Palliative / EOL Care

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Milkyway

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10,060 posts

60 months

Sunday 17th November
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My ninety five year old Dad was quite fit & active up until a few months ago.
A procedure for a cancerous tumor on his bladder, which has turned out to be inoperable & two TIA's / strokes has seen a tragic decline in his health.

This week, the family decided that palliative care was required, with a prediction of four weeks until EOL.
( He's a fighter...so predicting months, rather than weeks).

We have decided on home care, I have been doing this but support kicks in tomorrow.
Bed, care three time a day... The Dad cupboard resembles a pharmacy.

But, the swiftness of the NHS, Palliative care team & Hospice has been brilliant... I doff my cap to anybody involved with this horrible situation.

Edited by Milkyway on Sunday 17th November 08:53

Castrol for a knave

5,292 posts

98 months

Sunday 17th November
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Sorry to hear about your dad. Mine passed a few weeks ago from dementia.

He died at home, which was a blessing


The care from the NHS, local authority, Admiral nurse and his GP was outstanding.

I have nothing but admiration for his carers, they were fantastic.

I am glad you have such excellent care, it makes something awful, bearable.

Milkyway

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10,060 posts

60 months

Sunday 17th November
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Thank you, & my sympathies to you & your family.

Obviously,, it's 24/7, sleeping with one eye open & all that... But, strangely rewarding, under the circumstances.

Yes, the living room has become his bedroom... But at least people can visit him whenever they like in a more relaxed atmosphere.
( Pretty much bed bound & sleeping all day now though)


Edited by Milkyway on Monday 18th November 03:41