Urgent Help - Divorce related?

[Sheets Tabuer]

JonRB said:

So can I just ask one question? Are there any PHers *not* breaking up with their partner right now?

Oh I know, pick me, pick me.

[Stigette]

Maybe there is a PH curse!

Thanks again for replies

Off to solicitor now incase I dont reply to anything

[clonmult]

JonRB said:

So can I just ask one question? Are there any PHers *not* breaking up with their partner right now?

Hehe, I'm not breaking up with my partner right now. Happily attempting to settle down with a new one, but still having issues with the ex.

Its worth my spending a bit of effort on developing a time machine and tell myself ten years ago to "go for the easy lay on that fateful night, not the one you eventually married, you effing numpty muppet".

[mikez328]

ali_kat said:

mikez328 said:

No reponse yet. Therefore I will, quite rightly, assume that you told a pack of lies.

tt

She's not posted at all since 8:45 this morning - did it not occur to you that she might, just might, have a job that prevents her from posting on PH during the day?

My Friend, until YOUR life & career have been destroyed by the likes of Alastair Darling & his Child Support Agency & the wrongs been supported by both idiotic & ill-informed Conservative & Labour Governments in the mis-gotten belief that the CSA is good for us all, I would keep my mouth shut pal.

The mechanics & administration of the CSA is PURE EVIL. Run by & for uneducated Irish "Bog-Trotters" who are totally incapable of applying what should have been a simple earnings/expenses formula.

Am I bitter? ABSOLUTELY. The Government bds ruined my career & life for 13 years. The actual monthly payments weren't ever an issue - it was the fact that they constantly got them wrong & got away with 13 years of overcharging me!!

If I saw Alastair Darling or Gordon Brown in the street today I would consider assault or worse. I'd certainly spit on the wasters.

There is my "considered" response. And I still say that there are two sides to every story. And you have not heard the second side, nor probably will if the "Ex" has any pride....

As you will by have noticed, she is able to post & "is now off to her solicitors". Get a life & put your spec's on. She rarely works, if at all, or is a Civil Servant who can just take "paid sickies" whenever she wants - at your & my cost. Bitter - Me - Nooooo!

Edited by mikez328 on Thursday 26th March 14:32

[JRM]

clonmult said:

JonRB said:

So can I just ask one question? Are there any PHers *not* breaking up with their partner right now?

Hehe, I'm not breaking up with my partner right now. Happily attempting to settle down with a new one, but still having issues with the ex.

Its worth my spending a bit of effort on developing a time machine and tell myself ten years ago to "go for the easy lay on that fateful night, not the one you eventually married, you effing numpty muppet".

The time machine would be soo helpful sooo many times!

[mikez328]

clonmult said:

JonRB said:

So can I just ask one question? Are there any PHers *not* breaking up with their partner right now?

Hehe, I'm not breaking up with my partner right now. Happily attempting to settle down with a new one, but still having issues with the ex.

Its worth my spending a bit of effort on developing a time machine and tell myself ten years ago to "go for the easy lay on that fateful night, not the one you eventually married, you effing numpty muppet".

That comment is totally out of order pal. An apology is due to her or you should be banned (but that doesn't happen on PH I'm so sadly afraid).

[Sheets Tabuer]

mikez328 said:

clonmult said:

JonRB said:

So can I just ask one question? Are there any PHers *not* breaking up with their partner right now?

Hehe, I'm not breaking up with my partner right now. Happily attempting to settle down with a new one, but still having issues with the ex.

Its worth my spending a bit of effort on developing a time machine and tell myself ten years ago to "go for the easy lay on that fateful night, not the one you eventually married, you effing numpty muppet".

That comment is totally out of order pal. An apology is due to her or you should be banned (but that doesn't happen on PH I'm so sadly afraid).

You did read the bit where he says "tell myself"?

It wasn't directed at you.

[Fezant Pluckah]

mikez328 said:

And I still say that there are two sides to every story.

Well, we haven't heard your ex's side of the story

So in your own words...

mikez328 said:

I would keep my mouth shut pal.

tw@t

[Bit of a Unit]

mikez328 said:

ali_kat said:

mikez328 said:

No reponse yet. Therefore I will, quite rightly, assume that you told a pack of lies.

tt

She's not posted at all since 8:45 this morning - did it not occur to you that she might, just might, have a job that prevents her from posting on PH during the day?

My Friend, until YOUR life & career have been destroyed by the likes of Alastair Darling & his Child Support Agency & the wrongs been supported by both idiotic & ill-informed Conservative & Labour Governments in the mis-gotten belief that the CSA is good for us all, I would keep my mouth shut pal.

The mechanics & administration of the CSA is PURE EVIL. Run by & for uneducated Irish "Bog-Trotters" who are totally incapable of applying what should have been a simple earnings/expenses formula.

Am I bitter? ABSOLUTELY. The Government bds ruined my career & life for 13 years. The actual monthly payments weren't ever an issue - it was the fact that they constantly got them wrong & got away with 13 years of overcharging me!!

If I saw Alastair Darling or Gordon Brown in the street today I would consider assault or worse. I'd certainly spit on the wasters.

There is my "considered" response. And I still say that there are two sides to every story. And you have not heard the second side, nor probably will if the "Ex" has any pride....

As you will by have noticed, she is able to post & "is now off to her solicitors". Get a life & put your spec's on. She rarely works, if at all, or is a Civil Servant who can just take "paid sickies" whenever she wants - at your & my cost. Bitter - Me - Nooooo!

