Cruise and 17 year old

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surveyor

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18,063 posts

190 months

Sunday 19th February 2023
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Hoping for positive replies here, as it's booked

The in-laws have decided that they want to get the family together and take everyone on a cruise. Very generous and in a few months after not a little debate, we are off to the fjords with P & O.

Our 17-year-old takes after her mother, and as such believes she is an adult. She is used to being fairly independent, and some of the blurb confuses me. Lots of stuff refers to under 17's, eg drinks packages, teen areas, but lots of stuff see's adults as 18.

Has anyone been on board and can advise what to expect?


Driver101

14,376 posts

127 months

Sunday 19th February 2023
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They'll be allowed some alcohol if they are eating food with adults.

Trevor555

4,488 posts

90 months

Sunday 19th February 2023
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Sorry, but P&O isn't the best cruise line for 17 year old re things for them to do. No water slides, no wave rider etc..

She'll be able to do the kids club thing, so hopefully there'll be some others there her age.

Casino staff regularly ask young people their age, have to be 18 to be in there, cant even watch mum/dad chuck money away in there.

Hope she enjoys it, but if not go royal caribbean, celebrity, or Ncl next time.


surveyor

Original Poster:

18,063 posts

190 months

Sunday 19th February 2023
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Trevor555 said:
Sorry, but P&O isn't the best cruise line for 17 year old re things for them to do. No water slides, no wave rider etc..

She'll be able to do the kids club thing, so hopefully there'll be some others there her age.

Casino staff regularly ask young people their age, have to be 18 to be in there, cant even watch mum/dad chuck money away in there.

Hope she enjoys it, but if not go royal caribbean, celebrity, or Ncl next time.
Cheers. Options were limited by family choices, budgets, dates and leaving it too late to book.. She's got a couple of cousins of similar age, although they are boys and until recently had not seen each other for years.

I think she will be bored, but who knows!

Cheib

23,625 posts

181 months

Sunday 19th February 2023
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surveyor said:
I think she will be bored, but who knows!
I think she will too. Sorry !

Ynox

1,723 posts

185 months

Sunday 19th February 2023
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Not on P&O, but on Cunard (also a Carnival brand) I've seen bar staff ID passengers who they think are under age.

It's a difficult age. The 'kids' clubs are pretty good with games consoles etc.

Edit - looks like you can get beer / wine / cider with a meal - 'It is prohibited to attempt to purchase alcohol for those under 18 in the bars and shops on board, although 16 and 17 year olds may be bought modest amounts of beer, cider or wine to drink with a meal in the restaurants when accompanied by a parent or legal guardian.' https://www.pocruises.com/short-breaks/code-of-con...

Edited by Ynox on Sunday 19th February 21:16

anonymous-user

60 months

Sunday 19th February 2023
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Leave her at home, she'll be fine.

surveyor

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18,063 posts

190 months

Sunday 19th February 2023
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It’s a family cruise. Not an option on this occasion

surveyor

Original Poster:

18,063 posts

190 months

Sunday 19th February 2023
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Ynox said:
Not on P&O, but on Cunard (also a Carnival brand) I've seen bar staff ID passengers who they think are under age.

It's a difficult age. The 'kids' clubs are pretty good with games consoles etc.

Edit - looks like you can get beer / wine / cider with a meal - 'It is prohibited to attempt to purchase alcohol for those under 18 in the bars and shops on board, although 16 and 17 year olds may be bought modest amounts of beer, cider or wine to drink with a meal in the restaurants when accompanied by a parent or legal guardian.' https://www.pocruises.com/short-breaks/code-of-con...

Edited by Ynox on Sunday 19th February 21:16
Better than I expected!

elanfan

5,527 posts

233 months

Sunday 19th February 2023
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Once she catches a waiters eye she won’t. Bored for long. :lol:

Wacky Racer

38,800 posts

253 months

Sunday 19th February 2023
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pocketspring said:
Leave her at home, she'll be fine.
I virtually burnt my mum and dad's house down in a chip pan fire when they left me alone at home aged 17 whist they went on a QE2 cruise.....laugh

anonymous-user

60 months

Sunday 19th February 2023
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Wacky Racer said:
pocketspring said:
Leave her at home, she'll be fine.
I virtually burnt my mum and dad's house down in a chip pan fire when they left me alone at home aged 17 whist they went on a QE2 cruise.....laugh
Were you angry? laugh

My sister was just saying today her hubby has booked a cruise for August for him, her and their daughter. Their daughter will be 15 and is having a mental breakdown at the thought there's no wifi on board. This is someone who posts IG ste at 4am.

