If you asked me 5-10 years ago I’d have said to have fun. Now it would be to make sure my kids are safe, secure, brought up well and having as much fun as they can along the way. My joy comes from their joy these days.
To enjoy what I have been blessed with ie my life, watching my kids develop into fine young adults set against a backdrop that tomorrow is not guaranteed.
Be the best version of myself I can be. Enjoy myself as much as possible. Raise 2 functional humans who are a contribution to society. Get up to as much naughty shenanigans as possible with my wife.