Age differnces - him and her
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Well, i don't know where this should really go, as it's generally a 'health matter' in a way.
When you are say 30 years old, what would be the age of the youngest girl you would date and possible marry ?
Same again if you are 40, and then 50,
For example, is 30 to old to date a 20 year old girl ?
For example, is 40 to old to date a 30 year old girl ?
For example, is 50 to old to date a 30 year old girl ?
Sensible please, thats why I did not really put it in general Gas.
When you are say 30 years old, what would be the age of the youngest girl you would date and possible marry ?
Same again if you are 40, and then 50,
For example, is 30 to old to date a 20 year old girl ?
For example, is 40 to old to date a 30 year old girl ?
For example, is 50 to old to date a 30 year old girl ?
Sensible please, thats why I did not really put it in general Gas.
When I was forty I went out with a twenty year old for a year or so. Great fun for both of us. She got the experience, maturity and (comparative) wealth of someone who's gotten past the 'setting up' stage in life and I had the joy of someone young and exciting - we both had fun and learned a lot.
It was never going to last though. I felt she was missing out on all the night life and stuff I can't be arsed with anymore - she was happy to stay in and watch telly or pop down the local when she should've been out on the town. In the end I had to push her away as much for her own good.
We're still good friends and may even get together again one day, but she's grateful we broke up when we did. She's touring Australia at the moment. I'm not sure she'd have done that before.
It was never going to last though. I felt she was missing out on all the night life and stuff I can't be arsed with anymore - she was happy to stay in and watch telly or pop down the local when she should've been out on the town. In the end I had to push her away as much for her own good.
We're still good friends and may even get together again one day, but she's grateful we broke up when we did. She's touring Australia at the moment. I'm not sure she'd have done that before.
I think a bigger gap is permissable as you get older so a 50 y/o could date a 30 y/o OK and a 60 y/o could date a 35 y/o without too much of a problem. I think the younger you are, the closer the ages need to be so a 30 y/o dating 20 y/0 is pushing it but a 25 y/o would be fine.
To date an 18 y/o female you need to be about 19/20 or be very very rich...............
To date an 18 y/o female you need to be about 19/20 or be very very rich...............
I am 29 and was going out with a 21yr old up until two weeks ago when we broke up, was going out with her for 6 months since she was 20.
As expected ultimately we broke up as we were in different stages of our lives, I am working and she is a student and this makes things difficult and puts extra pressures on us......plus it was long distance for last two months.
Sex was amazing though.
I'm 28 and my typical dating ranges are 18-21. Most of the girls I've seen over the past 8 months have been 18/19.
They don't really work as relationships as you don't get a good conversation, but they have great bodies (before people let themselves go!), and yeah...basically they look fit and I'm happy with that.
My ex is 23 - we had much better conversations, and she's one of the rare girls who hasn't put on 2 stone through going out and drinking all the time. Still a size 8 and gorgeous
They don't really work as relationships as you don't get a good conversation, but they have great bodies (before people let themselves go!), and yeah...basically they look fit and I'm happy with that.
My ex is 23 - we had much better conversations, and she's one of the rare girls who hasn't put on 2 stone through going out and drinking all the time. Still a size 8 and gorgeous
I am 20 and the GF is 17. Get some stick at work for it but at the end of the day I don't think age matters, you may be at different stages of life and so the relationship is not compatible but I do not think two people can be wrong for eachother because of age.
I have to agree with the great body bit! start young (not TOO young!) so you have even longer with no wrinkles!
I have to agree with the great body bit! start young (not TOO young!) so you have even longer with no wrinkles!
kbf1981 said:
I'm 28 and my typical dating ranges are 18-21.
They don't really work as relationships as you don't get a good conversation, but they have great bodies (before people let themselves go!),
So you are saying that girls let themselves go after 21...They don't really work as relationships as you don't get a good conversation, but they have great bodies (before people let themselves go!),
you are a very brave man and lucky to be posting on a 'mainly' blokey forum.....KevF said:
kbf1981 said:
I'm 28 and my typical dating ranges are 18-21.
They don't really work as relationships as you don't get a good conversation, but they have great bodies (before people let themselves go!),
So you are saying that girls let themselves go after 21...They don't really work as relationships as you don't get a good conversation, but they have great bodies (before people let themselves go!),
you are a very brave man and lucky to be posting on a 'mainly' blokey forum...... Such comments just make it easier for them to spot the men they should stay clear of. 
KevF said:
kbf1981 said:
I'm 28 and my typical dating ranges are 18-21.
