Ungrateful/Argumentative wife
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A lot of women are naturally argumentative. Learning to ignore it helps. If you argue back it just encourages them to come back with more, even when they have no evidence to back up their argument. They just roll to something else you 'did wrong'.
As much as you may not like it, ignore all the little stuff and agree. She gets the impression she has 'won' and you get some peace!
Other than that, same as everyone else, if you hate it, just end it. If you've talked to her about how she makes you feel and she still carries on, there is no future.
As much as you may not like it, ignore all the little stuff and agree. She gets the impression she has 'won' and you get some peace!
Other than that, same as everyone else, if you hate it, just end it. If you've talked to her about how she makes you feel and she still carries on, there is no future.
g3org3y said:
This was a f
king car crash from the very first post you did a while back OP.
Divorce and get on with your life for the sake of your sanity.
This is his 3rd post on the subject,do you think he'll listen this time ? king car crash from the very first post you did a while back OP.Divorce and get on with your life for the sake of your sanity.
If he doesn't his 4th post in another years time doesn't bear thinking about
Bluevanman said:
g3org3y said:
This was a fking car crash from the very first post you did a while back OP.
Divorce and get on with your life for the sake of your sanity.
This is his 3rd post on the subject,do you think he'll listen this time ? king car crash from the very first post you did a while back OP.Divorce and get on with your life for the sake of your sanity.
If he doesn't his 4th post in another years time doesn't bear thinking about
Can you think of three reasons in which a baby will be a good choice in this situation?
If you think she's argumentative now just wait until she's pregnant?
I don't pretend to know your situation but I think you already know what the answer is, the real question are you ready to do the really hard thing & pull the trigger or do you want to stay in a toxic relationship.
Only you can really answer this.
If you think she's argumentative now just wait until she's pregnant?
I don't pretend to know your situation but I think you already know what the answer is, the real question are you ready to do the really hard thing & pull the trigger or do you want to stay in a toxic relationship.
Only you can really answer this.
Hoofy said:
Castrol for a knave said:
and has really small hands that can reach the crank position sensor on a 928.
I thought you were going to write something rude there.And OP? Run like f
k and then run some more. If you get out now without any kids you'll get a clean break and be able to disappear to another town/county/country if needs be. If you have a child with her she will ruin both your life and that of the kid and that's unfair on you and plain fking cruel to the child.Do not have a kid, repeat do not impregnate!!
Going through a divorce must be pretty hellish but once done it's done. If you have a child with the wrong person it can be hellish, expensive and the biggest lesson in how to bite your tongue. It's been a decade for me and there was no marriage but I have a daughter who's nearly 11 now. My ex (and her husband) are still difficult, manipulative and gaslight. I digress.
Good luck OP, it doesn't sound like a happy situation and your other half sounds distinctly hard work. Out of interest does she ever have moments of clarity when she's not being really difficult?
Going through a divorce must be pretty hellish but once done it's done. If you have a child with the wrong person it can be hellish, expensive and the biggest lesson in how to bite your tongue. It's been a decade for me and there was no marriage but I have a daughter who's nearly 11 now. My ex (and her husband) are still difficult, manipulative and gaslight. I digress.
Good luck OP, it doesn't sound like a happy situation and your other half sounds distinctly hard work. Out of interest does she ever have moments of clarity when she's not being really difficult?
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