Leopard, Spots Question
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No, my leopard doesn't have acne.
I've been going out with my girlfriend for 5 years, we've had our ups and downs
over the years but we get along great.
Anyway, a year ago she was at work (Barmaid) and she got chatted up by a bloke and she gave him her number. She told me a few days later as if it was nothing and I went ballistic. After the dust settled, I let it go and we carried on as normal. A few weeks later I found out she'd been talking and texting him, with his number stored in her phone under some girl from college's name.
Cue massive row, me finding out his email address (I couldn't get his number) and writing an angry email to him consisting of the words, cock, f
ker, wker, toss pot, legs, broken, face and .
He replied back that nothing had happened, they were just chatting and that he had a missus and didn't want any trouble. I chilled out and apologised for flipping out and that was the last I heard of it.
2 days ago I 'accessed' my girlfriends hotmail account and saw she'd had a facebook message from him. It was a reply from a message she had sent to him. His basically said that he had moved to a new flat 20 miles away and had split up with his missus.
So I'm trying to decide whether to leave it and put it down as general harmless chit-chat or say something to the girlfriend about it. She hasn't mentioned it and has now deleted the message from her hotmail.
What do you reckon? Maybe another informal chat with him or should I stop being a jealous cock?
Edited spelling
I've been going out with my girlfriend for 5 years, we've had our ups and downs
over the years but we get along great.Anyway, a year ago she was at work (Barmaid) and she got chatted up by a bloke and she gave him her number. She told me a few days later as if it was nothing and I went ballistic. After the dust settled, I let it go and we carried on as normal. A few weeks later I found out she'd been talking and texting him, with his number stored in her phone under some girl from college's name.
Cue massive row, me finding out his email address (I couldn't get his number) and writing an angry email to him consisting of the words, cock, f
ker, wker, toss pot, legs, broken, face and . He replied back that nothing had happened, they were just chatting and that he had a missus and didn't want any trouble. I chilled out and apologised for flipping out and that was the last I heard of it.
2 days ago I 'accessed' my girlfriends hotmail account and saw she'd had a facebook message from him. It was a reply from a message she had sent to him. His basically said that he had moved to a new flat 20 miles away and had split up with his missus.
So I'm trying to decide whether to leave it and put it down as general harmless chit-chat or say something to the girlfriend about it. She hasn't mentioned it and has now deleted the message from her hotmail.
What do you reckon? Maybe another informal chat with him or should I stop being a jealous cock?
Edited spelling
Edited by M3CHA-MONK3Y on Friday 3rd April 14:32
I would normally sit here and preach about it's probably harmless fun, but if it was me in that situation, i'd be livid!
The fact that they have been exchanging hello's via Facebook and Hotmail, is imo not on!
Your girlfriend should never have given her number out in the first place?
The fact that they have been exchanging hello's via Facebook and Hotmail, is imo not on!
Your girlfriend should never have given her number out in the first place?
Edited by lei69gh on Friday 3rd April 14:43
Sounds dodgy fella. I'd bin your GF and move on. Put it this way if you were in a relationship and a girl asked for your number would you give her it? At the end of the day everyone gets bored and starts looking somewhere else for that little bit of excitement (i.e someone else banging her backdoors in). Your chasing a lost cause I reckon.
Edited by PD9 on Friday 3rd April 14:37
Her message to him consisted of:
Hi Dan,
How are you?? Long time I guess since we last spoke, hows things been?? The lads from (his sunday footy team) said that you've moved to ******, i think they told tracy, as tracy said we hadn't seen you for a while.
I noticed your facebook said you are now single, so you and michelle split? what happened?
Speak soon and hope all is good,
Gem
xx
His reply:
Hi Gem,
I am fine thanks kinda making a brand new start I guess. Me an shell broke up a few weeks back now basically things just weren't working between us at all been like it since christmas and really I should have finished with her then. Yeah I moved to ***** in january as I really couldnt deal with living in ***** anymore and I was getting pretty pig sick of seeing the same people and talking baout the same things it was all bullst. Dont miss anything about the place if i am honest and I love living on my own its awesome!!!
