Religion/beliefs

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Jack.77

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451 posts

51 months

Wednesday 18th October 2023
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This is possibly the the wrong place for a discussion of this nature but has anyone here been actively seeking a spiritual path in life ? (Or you may have beliefs already then great)

after about 5 yrs of researching ,trying and considering various things,I don’t believe in anything in particular so far but I’ve came to realise now the whole thing can pretty much be whatever you want it to be (If it feels real ) .And not necessarily what someone may suggest it should be if that doesn’t personally work for you. Its turned into a very personal thing for me which doesn’t particularly fit with any particular beliefs which is also still slightly frustrating but the price of seeking true faith

Does it sound daft that I’ve considered going to various churches before knowing I don’t believe in it but thinking that theres a slim chance I could meet people who were maybe just trying it out /in a similar place spiritually .







Caddyshack

11,826 posts

213 months

Wednesday 18th October 2023
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You might as well allow yourself a free choice and make up whatever you want to believe as that is pretty much what all religions are.

People tend to have their religion and believe it but look at other religions and not believe a word of it…it’s odd how we find other religions laughable and unbelievable.

I used to be believe until I really thought about it.

Kawasicki

13,470 posts

242 months

Wednesday 18th October 2023
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There are plenty of modern religions available, many have a scientific bent, so it’s easier to believe.

https://churchofclimatechange.org/

TwigtheWonderkid

44,664 posts

157 months

Wednesday 18th October 2023
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Jack.77 said:
the price of seeking true faith
What's so good about faith anyway. Faith is a belief in something either without evidence, or worse still, contrary to the evidence. That's not a good thing. I'm not a fan of faith at all. It's a malignancy disguised as a virtue.

ClaphamGT3

11,527 posts

250 months

Wednesday 18th October 2023
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Faith is a strange thing.

I am a deeply rational, analytical individual. I am not given to introspection and disinclined to believe in anything for which I can't see evidence.

By any rational measure, there is no evidence to suggest that Jesus Christ was more than a Judean carpenter who lived, created a cult following and was executed by Judeo-Roman authorities.

Similarly, there is no evidence to suggest that the New Testament and, more specifically, the synoptic gospels are more than a series of morality tales, loosely based around the history of 1st century Judea.

Problem is, despite all that weight of evidence, I just can't not believe in God.

A funny old thing faith.....

Jack.77

Original Poster:

451 posts

51 months

Wednesday 18th October 2023
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Caddyshack said:
You might as well allow yourself a free choice and make up whatever you want to believe as that is pretty much what all religions are.

People tend to have their religion and believe it but look at other religions and not believe a word of it…it’s odd how we find other religions laughable and unbelievable.

I used to be believe until I really thought about it.
There is some truth in that but I am respectful though of others beliefs
I kind of feel that people might be interested or benefit from if I was to set up a new age religion / belief sessions .it would either be seen locally as controversial or uplifting and what some people want



Simpo Two

87,066 posts

272 months

Wednesday 18th October 2023
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ClaphamGT3 said:
A funny old thing faith.....
Faith = belief without reason.

But if it makes people feel happier or more content and doesn't do them or anyone else harm, I guess it's OK. What's not acceptable to me is when it gets weaponised - whether that's Israel vs Palestine or a born-again Christian poisoning minds.

kevinon

974 posts

67 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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If all the 1600 faiths keeps adherents too busy to foist their faith on me, I'm happy.

But many don't; so they are either trying to drum up support or, worse genuinely believe they are helping you. A step on from that is that they see outsiders are 'less than' their own brethren. This is what allows, even encourages, wiping out those who don't share your beliefs. (those people are 'less than')

Growing up in a theocracy in Ireland my experience is that the more observant the Catholic the less good they did. If Catholic Ireland of the 60's 70's and 80s has taught me anything it's that religious fundamentalists can have a very bad impact on their communities and their nation. I don't have much to say about fundies in the US (spiritual leader D Trump) or Iran (spiritual leader Ayatollah Ali Khamenei)

No surprise that I am happier in my own (hard-won) spirituality, and it helps me to try and live a principled life. But I have no desire to have others join my gang to validate me.

If someone's faith doesn't make them worse people, fair enough. Sincere faith can give people a sense of security, connection with their brethren, and a confidence that all will be well; in theory these gifts should help folk be better to others.

Silvanus

6,037 posts

30 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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I personally cannot understand why an intelligent rational person can believe in a god, makes no sense. However, I would never judge an individual, as they must have a reason, as irrational it may be. I do think the world would be a better place without religion though. I have found some of the least tolerant people I have come across have had strong religious beliefs. Equally there are plenty of kind and thoughtful people with no religious beliefs at all.

Stuart70

3,988 posts

190 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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TwigtheWonderkid said:
It's a malignancy disguised as a virtue.
Well said

Stuart70

3,988 posts

190 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Silvanus said:
I personally cannot understand why an intelligent rational person can believe in a god, makes no sense. However, I would never judge an individual, as they must have a reason, as irrational it may be.
Why would you not judge on that basis?

If I believed that I should punch every person over 6 foot tall that I met; would you not judge me to be an idiot?
If someone believes that someone of a different skin colour is “lesser” than them, should i not judge them for that?
If someone believes that chanting to the sky will get their wishes granted, should i not judge them for that?