Edited by mikez328 on Thursday 26th March 14:32

Are you still on your own Mike?

[GreatGranny]

Have you equity in the house?

Could it be sold and you still come out debt free?

You can't really plan until you know the position re. mortgage.

Could you afford to stay in the house if the ex paid maintenence?

You might have to threaten him with the CSA unless something is sorted and quick.

the worse thing that can happen is defaulting on the mortgage and having it reposessed.

[mikez328]

Fezant Pluckah said:

mikez328 said:

And I still say that there are two sides to every story.

Well, we haven't heard your ex's side of the story

So in your own words...

mikez328 said:

I would keep my mouth shut pal.

tw@t

I'm not far wrong, am I?

Edited by Gazboy on Thursday 26th March 14:58

[JJCW]

mikez328 said:

clonmult said:

JonRB said:

So can I just ask one question? Are there any PHers *not* breaking up with their partner right now?

Hehe, I'm not breaking up with my partner right now. Happily attempting to settle down with a new one, but still having issues with the ex.

Its worth my spending a bit of effort on developing a time machine and tell myself ten years ago to "go for the easy lay on that fateful night, not the one you eventually married, you effing numpty muppet".

That comment is totally out of order pal. An apology is due to her or you should be banned (but that doesn't happen on PH I'm so sadly afraid).

Any shred of credability just died with that post

[hondafanatic]

mikez328 said:

Fezant Pluckah said:

mikez328 said:

And I still say that there are two sides to every story.

Well, we haven't heard your ex's side of the story

So in your own words...

mikez328 said:

I would keep my mouth shut pal.

tw@t

I'm not far wrong, am I?

Edited by Gazboy on Thursday 26th March 14:59

[Rude-boy]

mikez328 said:

I'm not far wrong, am I?

Given that he is one step removed from landed gentry about as far as you can be

Edited by Gazboy on Thursday 26th March 15:00

[Fezant Pluckah]

mikez328 said:

Fezant Pluckah said:

mikez328 said:

And I still say that there are two sides to every story.

Well, we haven't heard your ex's side of the story

So in your own words...

mikez328 said:

I would keep my mouth shut pal.

tw@t

I'm not far wrong, am I?

How inciteful of you. You're spot on. Well done.

Regards
Mohammed

Edited by Gazboy on Thursday 26th March 15:00

[cs02rm0]

mikez328 said:

Fezant Pluckah said:

mikez328 said:

And I still say that there are two sides to every story.

Well, we haven't heard your ex's side of the story

So in your own words...

mikez328 said:

I would keep my mouth shut pal.

tw@t

I'm not far wrong, am I?

I'm white, my parents are both ex-RAF. I'd like to just say that you're a fking tt. That is all.

(I'm not missing anything here am I? That was an outrageous post!)

Edited by Gazboy on Thursday 26th March 15:01

[G'kar]

hondafanatic said:

mikez328 said:

Fezant Pluckah said:

mikez328 said:

And I still say that there are two sides to every story.

Well, we haven't heard your ex's side of the story

So in your own words...

mikez328 said:

I would keep my mouth shut pal.

tw@t

I'm not far wrong, am I?

Err, understatement there.

What an incredible post.

Edited by Gazboy on Thursday 26th March 15:02

[mikez328]

Bit of a Unit said:

mikez328 said:

ali_kat said:

mikez328 said:

No reponse yet. Therefore I will, quite rightly, assume that you told a pack of lies.

tt

She's not posted at all since 8:45 this morning - did it not occur to you that she might, just might, have a job that prevents her from posting on PH during the day?

My Friend, until YOUR life & career have been destroyed by the likes of Alastair Darling & his Child Support Agency & the wrongs been supported by both idiotic & ill-informed Conservative & Labour Governments in the mis-gotten belief that the CSA is good for us all, I would keep my mouth shut pal.

The mechanics & administration of the CSA is PURE EVIL. Run by & for uneducated Irish "Bog-Trotters" who are totally incapable of applying what should have been a simple earnings/expenses formula.

Am I bitter? ABSOLUTELY. The Government bds ruined my career & life for 13 years. The actual monthly payments weren't ever an issue - it was the fact that they constantly got them wrong & got away with 13 years of overcharging me!!

If I saw Alastair Darling or Gordon Brown in the street today I would consider assault or worse. I'd certainly spit on the wasters.

There is my "considered" response. And I still say that there are two sides to every story. And you have not heard the second side, nor probably will if the "Ex" has any pride....

As you will by have noticed, she is able to post & "is now off to her solicitors". Get a life & put your spec's on. She rarely works, if at all, or is a Civil Servant who can just take "paid sickies" whenever she wants - at your & my cost. Bitter - Me - Nooooo!

Edited by mikez328 on Thursday 26th March 14:32

Are you still on your own Mike?

No mate. Happily re-married since 1999 to a woman who values lifes values & doesn't want children. Just as well as I saw "Mac the Knife" immediately after my divorce as I had enough of a financial commitment to my lovely two children already & never ever wanted them to be disadvantaged emotionally or financially.

They are now adults & I feel I did the best for them over the years. Who knows?

[G'kar]

Fezant Pluckah said:

How inciteful of you.

Please tell me that was intended, because if so, it is pure genius.

[DrTre]

G'kar said:

Fezant Pluckah said:

How inciteful of you.

Please tell me that was intended, because if so, it is pure genius.

I was going to post that but didn't know how to phrase it without offending.