Toning up, but not losing too much ‘bulk’

Toning up, but not losing too much ‘bulk’

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carreauchompeur

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18,010 posts

211 months

Thursday 3rd October
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Hi folks,

I’ve always been skinny… however over the last couple of years I’ve developed some excess weight around all of the usual middle aged places. Blame 4yrs in a traffic car sitting around a lot.

Currently 45, 6ft/183cm, 97kg (15.5 stone ish)


I need to get fitter, that’s for sure. And lose some of this midriff, although I look a lot better with a bit of weight, if that makes sense? Converting the fat to muscle would be an ideal scenario. Don’t want to be too skinny!

I think my primary issue is exercise. Diet is generally pretty healthy, although I do need to keep an eye on portions.

Any tips for a good programme? Have just joined a mixed gym so am going in every couple of days for a mix of weights and cardio.

Cheers!

jonathan_roberts

440 posts

15 months

Thursday 3rd October
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All the normal things, lift weights, increase protein, walk instead of run, drink more water (4l per day), don’t hope for overnight miracles just work on it consistently.

MBVitoria

2,505 posts

230 months

Thursday 3rd October
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I swear by the Concept 2 rower. Can be a bit boring but 30 mins every other day will sort your fitness out in no time. It uses a lot of muscles so there's an element of upper body resistance training to it compared to say running.

Press ups, bodyweight squats and burpees too.

Obvs main stuff is sort out diet etc, maybe worth paying for a consultation with a PT and get a plan?

Edited by MBVitoria on Thursday 3rd October 17:45

dai1983

3,013 posts

156 months

Friday 4th October
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Track how many calories you burn and eat 500 calories less than this a day. Will take 3 months to lose about 5kg but better to be slower than a crash diet

Lift weights. If you're new to weight training you might put some muscle mass on in a deficit. If I started again I'd train in a deficit while the weights are lighter and get my BF levels down to 13-15% before training on a surplus.

Eat 1-2g of protein per kg LEAN body mass (ie minus your fat) and 1g of fat per kg of weight. Rest of you calories as carbs

Mainly walk 10k steps a day or burn the 500 calories through zone 2 CV on one or two days you aren't lifting. Zone 2 is the important bit

Someone will be along to say that you can't accurately do all this. And they are right and there is some margin of error on each step from estimating the calories that your meals will have down to your 10k step tracking. However it gave me better results than just spinning my wheels doing the zone 3-4 CV while eating what I thought was good but ultimately was a carb heavy diet that was either too much or too little calories.

dai1983

3,013 posts

156 months

Friday 4th October
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Program wise id say start on stronglifts 5x5 to get you used to doing the big compounds but definitely add pull ups on deadlift days and some sort of tricep exercise on bench days. Do weighted abs and calf raises on the first and last sessions per week. Do some variation of pull ups regardless of what you do.

When squatting 3 times a week starts to suck big time change to a hypertrophy program. Will probably take about 6 months. At 45 I'd suggest weights 4 times a week for an hour as I'm 41 and get burned out if I do more than that for a while

popeyewhite

21,354 posts

127 months

Friday 4th October
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Diet, you haven't got much lean mass to lose so don't worry about extra protein. Easiest way to lose a couple of stone is - as another poster has suggested - a deficit of about 500 cals a day, then when you've got over the hunger pangs start doing some kind of exercise as well. Be disciplined.

carreauchompeur

Original Poster:

18,010 posts

211 months

Friday 4th October
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Thanks all, some great tips.

SturdyHSV

10,224 posts

174 months

Sunday 6th October
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For what you've described, you need to gain some muscle.

If you drink like a typical British 45 year old, stopping that would possibly sort most of the middle aged blobbing.

Would suggest a simple program like Starting Strength, goes in to exhaustive detail on form for squats, deadlifts, bench press and overhead press. I'd personally say as above make sure you're doing pull ups too.

Do the movements slowly and with control, and focus on getting strong over 12 months, not 12 weeks. You can get away with the dumb st in your 20s, you need to play it a bit smarter now.

Once you've built a good strong foundation, something more hypertrophy focused to perhaps sculpt some more bulk where you want may be of interest, but to be honest you may find just general 'strength' gives you enough of the not skinny appearance that you're happy.

Be prepared for half of your youtube suggestions to involve topless men hehe

Edited by SturdyHSV on Sunday 6th October 11:02

gangzoom

6,770 posts

222 months

Sunday 6th October
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carreauchompeur said:
I think my primary issue is exercise. Diet is generally pretty healthy, although I do need to keep an eye on portions. !
You loss fat in the kitchen not the gym. Join the weight loss thread, loads of great advice on that thread.

