Stay up north,on the doorstep to the Dales and rename yourself 'GRIM Girl'

JMGS4

8,923 posts

299 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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And don't forget if you say "Good Morning" to someone in Lunnun they look at you as if you've two heads or are attempting to rape them.........
Dahn Saarf Nay I say, only rats take part in the ratrace!
Oop Noorth for me, more polite, more "civilised", time to pass the time of day and friendlier.....

fishtek69

535 posts

267 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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Think I'd prefer it 'up North' to be honest. Prices seem cheaper on lots of things, and higher wages in the South (?) often don't make up for it. I presume you have friends, family, etc in Yorkshire, that will be a lot less accessible if you move 100's of miles away.

JagLover

46,739 posts

264 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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My favourite part of the country is the south west.

Chim_Girl

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6,268 posts

288 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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DanBoy said:
I think if you compare the price of beer in the two regions, it will give a fair idea of how the overall cost of living differs between North and South.
In Manchester I paid £1.05 for a pint of Banks'.
In London I once paid £2.80 for a pint of Tetleys.


I agree with your sentiment about there being cost of living to consider, but on the whole the cost of living can't be that different, can it? I'm living in Leeds at the moment, typically a pint is ~£2.20, and a bottle of lager in a city centre pub is £3.00, but I could probably find some dodgy old timers place that would sell me a pint of beer for £1.30.

A meal out for two is usually ~£100.00. Council Tax on a 4 bed house is ~£200.00 per month. Is the south greatly different?

Chim_Girl

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288 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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fishtek69 said:
I presume you have friends, family, etc in Yorkshire, that will be a lot less accessible if you move 100's of miles away.


My friends are all over the place; the largest concentration being in the Midlands, which is handy.

wolves_wanderer

12,952 posts

266 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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From having lived in the north and south (and middle) my favourite was living up north. The cost of living was much more acceptable and I found the people friendlier, basically all the cliches. Although the wages are higher down south, so is the cost of living, if your new job's money will bridge the gap then fair enough.

Of course if you do move down south you'll soon look at strangers with suspicion and hostility and not have time for all your old friends

Edit, I see you live in Leeds, I used to live there and absolutely loved every minute.

Shuffles towards the door crying, remembering what it was like to live in a city with non-chav nightlife

>> Edited by wolves_wanderer on Tuesday 19th April 09:57

JagLover

46,739 posts

264 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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wolves_wanderer said:

Of course if you do move down south you'll soon look at strangers with suspicion and hostility and not have time for all your old friends


Not all the South is like that. London and its surrounding is, but thats maybe becuase there are so many nut cases around.

anonymous-user

83 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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I was born and bred in London and the southeast and for the last 10 years have lived on the edge of the Yorkshire Dales.

THE NORTH IS BETTER

The pace of life is much more conducive to good living up here, its far less crowded, there are hardly any speed cameras and its much warmer.

wanty1974

3,704 posts

277 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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I have a group of friends who live just south of the Ashdown Forest (in between East Grinstead and HH) and it's perfect for both Docklands and Brighton/Worthing. As I was born in Brighton (but now living in Wales) I'm obviously biased but Sussex & southern Surrey is gorgeous, the Ashdown area is lovely and I actually think that people in that area are more welcoming of northerners than the reverse. Rural towns such as East Grinstead really are lovely and I honestly believe the quality of life you would have would be far better than Leeds or Manchester.

Twincam16

27,647 posts

287 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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London. Red Ken. I rest my case.

You drive your car up North and people will give you admiring glances. You drive it down South and people will sneer and chant slogans at you. Things are too expensive down there and the standards of living is restrictive (OK so this refers to London but London is spreading and the 'London attitude' is engulfing the South East in general (a friend of mine from Southend says that it's a faceless extension of London - London is the only focal point down there).

JagLover

46,739 posts

264 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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Twincam16 said:


You drive your car up North and people will give you admiring glances. You drive it down South and people will sneer and chant slogans at you.


i've not noticed this myself Twincam.

wolves_wanderer

12,952 posts

266 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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JagLover said:

wolves_wanderer said:

Of course if you do move down south you'll soon look at strangers with suspicion and hostility and not have time for all your old friends



Not all the South is like that. London and its surrounding is, but thats maybe becuase there are so many nut cases around.


It was tongue in cheek hence me being such a winker

Chim_Girl

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288 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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unrepentant said:
The pace of life is much more conducive to good living up here, its far less crowded, there are hardly any speed cameras and its much warmer.

Y'see that was one factor that was making the move seem appealing, the south is warmer than here. I went back to the Midlands recently, my friends had a garden full of flowers and could sit outside in the early evening, got back up here and we still had a frost!

bga

8,134 posts

280 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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Twincam16 said:
(a friend of mine from Southend says that it's a faceless extension of London - London is the only focal point down there).


If you live in Southend you need another focal point. Much of London is crap but that pales into insignificance compared to Southend!

Mrs Fish

30,018 posts

287 months

Tuesday 19th April 2005
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Chim_Girl said:

unrepentant said:
The pace of life is much more conducive to good living up here, its far less crowded, there are hardly any speed cameras and its much warmer.


Y'see that was one factor that was making the move seem appealing, the south is warmer than here. I went back to the Midlands recently, my friends had a garden full of flowers and could sit outside in the early evening, got back up here and we still had a frost!



I took it to mean he was talking about the North?????