How are things with you?
xx Dan
I made a copy before she deleted it.
Hi Dan,
How are you?? Long time I guess since we last spoke, hows things been?? The lads from (his sunday footy team) said that you've moved to ******, i think they told tracy, as tracy said we hadn't seen you for a while.
I noticed your facebook said you are now single, so you and michelle split? what happened?
Speak soon and hope all is good,
Gem
xx
His reply:
Hi Gem,
I am fine thanks kinda making a brand new start I guess. Me an shell broke up a few weeks back now basically things just weren't working between us at all been like it since christmas and really I should have finished with her then. Yeah I moved to ***** in january as I really couldnt deal with living in ***** anymore and I was getting pretty pig sick of seeing the same people and talking baout the same things it was all bulls
t. Dont miss anything about the place if i am honest and I love living on my own its awesome!!!How are things with you?
xx Dan
I made a copy before she deleted it.
monthefish said:
M3CHA-MONK3Y said:
What do you reckon? Maybe another informal chat with him or should I stop being a jealous cock?
Him?? Granted, he's being a bit of a sneaky , but it's your missus that needs the talking to IMO.Sheets Tabuer said:
From experience, no a leopard doesn't change their spots.
She will cheat on you the 1st chance she gets or if she can make sure the next safty net is a sure thing she will be off like a shot.
Got that feeling when it first happened. She will cheat on you the 1st chance she gets or if she can make sure the next safty net is a sure thing she will be off like a shot.
He had a missus, she wanted to go on a break when it all kicked off and I said I don't do breaks, we split or nothing. Her reply was she didn't want to completely call it off.
To me that reeked of 'I don't want to, encase he doesn't split with his missus'
Tell your GF that a friend needs to email her account as yours is not working properly. Get a friend to email your GF some car link or nonsense. When she signs in, be ready and point out the email from this chap asking what the deal is.Yes it's all very sneaky but she started it! SWT!
The problem here is if you leave her, you know where she is going!
The problem here is if you leave her, you know where she is going!
Edited by DamoLLb on Friday 3rd April 14:47
M3CHA-MONK3Y said:
Sheets Tabuer said:
From experience, no a leopard doesn't change their spots.
She will cheat on you the 1st chance she gets or if she can make sure the next safty net is a sure thing she will be off like a shot.
Got that feeling when it first happened. She will cheat on you the 1st chance she gets or if she can make sure the next safty net is a sure thing she will be off like a shot.
He had a missus, she wanted to go on a break when it all kicked off and I said I don't do breaks, we split or nothing. Her reply was she didn't want to completely call it off.
To me that reeked of 'I don't want to, encase he doesn't split with his missus'
DamoLLb said:
Tell your GF that a friend needs to email her account as yours is not working properly. Get a friend to email you some car link or nonsense. When she signs in, be ready and point out the email from this chap asking what the deal is.Yes it's all very sneaky but she started it! SWT!
The problem here is if you leave her, you know where she is going!
I've already got access to her Email account. I feel like a cock for not trusting her but she makes me so paranoid. If it was the other way round she would freak out.The problem here is if you leave her, you know where she is going!
It does seem a coincidence that she messages him the day she finds out he split with his missus. Might be time to call it a day. I really care about her though and it seems like 5 years down the s
tter for nothing.M3CHA-MONK3Y said:
Sheets Tabuer said:
From experience, no a leopard doesn't change their spots.
She will cheat on you the 1st chance she gets or if she can make sure the next safty net is a sure thing she will be off like a shot.
Got that feeling when it first happened. She will cheat on you the 1st chance she gets or if she can make sure the next safty net is a sure thing she will be off like a shot.
He had a missus, she wanted to go on a break when it all kicked off and I said I don't do breaks, we split or nothing. Her reply was she didn't want to completely call it off.
To me that reeked of 'I don't want to, encase he doesn't split with his missus'
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