Limit tech time for kids

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EdT

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5,132 posts

290 months

Tuesday 6th September 2022
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3 school kids, with a variety of handheld devices, mainly Apple, some Android. I know in IoS you can set time limits, and Google have something also.
But.. what are a viable other options? And not going around hiding all the devices, need something hands-free. Dont mind paying (a bit)

Alorotom

12,101 posts

193 months

Tuesday 6th September 2022
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All Apple household here and I do use the Apple screen time feature but I also have profiles setup within our Eero mesh wifi system that effectively disconnect all wifi devices at predetermined times of the day/week.

Seems to work well so far and is free.

coldel

8,362 posts

152 months

Tuesday 6th September 2022
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Whats wrong with using the devices own parental controls in IoS and Google? I use Google View Link which allows me to control lock and unlock times, prevents installation of apps, and restricts screen time. Works perfectly fine and is free.

EdT

Original Poster:

5,132 posts

290 months

Tuesday 6th September 2022
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Alorotom said:
All Apple household here and I do use the Apple screen time feature but I also have profiles setup within our Eero mesh wifi system that effectively disconnect all wifi devices at predetermined times of the day/week.

Seems to work well so far and is free.
I've got Gigaclear which uses a Linksys app. Potentially I could do something like that, but device names in the app are unclear; with 60 ish potential devices on the network it would be a lot of trial and error to sort which is which. Though, if I could it might be great. Going to contant Linksys to see if there's a way to ping a device to clarity the list.

Edited by EdT on Tuesday 6th September 16:30

sgrimshaw

7,389 posts

256 months

Tuesday 6th September 2022
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Can you not identify the devices from the mac addresses?

bigandclever

13,924 posts

244 months

Tuesday 6th September 2022
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Could you connect each device you're interested in to the Guest network, instead of your main connection (so there'd only be one device at a time connected) and just work through methodically? Then you can do all your renaming for a known device.

EdT

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5,132 posts

290 months

Wednesday 7th September 2022
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bigandclever said:
Could you connect each device you're interested in to the Guest network, instead of your main connection (so there'd only be one device at a time connected) and just work through methodically? Then you can do all your renaming for a known device.
Big and clever smile

eeLee

837 posts

86 months

Wednesday 7th September 2022
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I have about 60 devices on my network, all with DHCP reservations based on their real MAC address. I then turn the range for DHCP to one fixed machine and no new devices can come on the network.

It gets a little easier with a 17-year-old (read: we give up to an extent) but he has had to ask to put new devices on the network and his devices do have time limits after which they don't work. Parental controls on the device worked when he was 12/13/14 but not any more.

surveyor

18,060 posts

190 months

Wednesday 7th September 2022
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There are ways around Screentime.

I'm told that Apple and kids know them. I certainly don't!

I've given up now!

Captain_Morgan

1,243 posts

65 months

Wednesday 7th September 2022
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EdT said:
I've got Gigaclear which uses a Linksys app. Potentially I could do something like that, but device names in the app are unclear; with 60 ish potential devices on the network it would be a lot of trial and error to sort which is which. Though, if I could it might be great. Going to contant Linksys to see if there's a way to ping a device to clarity the list.

Edited by EdT on Tuesday 6th September 16:30
Or you could just look on there devices get the IP address’s, go to the router look at the dhcp lease table & match the IP’s, then use dhcp reservations so those devices always get the same IP address, name them so you know what they are & then apply the parental controls.

EdT

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5,132 posts

290 months

Wednesday 7th September 2022
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bigandclever said:
Could you connect each device you're interested in to the Guest network, instead of your main connection (so there'd only be one device at a time connected) and just work through methodically? Then you can do all your renaming for a known device.
Connected 1 tablet with Guest Access... all fine. Now stuck , as I cant see any list of connected devices in the 'guest access' part of the App. Googling...

