Pornography - could you give it up?

Pornography - could you give it up?

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LetsTryAgain

Original Poster:

2,904 posts

78 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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In my opinion, this is in the correct sub-forum, but I’m sure it’ll be moved if someone feels it’s necessary.

So to the point, do you or don’t you watch online porn?
If you don’t, what’s the reason for not? (Choice, age/generational etc)
If you do, could you stop if you wanted to?
If you have wanted to, did you manage to?

I’m at the age, stage of life and now the social and moral leaning where I’m seeing it purely as a negative, rather than having indifferent or ambivalent opinions on it.

Thanks in advance.

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

203 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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Depends - do you ever watch porn together or did you always masterbate with wife upstairs alders in bed?

hyphen

26,262 posts

95 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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I think todays porn messes up your head. Kids who watch it at a young age especially. Tube sites with so much content overwhelm the senses. You end up watching more than you want in-order to find a vid that you like.

And it's so fake, you can tell most of the women are not into it, just thinking of the cash to pay the rent this month. Very little amateur stuff feels like it's actually homemade and spontaneous.

I try to avoid it. Best to use memories/or picture the milf neighbors biggrin


Edited by hyphen on Monday 28th December 21:00

LetsTryAgain

Original Poster:

2,904 posts

78 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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Well i wasn’t really starting the thread for myself, it was just out of interest of other people’s opinions and experiences.

But as you’ve asked, I’ve never watched it with a girlfriend really, not as a proper adult anyway.

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

203 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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LetsTryAgain said:
Well i wasn’t really starting the thread for myself, it was just out of interest of other people’s opinions and experiences.

But as you’ve asked, I’ve never watched it with a girlfriend really, not as a proper adult anyway.
Try it wink.

BrundanBianchi

1,106 posts

50 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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I was in a taxi earlier.

xx99xx

2,178 posts

78 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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I use porn when bored so I can and do 'give it up' until the next time I'm bored. Could happily go months without it provided I had another source of entertainment. In the past, through deep boredom phases, I've viewed it several times a day but I also viewed other websites several times a day during the same period, so I don't think of porn as bad in any way, it's just another website to pass the time.

Saying that, there are loads more genres of porn these days than there were 10-20 years ago. And some of them are just plain wrong. I don't spare a thought for the 'performers' though so I'll watch what I want to watch and not be outraged by what I dont want to watch.

Fastchas

2,688 posts

126 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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Not while I’m single and I’m down to once a fortnight in a relationship.

david-j8694

484 posts

53 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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Give me a new woman to roar into each week and I could easily give it up.

No man wants to nail the same woman year after year. We need a constant supply of strange.

LetsTryAgain

Original Poster:

2,904 posts

78 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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david-j8694 said:
Give me a new woman to roar into each week and I could easily give it up.
This is one of my points...

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

203 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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When you say you are at that age in life - and then seeing your profile pic of a stunning cotswolds house - does that mean closing in on state pension age or closing in on the earliest date you can draw a private pension.



Ps of that is your house well played it’s stunning & I’d wager the grounds are lovely and it has a great village pub.

hyphen

26,262 posts

95 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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Welshbeef said:
Ps of that is your house well played it’s stunning & I’d wager the grounds are lovely and it has a great village pub.
And the internet is not up to streaming video?

LetsTryAgain

Original Poster:

2,904 posts

78 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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Welshbeef said:
When you say you are at that age in life - and then seeing your profile pic of a stunning cotswolds house - does that mean closing in on state pension age or closing in on the earliest date you can draw a private pension.

Ps of that is your house well played it’s stunning & I’d wager the grounds are lovely and it has a great village pub.
I’m thoroughly working class, with the income that goes with it, unfortunately.
That is Wappenbury Hall, home of the late Sir William Lyons.

I am at the age where I have done what most people don’t do anymore, and grew up.

hyphen

26,262 posts

95 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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LetsTryAgain said:
I am at the age where I have done what most people don’t do anymore, and grew up.
knock on doors and run off?

TwigtheWonderkid

44,371 posts

155 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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david-j8694 said:
No man wants to nail the same woman year after year.
With over 3 billion men on the planet, that's a pretty bold statement to make.

Hugo Stiglitz

38,038 posts

216 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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david-j8694 said:
Give me a new woman to roar into each week and I could easily give it up.

No man wants to nail the same woman year after year. We need a constant supply of strange.
Rubbish. There are blokes who are the equivalent of nymphomaniac's who are constant, who can't give it up.

I remember finding nymphs and feeling like I had hit the jack pot. No matter what, they'd always be 'on', demanding it equally.





bristolbaron

5,030 posts

217 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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I give up for a day or two, and then it gets really hard.

getmecoat

Welshbeef

49,633 posts

203 months

Monday 28th December 2020
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david-j8694 said:
Give me a new woman to roar into each week and I could easily give it up.

No man wants to nail the same woman year after year. We need a constant supply of strange.
Sorry totally disagree.
Been with my wife not a million miles away from 20 years and married for 2/3rds of those too.

Nemophilist

3,066 posts

186 months

Tuesday 29th December 2020
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Porn is becoming harder to wat h due to the moral implications

It’s more widely known that many of the women are not doing it under their own free will and many are underage despite it saying otherwise

It’s hard to enjoy something when you know that

Ethical porn is out there but is flooded by the bad and not easy to find


Sophisticated Sarah

15,078 posts

174 months

Tuesday 29th December 2020
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Why don’t you sit down and explain your fears of porn smile
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