Wacky Racer

38,800 posts

253 months

Sunday 19th February 2023
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pocketspring said:
Were you angry? laugh

No but they were hehe

When they were due home I went out to the pub and left a note saying "As you can see there has been a slight accident"

The kitchen was completely gutted and every room in the house was affected by black smoke.

TIP. Never throw a bowl of water on a chip pan fire.

loafer123

15,640 posts

221 months

Monday 20th February 2023
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pocketspring said:
Were you angry? laugh

My sister was just saying today her hubby has booked a cruise for August for him, her and their daughter. Their daughter will be 15 and is having a mental breakdown at the thought there's no wifi on board. This is someone who posts IG ste at 4am.
It’s probably why he booked it. Perhaps he’s trying to get her to engage with the real world?

anonymous-user

60 months

Monday 20th February 2023
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loafer123 said:
pocketspring said:
Were you angry? laugh

My sister was just saying today her hubby has booked a cruise for August for him, her and their daughter. Their daughter will be 15 and is having a mental breakdown at the thought there's no wifi on board. This is someone who posts IG ste at 4am.
It’s probably why he booked it. Perhaps he’s trying to get her to engage with the real world?
I totally agree with you but he is a tight arse. Paid for the drinks upgrade but not the WiFi package. Got a black lab dog then decides he doesn't like the hair he drops so my sister has to dump him at my dad's every day to make a mess and of course she doesn't pick the hair up. He also got fed up picking up dog eggs off his garden so he's put flint down so the dog drops his eggs off on my dad's lawn. Of course again, no one ever offers to pick them up. He's either at work or asleep so if my sister has to work then my dad has to pick up their daughter from school. Honestly, as long as he's ok, screw everyone else.

Anyway, apologies for major O/T! Back on topic for the OP.

Gilmore

306 posts

140 months

Monday 20th February 2023
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surveyor said:
Hoping for positive replies here, as it's booked

The in-laws have decided that they want to get the family together and take everyone on a cruise. Very generous and in a few months after not a little debate, we are off to the fjords with P & O.

Our 17-year-old takes after her mother, and as such believes she is an adult. She is used to being fairly independent, and some of the blurb confuses me. Lots of stuff refers to under 17's, eg drinks packages, teen areas, but lots of stuff see's adults as 18.

Has anyone been on board and can advise what to expect?
Yes, good chance she will be bored.

What time of year?

If she wants a few drinks will be you going to the bar to get 'em and I'd advise a drink that doesn't flat out look alcoholic i.e. she's not sat there with a pint of ale beer

Hopefully you're going in school holidays and there's a decent chance they'll be similar people her age being dragged along in a similar scenario etc.

anonymous-user

60 months

Monday 20th February 2023
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At a guess, probably some performances and shows, swimming, arcades, quiz nights. Got to be some clubbing nights going on as well.

Trevor555

4,488 posts

90 months

Monday 20th February 2023
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Decent gym also if you're on iona

surveyor

Original Poster:

18,063 posts

190 months

Monday 20th February 2023
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Gilmore said:
surveyor said:
Hoping for positive replies here, as it's booked

The in-laws have decided that they want to get the family together and take everyone on a cruise. Very generous and in a few months after not a little debate, we are off to the fjords with P & O.

Our 17-year-old takes after her mother, and as such believes she is an adult. She is used to being fairly independent, and some of the blurb confuses me. Lots of stuff refers to under 17's, eg drinks packages, teen areas, but lots of stuff see's adults as 18.

Has anyone been on board and can advise what to expect?
Yes, good chance she will be bored.

What time of year?

If she wants a few drinks will be you going to the bar to get 'em and I'd advise a drink that doesn't flat out look alcoholic i.e. she's not sat there with a pint of ale beer

Hopefully you're going in school holidays and there's a decent chance they'll be similar people her age being dragged along in a similar scenario etc.
May half term. Should be others in her position! - Ship is Britannia

Trevor555

4,488 posts

90 months

Monday 20th February 2023
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surveyor said:
May half term. Should be others in her position! - Ship is Britannia
Solo cruisers meet on Britania is 9.30am in crows nest.

Maybe, just maybe, might be others her age. But probably not. At the very least free tea/coffee at the meet.