Yes, i judge the religious wazzocks who cause so much antipathy and destruction in our world.

Silvanus

6,037 posts

30 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Stuart70 said:
Silvanus said:
I personally cannot understand why an intelligent rational person can believe in a god, makes no sense. However, I would never judge an individual, as they must have a reason, as irrational it may be.
Why would you not judge on that basis?

If I believed that I should punch every person over 6 foot tall that I met; would you not judge me to be an idiot?
If someone believes that someone of a different skin colour is “lesser” than them, should i not judge them for that?
If someone believes that chanting to the sky will get their wishes granted, should i not judge them for that?

Yes, i judge the religious wazzocks who cause so much antipathy and destruction in our world.
I try not to judge, many people with strong religious beliefs come from places with very poor education. I guess in areas where education is good, it makes far less sense. I have made a conscious decision to learn about the world religions, to quite some detail. It baffles me why someone who would be considered intelligent and well educated can follow a religion. I think much come down to fear and control.
I know once I die that's it, that doesn't scare me one bit, the only thing that scares me is I don't make the most of my short time before I go back to being a component in the carbon cycle.

Stuart70

3,988 posts

190 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Silvanus said:
I try not to judge, many people with strong religious beliefs come from places with very poor education. I guess in areas where education is good, it makes far less sense. I have made a conscious decision to learn about the world religions, to quite some detail. It baffles me why someone who would be considered intelligent and well educated can follow a religion. I think much come down to fear and control.
I know once I die that's it, that doesn't scare me one bit, the only thing that scares me is I don't make the most of my short time before I go back to being a component in the carbon cycle.
I think we are in wholehearted agreement in substance regarding religion, I am more willing to judge adversely as a consequence.
That makes you the better person.

I have no fear of death at all. The two elements that bother me are the pain of dying and the impact my passing would have on my family; they are practical things not existential angst.

Silvanus

6,037 posts

30 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Stuart70 said:
Silvanus said:
I try not to judge, many people with strong religious beliefs come from places with very poor education. I guess in areas where education is good, it makes far less sense. I have made a conscious decision to learn about the world religions, to quite some detail. It baffles me why someone who would be considered intelligent and well educated can follow a religion. I think much come down to fear and control.
I know once I die that's it, that doesn't scare me one bit, the only thing that scares me is I don't make the most of my short time before I go back to being a component in the carbon cycle.
I think we are in wholehearted agreement in substance regarding religion, I am more willing to judge adversely as a consequence.
That makes you the better person.

I have no fear of death at all. The two elements that bother me are the pain of dying and the impact my passing would have on my family; they are practical things not existential angst.
Funny you should mention dying. We were talking about painful deaths the other day. You could have a wonderful life but your final moments could be utterly miserable and painful. I'd be all for, in a modern world, of being able to legally chose when it's my time to go if there was a risk my death was going to drawn out, painful or if I just wasn't me any more (terminal illness/dementia). Why can a dog have a pain free death but I can't.

Skeptisk

8,234 posts

116 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Stuart70 said:
TwigtheWonderkid said:
It's a malignancy disguised as a virtue.
Well said
Agree.

I don’t understand why faith is seen by many as a virtue. Many American films make me feel queasy because of that.

Sorry to fall for the Godwin’s law already in the thread but the hardcore Nazis (and other examples of extremists, both religious and non religious, through the ages) all had “faith” in the righteousness of their beliefs.

I think faith means never having to think about whether your beliefs are valid or what you are doing is right or wrong.

It is antithetical to the way my mind works and my outlook on life so very difficult (actually impossible) for me to empathise with people of faith.

Stuart70

3,988 posts

190 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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I feel I have found an enclave of like minded people. Perhaps we should form a club and codify out beliefs and start to promote them…. But then again, no. smile

Have a great day.

Silvanus

6,037 posts

30 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Stuart70 said:
I feel I have found an enclave of like minded people. Perhaps we should form a club and codify out beliefs and start to promote them…. But then again, no. smile

Have a great day.
You are in one, PH

T1547

1,148 posts

141 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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I’ve long thought I’d really like to be part of a ‘club/church’ that meets every Sunday morning in a beautiful building, sing some nice songs, have some tea/cake, maybe a drop of red wine, meet local people from the community, listen to a philosophical/moral sermon, time for reflection etc but critically, with no sky fairy involved.

There’s a lot to like about religion but I can’t buy into the ‘god’ figure and on the odd occasion I attend church I feel like a phoney.

There must be a gap in the market for this sort of thing!

tamore

7,887 posts

291 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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T1547 said:
I’ve long thought I’d really like to be part of a ‘club/church’ that meets every Sunday morning in a beautiful building, sing some nice songs, have some tea/cake, maybe a drop of red wine, meet local people from the community, listen to a philosophical/moral sermon, time for reflection etc but critically, with no sky fairy involved.

There’s a lot to like about religion but I can’t buy into the ‘god’ figure and on the odd occasion I attend church I feel like a phoney.

There must be a gap in the market for this sort of thing!
that's called 'a pub' wink

dundarach

5,373 posts

235 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Became a Christian (from a non religious family) at around 30, due in part to some odd supernatural (or underdone potato) related events.