_-XXXX-_

10,341 posts

211 months

Wednesday 7th September 2022
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Out of interest, how on earth do you end up with 60 devices?! I can't even think of 20 devices that my kids would need WiFi access for....

Robmarriott

2,707 posts

164 months

Wednesday 7th September 2022
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_-XXXX-_ said:
Out of interest, how on earth do you end up with 60 devices?! I can't even think of 20 devices that my kids would need WiFi access for....
3 kids and two adults;

Phone, tablet, laptop each, TV in each bedroom and the living room, games console for each kid, maybe a Switch each too… there’s 26.

Add laptops, printers, smart plugs, ring doorbell, Nest thermostat, Sonos speakers, soundbars and subs, Various Alexas or similar and you won’t be far off.

ETA - Apple Watch, Garmin for the bike rides…

60 in a 5 person household is probably not far off the average.

Edited by Robmarriott on Wednesday 7th September 15:19

EdT

Original Poster:

5,132 posts

290 months

Thursday 8th September 2022
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Robmarriott said:
3 kids and two adults;

Phone, tablet, laptop each, TV in each bedroom and the living room, games console for each kid, maybe a Switch each too… there’s 26.

Add laptops, printers, smart plugs, ring doorbell, Nest thermostat, Sonos speakers, soundbars and subs, Various Alexas or similar and you won’t be far off.

ETA - Apple Watch, Garmin for the bike rides…

60 in a 5 person household is probably not far off the average.

Edited by Robmarriott on Wednesday 7th September 15:19
Pretty much that.. nearly everything seems to be WIFI enabled in the house.. outdoor/indoor cameras, phones, tablets, TVs, laptops, desktops, watches, consoles, Alexas...

Magnum 475

3,625 posts

138 months

Thursday 8th September 2022
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If you don't mind a subscription-based service, Qustodio takes a lot of beating. The advantage is that this continues to work even if they're not connected to your home network and gives you much more control than the built-in features of iOS or Android.


EdT

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5,132 posts

290 months

Friday 9th September 2022
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Our tactic is to chuck heaps of time / cash at a variety activities (riding lessons, guitar lessons, piano lessons, 9 holes of golf, park over the road, local pub smile etc)
Some of these are most enjoyable. Clearly you cant do these all day, but this gets our 3 off tech for a while, and chatting with us. I'm no spring chicken (50s, kids all young) and we both work fulltime so it can be tiring.
Agree that best way is to physically take devices.. we try to do this nightly, but sometimes forget

eps

6,397 posts

275 months

Friday 9th September 2022
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I just use Family Link from Google for this. Then both my wife and I can control access to a certain extent, for an Android Phone. Family Link is free and can be controlled from iOS and Android devices.

Laptop + Xbox wise it is Microsoft's access control for those two.

Television I connect it to the Mesh and then control some access there as well. Plus most providers enable you to add children's accounts + age limits.

As others have said once they're 14/15+ it isn't really achievable and hopefully they have learnt some self control by then!!

Blib

45,225 posts

203 months

Friday 9th September 2022
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You don't need to 'hide' the devices. You just take them away when you decide that time's up.

This is not rocket science. You're the grown up.

zedx19

2,855 posts

146 months

Friday 9th September 2022
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4 kids in my house, all with tablets, the eldest just got a TV and Xbox in his room. All tablets are on Google Family Link, where they have to send a request to install a new app, screentime can be limited, bedtime set etc, works great.

Xbox is setup as a kids account, where again he has to send a request to install anything. Again, time limits setup.

I also have his Xbox/TV on a smartplug, which turns off at bedtime and on in the morning.

There's ways to monitor/restrict any Android/IOS/Xbox/Playstation device now, just needs setting up as such.

deckster

9,631 posts

261 months

Friday 9th September 2022
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Blib said:
You don't need to 'hide' the devices. You just take them away when you decide that time's up.

This is not rocket science. You're the grown up.
This, times a million.