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i am on my own right now . had an issue happened a decade or so ago , took in sister brother in law and nephew when they got pretty much evicted. sister tried to take over the house with her second husband who was a complete dick . lied to my father about me did all they could do to get me out so they could take the house . then came home from work one night to find they had cleared the house out and dissapeard nothing left but carpet and wallpaper . to say heartbroken doesnt come close ... fast forward ten years later . reconnect with nephews dad . good guy hell great guy . we get on and going for a pint and chatted , he gave me jnrs number and told him things i wont go into but contacted me today . he is gay , he is happy has a partner and a nice house and im happy about that . sexuality i couldnt care less about . im his uncle and when the thing happened i sent a text saying your not part of this . i love you always will . never an issue , was his mother and step dad . now he is back in touch after i found a way to to contact , his dad was a victim too ... im worried about saying the wrong things and want to re connect . spoke to his dad and we think wen he i ready to bring things up leave till then . but now my father wont and cannoct accept him due to being gay and being 10 years without a word . and he well we both worshiped him thats never changed for me . my sister can go burn couldnt care less and her husband well we met up and it was ugly ... and he didnt come off well , not something im proud of but he thought himself a hardcase .. mmm far from truth ... i want this to go well i want to see jnr again be a part of his family , not replied to his text yet , taking time to think about it . what would you do ? i honestly want to rebuild . his mum cant be a part of it ever . other things hurt me massivley too. but realise we have to move on . sorry this is getting a new thing off my chest and dont know what to do
i am on my own right now . had an issue happened a decade or so ago , took in sister brother in law and nephew when they got pretty much evicted. sister tried to take over the house with her second husband who was a complete dick . lied to my father about me did all they could do to get me out so they could take the house . then came home from work one night to find they had cleared the house out and dissapeard nothing left but carpet and wallpaper . to say heartbroken doesnt come close ... fast forward ten years later . reconnect with nephews dad . good guy hell great guy . we get on and going for a pint and chatted , he gave me jnrs number and told him things i wont go into but contacted me today . he is gay , he is happy has a partner and a nice house and im happy about that . sexuality i couldnt care less about . im his uncle and when the thing happened i sent a text saying your not part of this . i love you always will . never an issue , was his mother and step dad . now he is back in touch after i found a way to to contact , his dad was a victim too ... im worried about saying the wrong things and want to re connect . spoke to his dad and we think wen he i ready to bring things up leave till then . but now my father wont and cannoct accept him due to being gay and being 10 years without a word . and he well we both worshiped him thats never changed for me . my sister can go burn couldnt care less and her husband well we met up and it was ugly ... and he didnt come off well , not something im proud of but he thought himself a hardcase .. mmm far from truth ... i want this to go well i want to see jnr again be a part of his family , not replied to his text yet , taking time to think about it . what would you do ? i honestly want to rebuild . his mum cant be a part of it ever . other things hurt me massivley too. but realise we have to move on . sorry this is getting a new thing off my chest and dont know what to do
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