I'm 182cm, currently 74kg, having put on weight in the summer from eating too much. The key is to get the elephant in room recognised, eating too much is the main issue for most of us, not the amount of exercise you do. I think I can probably do with losing about 2-3kg of weight before the inevitable Xmas weight gain.



Mazinbrum

992 posts

185 months

Sunday 6th October
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Get a Swiss ball and do 3 sets of 6, working up to 8.
Try and keep your knees going up and down the centre line to maximise the twist and trie and keep your hips high. You won’t believe how much it pulls your middle in and only 10 mins a day.

https://youtu.be/YU4T70R6XXw?si=CfNC3Ki4doCUUSQL

popeyewhite

21,354 posts

127 months

Sunday 6th October
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gangzoom said:
You loss fat in the kitchen not the gym. Join the weight loss thread, loads of great advice on that thread.
That's not great advice. Fat loss is a simple exchange of cals out being greater than cals in. Easier with food, but proper exercise can be just as effective and when you combine the two as a lifestyle change you get the best results.

gangzoom

6,770 posts

222 months

Sunday 6th October
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popeyewhite said:
That's not great advice. Fat loss is a simple exchange of cals out being greater than cals in. Easier with food, but proper exercise can be just as effective and when you combine the two as a lifestyle change you get the best results.
OP wants to loss weight, excercise vs diet to loss weight has been discussed countless times, 6 packs are made in the kitchen not the gym. You might one of the few people who can achieve weight loss through excercise, the reality if for most of us it's food that's the issue.


carreauchompeur

Original Poster:

18,010 posts

211 months

Sunday 6th October
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Hi all,

The primary issue is definitely lack of exercise. It dwindled to the point where most days I just didn’t do anything.

My diet is generally pretty good. I do need to keep an eye on portion size a bit.

Likewise, really don’t drink much any more. Shift work helps here as I am hardly home in the evenings!

Really good tips so far and I’m adopting a mix of them

popeyewhite

21,354 posts

127 months

Sunday 6th October
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gangzoom said:
popeyewhite said:
That's not great advice. Fat loss is a simple exchange of cals out being greater than cals in. Easier with food, but proper exercise can be just as effective and when you combine the two as a lifestyle change you get the best results.
OP wants to loss weight, excercise vs diet to loss weight has been discussed countless times, 6 packs are made in the kitchen not the gym. You might one of the few people who can achieve weight loss through excercise, the reality if for most of us it's food that's the issue.
As I said, it's a matter of a calorie deficit. It may have been discussed on here incorrectly previously, regardless that statement is fact. Also please read my post properly, I advocated diet and exercise for lifestyle change, not one or the other.

Scarfie

159 posts

29 months

Sunday 6th October
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Calories is just absolute nonsense, a calorie is just the amount of energy to raise 1 gram of water by one degree, food stuffs are “burnt” to calculate this, it’s probably the most unscientific useless measurement in history. However yes, there’s some element to more in less out equals gain. But it’s all about the material, as your body will store and release the things it can or cannot or do.

So, concentrate on the right foods for your body and move more. Fast. You do not need to eat anywhere near as much as you think you do. You could easily go without food for days, it’s a fallacy. Eat at 5/6 in the evening, eat again at 10am. Repeat.

Concentrate on body weight exercises and flexibility.

272BHP

5,790 posts

243 months

Sunday 6th October
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It's all so confusing isn't it?

Should you eat healthier food?
Should you limit portions?
Should you do high intensity cardio training?
Should you do low intensity cardio training?
Should you do bodyweight exercises?
Should you lift heavy weights?

The answer is always yes.

carreauchompeur

Original Poster:

18,010 posts

211 months

Sunday 27th October
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Going quite well so far, a month in and 10 gym visits. Starting to get into a good weights routine and upping the lifts slowly. Annoyingly missed a week due to lurgy.

Feels good, just need to keep it up!

SturdyHSV

10,224 posts

174 months

Monday 28th October
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Glad it's going well. In the early stages you will see a lot of relatively easy progress. Enjoy this and make the most of it, but accept that it will taper off and then it gets hard.

In 6 - 9 months time when you're not seeing much progress, be aware that it's not that it's not working anymore, it's just that you've gone through your newbie gains phase and now the real work begins, don't lose hope smile

MC Bodge

22,604 posts

182 months

Tuesday 29th October
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Do circuit training in a class (or on your own if you can push yourself) a couple of times per week.

Run/cycle/swim/hilly walks with a rucksack a few times a week, include some hard intervals.

Do a bit of strength training a couple of times a week.

Eat sensibly.

Don't snack.

Ps. Don't snack.

Pps. Don't snack.


Jimjimhim

1,527 posts

7 months

Tuesday 29th October
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You don't look like half the women at centre Parcs the other week, wow some fat women there!