Share your tips for getting back to sleep

Share your tips for getting back to sleep

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Wacky Racer

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38,735 posts

252 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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sleep

Like a lot of people, if I wake up around 5am, I find it virtually impossible to go back to sleep, as my mind is racing with a myriad of thoughts, in the old days they said just count sheep jumping over a wall worked wonders, well I've tried that without success biggrin

I need to clear my mind and chill out.

Any tips? (Keep it clean) smile


Jugosaurus

98 posts

49 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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I read a bit of my book then can doze back off.
Anything to distract the mind from getting going otherwise it’s game over for more sleep!

Heathwood

2,721 posts

207 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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I have similar problems, albeit around 3am is my bogey time. I’m often awake from this time until around 6am, before finally falling asleep and then waking up for work an hour later groggy as hell.

A tip I’ve been given is to repeat a word to yourself every few seconds. Don’t say the word but possibly allow your mouth to form the word. Something dull like ‘the’. It apparently prevents your brain from getting stimulated by other thoughts. I tried it over the past couple of nights and had a modicum of success.

Might be worth a try.

smn159

13,290 posts

222 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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Could try some breathing exercises, but 5am is late enough to get up if you're struggling.

Have a cup of tea and read a book in the peace and quiet for a bit smile


Wacky Racer

Original Poster:

38,735 posts

252 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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Jugosaurus said:
I read a bit of my book then can doze back off.
Anything to distract the mind from getting going otherwise it’s game over for more sleep!
Good shout. It needs something to break my chain of thought, I've even tried getting up and making a nice cup of tea.

I'm not suffering from depression btw, just an over active mind, thinking about all kinds of nonsense. smile

Waynker Renee

924 posts

174 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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Podcasts with volume low,earphones on if you share a bed !

MrCharisma

3 posts

19 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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I can’t if I have to keep it clean. I sleep like a log after though.

thebraketester

14,581 posts

143 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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Headspace App

lost in espace

6,262 posts

212 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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Waynker Renee said:
Podcasts with volume low,earphones on if you share a bed !
I can't get to sleep without a podcast, and if I wake up it is invaluable. If I can't find my earbuds I start panicking and have 3 sets just in case. I find the intimacy of an earbud really helps.

grumbledoak

31,734 posts

238 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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5am? You may as well get up.

Have you tried going to bed later? Your body is a pretty good judge of how much sleep you need.

Correvor

143 posts

38 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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Sounds familiar. Often work related thoughts and find them playing over and over.

For me the best things are:
- Don't look at any watch or clock
- Ideally keep my eyes closed
- Breathing exercises

If that fails - laptop out and some idle surfing for 30 mins or so and then nod off again.

For me, going to bed early or lying in to late tends to exacerbate the problem. I'd stay up till midnight every night if I had my way but have two under 5 so getting up late also isn't really an option!

Waynker Renee

924 posts

174 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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lost in espace said:
Waynker Renee said:
Podcasts with volume low,earphones on if you share a bed !
I can't get to sleep without a podcast, and if I wake up it is invaluable. If I can't find my earbuds I start panicking and have 3 sets just in case. I find the intimacy of an earbud really helps.
I wonder if it stems from being read a bedtime story as a whippersnapper ?

s p a c e m a n

10,948 posts

153 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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Hit from the bong hippy

Honestly I've got weed for just this, I normally get up for work at 4am and a couple times a month I'm wide awake on a Saturday morning in the dark with the hump and that stuff just sends me straight back to sleep for hours.

hotchy

4,562 posts

131 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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I personally celebrate my alarms not off. I think to myself "aw yes!! 3 more hours sleep" and fall back to sleep easily. If I don't check the time I won't sleep thinking my alarms any minute now. Always had that mindset and it's now made it easy on days off to have a long lie. So just think about it differently.

Wacky Racer

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38,735 posts

252 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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grumbledoak said:
5am? You may as well get up.

Have you tried going to bed later? Your body is a pretty good judge of how much sleep you need.
Doesn't matter if I go to bed at 10pm or 2am, I always wake up. I have absolutely no problem falling asleep.

I don't think I have slept through till 7 for thirty odd years,

Still, it saves on having to buy an alarm clock, biggrin



Wacky Racer

Original Poster:

38,735 posts

252 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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MrCharisma said:
I can’t if I have to keep it clean. I sleep like a log after though.
Too much information.

BikeBikeBIke

9,537 posts

120 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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Wacky Racer said:
Doesn't matter if I go to bed at 10pm or 2am, I always wake up. I have absolutely no problem falling asleep.
Me too. Fall straight to sleep as soon as my head hits the pillow but ping awake at 5. Sometimes get back to sleep, sometimes not.

Relaxing Podcast and/or the sleep solution that dare not speak it's name certainly help.

hooters123

738 posts

141 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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Sounds like me and my anxiety.

I find different methods work depending on what I'm worrying about. Sometimes I make notes of things I need to remember to do then can relax knowing I won't forget them. Sometimes I just get up and do whatever it is I'm thinking about and then go back to bed (might not work at 5am though!) or I just get up.

What time do you go to bed? If you're asleep by 10pm getting up at 5am isn't so ridiculous.

Scarletpimpofnel

849 posts

23 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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Wacky Racer said:
sleep

Like a lot of people, if I wake up around 5am, I find it virtually impossible to go back to sleep, as my mind is racing with a myriad of thoughts, in the old days they said just count sheep jumping over a wall worked wonders, well I've tried that without success biggrin

I need to clear my mind and chill out.

Any tips? (Keep it clean) smile
I had similar issue but for me I focussed more on setting the best conditions for sleep rather than how to get back to sleep once awake.

For example:
- Black out curtains, pinned to the wall on both sides to keep light out.
- Sleeping in quietest room in the house
- Alcohol helps me sleep very well. Other people think milky drinks do.
- Avoid caffeine and similar before bed.
- Make sure your day includes exercise so you are tired at bed time.
- Banish any snoring partners to a different room/house/town.
- Ensure your pillows/mattress/sheets etc are comfortable and don't make you too hot/cold/sweaty whatever.
- Ensure you are "sated"....

You get the picture. My point is as well as pondering what to do when you do wake up, do your best to make sure you don't wake up in the first place.

PaulWoof

1,636 posts

160 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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audiobooks has been my biggest improvement to sleep.

I used to take 1hr+ to get to sleep once in bed, started with audiobooks on 30m sleep time, then 15m now i set 10m and im often out before it turns itself off.

also ZMA helps me get a deeper sleep with less waking although it can produce some weird dreams from time to time.
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