A cat seems to have adopted me, help!
A cat seems to have adopted me, help!
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soda

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1,131 posts

177 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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As per the title a cat seems to want to live with me, I don't have one and I don't want one.

It's a big black one, massive in fact and has definitely been in the wars. Half eaten ears and a few scars on him. I nearly st myself the other night putting rubbish out and it headbutted my leg. It seems to have taken up residence in the garden about 3 days ago and has tried to follow me into the house a couple of times. I haven't fed it and don't intend to, it is clearly far from starvation anyway.

Would prefer not to get the charities involved as it'll end up being put down as nobody would want this beast stalking their house, its like the cat of the Baskervilles.

Any ideas other than me hoping it gets bored and goes away?

HATS ARE BORING

24,019 posts

210 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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Congratulations, you've been chosen!

gentlemangreen

1,121 posts

217 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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Congrats again! Pics! wink

Jasandjules

71,123 posts

245 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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You are obviously (contrary to your assertion that you don't want a cat) a nice person, and the cat has decided that you are to the person who will give him shelter, attention and food.

Just get some food and let him in (does he have a collar?). You won't have mice in your house (well, unless he is like Giles, a cat owned by a friend of mine, a cat who watches the dog chase the mice...)..

Chris Type R

8,397 posts

265 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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Despite appearances this might be someone's pet. If the cat is amenable perhaps you could take him to a local vet to scan for a chip.


soda

Original Poster:

1,131 posts

177 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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Chosen eek

Seriously though, I really do not want a cat. I really don't think this is a runaway pet either, bar giving me a couple of headbutts it backs off when I go to stroke it.

If it has chosen me it's probably as its next meal, must be half as big again as any other cat I have clapped eyes on. It could well be stalking me now, waiting to pounce if I leave the house.

Simpo Two

89,225 posts

281 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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Maybe its owners are away on hols so it's getting bored and lonely.

ali_kat

32,081 posts

237 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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Could just be a friendly cat that has decided he likes you

Headbutts are a sign of affection, not dinner wink

Is he meowing at you at all?

If he starts to come every night & the rain has started, consider letting him in & putting a collar on him with a note barrel asking the owner to contact you smile

750turbo

6,164 posts

240 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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Some people have all the luck!

Feed it now please smile

soda

Original Poster:

1,131 posts

177 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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Hasn't made a sound so far, couple of headbutts but backs off if I lean down. Seems to be very wary of getting too close. I'm presuming it's a he given the general size and fat skull.

I'm going to try and get a pic next time he appears, maybe stick a poster in the local shop. Starting to think it may have wandered from a nearby farm or something.

steve2

1,819 posts

234 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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you are so lucky, having only one to deal with i mean,
we have 2 that come to the door and wail for food and my wife gives in to them although we have our own cat, so cannot take in the strays

1598

770 posts

179 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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Turn a wooden box on its side with a blanket in it for the cat tosleep in, somewhere sheltered from the wind and give it food/water when it comes. You don't have to let it in the house so long as it's fed and warm

Go on, have a heart...

mph1977

12,467 posts

184 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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soda said:
Chosen eek

Seriously though, I really do not want a cat. I really don't think this is a runaway pet either, bar giving me a couple of headbutts it backs off when I go to stroke it.

If it has chosen me it's probably as its next meal, must be half as big again as any other cat I have clapped eyes on. It could well be stalking me now, waiting to pounce if I leave the house.
you have been chosen ! his cat-fu has detected that you are a nice person - seriously cats are experts at reading people

be worthwhile getting him scanned for a chip to see if he does have a real home ...

if he's an unsnipped tom or was snipped late he will have grown to proper adult tom size - which is pretty large compared to a snipped tom or or a lady cat snipped or unsnipped


HATS ARE BORING

24,019 posts

210 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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We had one 'chose' us around 12 years ago. He is a miserable little bd really, but i'm fond of him. Despite scraps and being run over, he has endured 5 cats coming and going.

pinchmeimdreamin

10,415 posts

234 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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I had the same thing a year or so ago and like you said absolutely no way he is staying.

In the end I came up with the perfect solution.























Give in!



soda

Original Poster:

1,131 posts

177 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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banghead

I must be getting soft in my old age, threw a couple of ham slices down the garden. Hopefully it will soon realise that it will not connive its way indoors and go torture someone else.

Not that I don't like cats, ex had a couple and they were handy for keeping my feet warm in the winter. But... I do regularly long shifts or 2/3 days away at a time, not fair on any pet as I live on my own currently.

rudecherub

1,997 posts

182 months

Wednesday 5th October 2011
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soda said:
banghead

I must be getting soft in my old age, threw a couple of ham slices down the garden. Hopefully it will soon realise that it will not connive its way indoors and go torture someone else.

Not that I don't like cats, ex had a couple and they were handy for keeping my feet warm in the winter. But... I do regularly long shifts or 2/3 days away at a time, not fair on any pet as I live on my own currently.
A black cat that has been in the wars adopts you?

This is chick magnet story of heroic potential.

"this is the cat" Present pic. "He adopted me"

You could call him Greebo.

Assuming he hasn't a owner. Congrats.

freecar

4,249 posts

203 months

Thursday 6th October 2011
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A big fat tom cat adopting you, as somebody else pointed out it's snatchnip!

He does sound stray, headbutts but is too scared to be stroked, sounds like he likes you and hopes you'll like him back!

Oh and sliced ham? He's never leaving now!

HATS ARE BORING

24,019 posts

210 months

Thursday 6th October 2011
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He's training you up nicely, you're a quick learner! Ham today, snuggled in front of the fire tomorrow. You can't let him wait out there in the rain after all now you've got his hopes up can you? smile

Jasandjules

71,123 posts

245 months

Thursday 6th October 2011
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Ham? Ham? Well, that'll make him go away......

Seriously, just let him in, get a cat flap, he will be quite happy, and given it's getting colder and wetter, he's a lot safer in your house than out in the bad weather.

Does sound like he's a little nervous of you though, but once he's in the house just sit in your chair and I suspect he'll come over and sit near you etc..

You know you want a cat, and now you have one. It's all good.