Do you acknowledge friendly car drivers?

Do you acknowledge friendly car drivers?

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sheepy

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3,164 posts

256 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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Wandering past, I saw the "nodding" thread and wondered about acknowledging cars.

So how many of you bother to acknowledge a car who gets out of your way (either in a slow queue or on an open road)? I'm not a biker (I could never ride one after losing a close family member), but I always try to move over (even on open roads) to make it easier for an approaching bike to pass. Yet I'd say only about a quarter of the bikers ever wave or nod thanks.

Maybe they think I'm just driving erratically (after all, quite a lot of car drivers do!), or maybe the bikers arround Leighton / MK are just ungrateful

Sheepy

Davel

8,982 posts

265 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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Always!

Mon Ami Mate

6,589 posts

275 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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sheepy said:
Wandering past, I saw the "nodding" thread and wondered about acknowledging cars.

So how many of you bother to acknowledge a car who gets out of your way (either in a slow queue or on an open road)? I'm not a biker (I could never ride one after losing a close family member), but I always try to move over (even on open roads) to make it easier for an approaching bike to pass. Yet I'd say only about a quarter of the bikers ever wave or nod thanks.

Maybe they think I'm just driving erratically (after all, quite a lot of car drivers do!), or maybe the bikers arround Leighton / MK are just ungrateful

Sheepy


Whenever possible - although I do sometimes find myself with my hands full!

s2ooz

3,005 posts

291 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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yeah me too. however in defence, its a bit tricky sometimes, both hands are needed to steer, unlike a car, and with the clutch there too...and acceleration with one hand isnt clever..

and during the unsuing overtake offered by the car, heavy steering and gear changes, and hard acceleration are all combined, so my apologies from the bike fraternity if we dont always say thanks.

a j

450 posts

256 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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Always if i can.

Although i've had on the odd ocasion drivers who pull over in bad positions and look a bit eratic / umpredictable swerving etc and then get p155ed off when i dont pass on their demand! One guy started hand signals (unpleasent type!) flashing and beeping. I thought i'd done something wrong!

bikerkeith

794 posts

271 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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Usually, provided I can spare a hand. I work on the basis that if I acknowledge, the driver will be more likely to look out for bikes in the future.

hughesie2

12,591 posts

289 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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954 girlie said:

Edited to add.... in France they acknowledge each other & courteous car drivers by sticking out their leg!! -

i always stick the leg out, helps maintain control of the most important bits !!

It does look a bit weird though !!

spanktrumpet

24 posts

256 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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All the time

jacko lah

3,297 posts

256 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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954 girlie said:
Always!!
It's really important!


Edited to add.... in France they acknowledge each other & courteous car drivers by sticking out their leg!! - it's a bit weird but works cos you don't have to take your hands off the bars, if I can't do that then I nod - but always make the effort to do something - it's in our interest to get drivers on our side & we are the minority with bad press at every given opportunity.

>> Edited by 954 girlie on Tuesday 9th September 12:30


My wife thought it was either an insult or they had leg ache ! Thanks for clearing it up for me

sheepy

Original Poster:

3,164 posts

256 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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s2ooz said:
yeah me too. however in defence, its a bit tricky sometimes, both hands are needed to steer, unlike a car, and with the clutch there too...and acceleration with one hand isnt clever..

and during the unsuing overtake offered by the car, heavy steering and gear changes, and hard acceleration are all combined, so my apologies from the bike fraternity if we dont always say thanks.


Ah, never considered the "hands full" point. I'll now assume the bikers are grateful but busy rather than ungrateful and grumpy

Sheepy

beano500

20,854 posts

282 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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When I was on a bike I always tried to.

Now in a car (or this week a blue van parked on the M25 ) I am very gratified every time a biker waves if I can make some room - and I try to as much as possible.

I don't have much patience for the type that ride down the opposite side of the road past a line of traffic (whether stationary or moving) on broken or solid lines (especially when passing islands on the wrong side ) without giving way to the opposing traffic mind. Or squeeze through obviously closing gaps - do they really want to be the meat in the sandwich? Apart from that, I will always try and help you guys maintain your progress if it's safe for me to do so...

sheepy

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3,164 posts

256 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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954 girlie said:
It is sad that I have experienced the reverse of this 'blocking' some car drivers are so infuriated from being stuck in a queue that they actually move to stop you filtering - of course you get by in the end - so what is the point? never understood this & thankfully I've only experienced it a couple of times.


I've see people do that, and I've often felt like getting out of my car, kocking on their window and say "You're a fg tw@ aren't you?". As you say: what's the point? I'd rather the bike went past when I'd chosen to make more than enough room, than have it squeeze past anyway especially given the ease of bending either the car, the bike or the biker (or all three). That's something I'd rather not have on my conscience!

Sheepy

M3EVO

1,572 posts

264 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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A spare hand will always wave.

bennyboysvuk

3,491 posts

255 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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I always show an appreciating hand up gesture if a car driver makes the effort.

Also, if a driver in a fancy car has been keeping with me on a back road or at least been giving it a good go then I'll do a small wheelie display which is usually appreciated too

B

timbob

2,157 posts

259 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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I always make an effort to look out for, and move over for bikes. In fact I moved over for a bike on a Dual Carriageway earlier today, was about to overtake a car doing 70, myself not doing much more than 75 (slightly uphill, me in a 1.1 festa!!), when I saw a bike coming up behind probably abot 20mph faster than ma - so I aborted the overtake, indicated and moved over to the left promptly.

Mr Biker man then went past without having to change his speed, acknowledged me with a quick wave of his left hand before carrying on his merry way.

M3EVO

1,572 posts

264 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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This is a rather amicable conversation between both vehicular genres. Good to see the world is becoming a better place!

Steve_T

6,356 posts

279 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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Like the rest I always try to say thanks. Very important that bikers are not preceived are ignorant, rude or arrogant. I have to filter between two lines of traffic on a broken white line on my way into the smoke. Anna will probably know where this is if she rides in far enough.

It's not ideal, but if the stationary traffic inside me would move away from the crown of the road into the large gap to their inside, the problem would be considerably less. That said this is how things are so you have to live with it. To those that do move over we are grateful!

Steve.

mel

10,168 posts

282 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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Always, even if its just lifting my fingers while still on the bars. Aswell as moving over I also really appreciate it when you're filtering if a car in the outside lane indicates right, it simply shows that they've seen you and you know its safe to pass on the left.

954 girlie

11,876 posts

258 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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M3EVO said:
This is a rather amicable conversation between both vehicular genres. Good to see the world is becoming a better place!


Yes James, I will be handing out invites to my garden parties as I go by from now on

I'm sure we all have a good repetoire of non-verbal communication messages for those who are not so courteous on the road tho

A

smeagol

1,947 posts

291 months

Tuesday 9th September 2003
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I always lift the left hand in thanks (hopefully drivers see it )

Similarly in the car I wil always create the room (and in a mini this is very easy)