They don't really work as relationships as you don't get a good conversation, but they have great bodies (before people let themselves go!),
So you are saying that girls let themselves go after 21...They don't really work as relationships as you don't get a good conversation, but they have great bodies (before people let themselves go!),
you are a very brave man and lucky to be posting on a 'mainly' blokey forum.....In reality, most curviness is due to:
- not exercising enough
- eating a high carb diet with alcohol on weekends
Like most people do.
In Uni, girls would start off at 8st and by the end, many were a chubby 10st. It's just laziness lol. I work out 1-2hrs a day and eat a healthy diet. If I can do it, anyone can lol!
kbf1981 said:
KevF said:
kbf1981 said:
I'm 28 and my typical dating ranges are 18-21.
They don't really work as relationships as you don't get a good conversation, but they have great bodies (before people let themselves go!),
So you are saying that girls let themselves go after 21...They don't really work as relationships as you don't get a good conversation, but they have great bodies (before people let themselves go!),
you are a very brave man and lucky to be posting on a 'mainly' blokey forum.....In reality, most curviness is due to:
- not exercising enough
- eating a high carb diet with alcohol on weekends
Like most people do.
In Uni, girls would start off at 8st and by the end, many were a chubby 10st. It's just laziness lol. I work out 1-2hrs a day and eat a healthy diet. If I can do it, anyone can lol!
ks lol something very shallow lolAre ya 5? Are ya?
Say lol one more time and I'll shove a burning petrol tanker up your vagina.
Munter said:
kbf1981 said:
KevF said:
kbf1981 said:
I'm 28 and my typical dating ranges are 18-21.
They don't really work as relationships as you don't get a good conversation, but they have great bodies (before people let themselves go!),
So you are saying that girls let themselves go after 21...They don't really work as relationships as you don't get a good conversation, but they have great bodies (before people let themselves go!),
you are a very brave man and lucky to be posting on a 'mainly' blokey forum.....In reality, most curviness is due to:
- not exercising enough
- eating a high carb diet with alcohol on weekends
Like most people do.
In Uni, girls would start off at 8st and by the end, many were a chubby 10st. It's just laziness lol. I work out 1-2hrs a day and eat a healthy diet. If I can do it, anyone can lol!
ks lol something very shallow lolAre ya 5? Are ya?
Say lol one more time and I'll shove a burning petrol tanker up your vagina.
And to call someone at 10st chubby is ridiculous, get a grip you muppet.
diesel head said:
The weight girls gain at uni is known as the freshers 15 as in 15lb of weight is normally gained by girls at uni in their first year!!!!!!!! I know I did, have managed to loose it all now though!
We still have undergraduates measuring in lbs? I'm nearly three hundred and eighty and I was taught the metric system.
kbf1981 said:
KevF said:
kbf1981 said:
I'm 28 and my typical dating ranges are 18-21.
They don't really work as relationships as you don't get a good conversation, but they have great bodies (before people let themselves go!),
So you are saying that girls let themselves go after 21...They don't really work as relationships as you don't get a good conversation, but they have great bodies (before people let themselves go!),
you are a very brave man and lucky to be posting on a 'mainly' blokey forum.....In reality, most curviness is due to:
- not exercising enough
- eating a high carb diet with alcohol on weekends
Like most people do.
In Uni, girls would start off at 8st and by the end, many were a chubby 10st. It's just laziness lol. I work out 1-2hrs a day and eat a healthy diet. If I can do it, anyone can lol!
Also, it's easy to post on a forum without using 'lol' at the end of each sentence. If I can do it, anyone can.
Had an 8.5 year relationship with someone 5 years older then me - I was 26 when we met and 34 when we split up last March. I've since dated women between 12 years younger and three years older than me. I don't care too much for a person's age as long as I fancy them and we get on... and, of course, if they're a lot younger than me that I'm not breaking the law
on the flip side...
im 24 and my missus is 26 this year (not a huge age gap) but she is older than me... seems a little odd as there arent many relationships this way round.. but we are engaged and happy which is all good.
bigger age gaps do work too though.. im just not sure about the larger ones (60yr old and 25yr old) that kind of freaks me out a little..!
im 24 and my missus is 26 this year (not a huge age gap) but she is older than me... seems a little odd as there arent many relationships this way round.. but we are engaged and happy which is all good.
bigger age gaps do work too though.. im just not sure about the larger ones (60yr old and 25yr old) that kind of freaks me out a little..!
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