Baby books etc
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muppetdave

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2,118 posts

254 months

Friday 17th June 2011
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Well it finally caught up with me - the Mrs is pregnant and due December 17th. Touch wood and not wishing to tempt fate, but this was planned (albeit held up by six months as she had to have her gall bladder removed), but we conceived pretty quickly after starting to try, so I appear to have good swimmers!

The Mrs has been desperate for a child since we met (reckons her biological clock is ticking at 34... women!) and more so the last year or so, and as you might expect has read every single book inside out twice, and we have a few good midwife/nursing friends.

I've just gone along with everything, but haven't really read up on anything in particular - I do glean a lot of information from her, but wondered if there's any good, not too in-depth books written with a male perspective in mind. I don't want chapter and verse on every trimester etc but would appreciate a good overview to know where things are going, what happens when etc. Any recommendations?

arebrec

3,545 posts

252 months

Friday 17th June 2011
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When your wife see's her Midwife she should be given an A4 size purple coloured book called 'The Pregnancy Book', I've found this very useful, not too indepth but covers the basics and enough to get you by.

good luck and congratulations thumbup

Antonia

305 posts

190 months

ewenm

28,506 posts

274 months

Friday 17th June 2011
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The OH and I both found What to expect: The first year to be very helpful.

muppetdave

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2,118 posts

254 months

Friday 17th June 2011
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Cheers guys, will have a nosey at those. Yes she has the pregnancy book, so I'll have a looksee there too. I did find the NCT website to be handy as well, apparently that's where we're booked in for antenatal classes...

ewenm

28,506 posts

274 months

Friday 17th June 2011
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We did the NCT classes - they are excellent for Pregnancy & Birth info but ours was no use for Parenting info.

muppetdave

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2,118 posts

254 months

Friday 17th June 2011
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Cheers Ewen - friend of mine's mrs gave birth around Xmas, and I think the most he got personally was some similarly minded drinking buddies!!

sneijder

5,231 posts

263 months

Saturday 18th June 2011
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You really don't need to go overboard with the books, it all comes naturally.

It's easy to say that looking back of course.

One thing I would recommend is knowing breast feeding inside out. If the baby doesn't take to it, which is common, your missus can get quite upset. It's good to know what's going on.

Pot Bellied Fool

2,260 posts

266 months

Tuesday 21st June 2011
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As this is PH, the baby Haynes is a must biggrin

I fouund it handy although am now too tired to refer back to it!

I also liked Fatherhood: The Truth which I bought following a recommendation on PH iirc.

Hard to think she's a toddler already!