Help, my flip-flops, flip-off!

Help, my flip-flops, flip-off!

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Dr Murdoch

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3,535 posts

141 months

Thursday 14th July 2022
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Getting ready for my hols, and my usual issue of footway has risen to the surface.

I would like to wear flip-flops or sliders, but they never stay on my feet, the just slip off when walking, especially when going down stairs.

Having narrow feet I suspect this is the issue. On this basis, has anyone had similar issues but managed to find a company that makes flip flops for narrow feet that stay on without needing super glue?

r159

2,320 posts

80 months

Thursday 14th July 2022
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Get some walking sandals, I’ve got a pair of Merrell ones that are 16 years old and still going strong, even after a lot of abuse… best thing is if you’re not going far they stay on without having to do the strap up.

https://www.outdoorgb.com/p/Merrell_Kahuna_III_Men...

cavey76

419 posts

152 months

Thursday 14th July 2022
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r159 said:
Get some walking sandals, I’ve got a pair of Merrell ones that are 16 years old and still going strong, even after a lot of abuse… best thing is if you’re not going far they stay on without having to do the strap up.

https://www.outdoorgb.com/p/Merrell_Kahuna_III_Men...
All well and good but only if you are taking your sexual partner with you...you sure as hell aint finding one on holiday wearing them.

quick anecdote - Had a pair of something similar in 1997 on my first visit to Egypt (partner in tow). After several days of Egyptian Belly, i popped them back in the box and returned to the shop on my return because of a "tear"

phumy

5,738 posts

243 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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Dr Murdoch said:
Getting ready for my hols, and my usual issue of footway has risen to the surface.

I would like to wear flip-flops or sliders, but they never stay on my feet, the just slip off when walking, especially when going down stairs.

Having narrow feet I suspect this is the issue. On this basis, has anyone had similar issues but managed to find a company that makes flip flops for narrow feet that stay on without needing super glue?
You need to wear socks with them, youll really look the part then. hehe

Pflanzgarten

4,716 posts

31 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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Get yourself some Swims. Comfy, ventilated, don’t mind getting wet and won’t are you look like a weirdo.

MesoForm

9,066 posts

281 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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cavey76 said:
r159 said:
Get some walking sandals, I’ve got a pair of Merrell ones that are 16 years old and still going strong, even after a lot of abuse… best thing is if you’re not going far they stay on without having to do the strap up.

https://www.outdoorgb.com/p/Merrell_Kahuna_III_Men...
All well and good but only if you are taking your sexual partner with you...you sure as hell aint finding one on holiday wearing them.
Barefoot sandals are a thing, they’re thin without any chunky straps on top.
Something like
https://xeroshoes.com/shop/product-category/sandal...
But they’re not cheap. You can also search for zero drop sandals or minimalist sandals.

captain.scarlet

1,891 posts

40 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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phumy said:
Dr Murdoch said:
Getting ready for my hols, and my usual issue of footway has risen to the surface.

I would like to wear flip-flops or sliders, but they never stay on my feet, the just slip off when walking, especially when going down stairs.

Having narrow feet I suspect this is the issue. On this basis, has anyone had similar issues but managed to find a company that makes flip flops for narrow feet that stay on without needing super glue?
You need to wear socks with them, youll really look the part then. hehe
Well that's a trend/look that has certainly caught on in the UK. I went to the USA for the first time nearly 3 years ago now and it caught my eye in the shopping centres there.

It either caught on in the UK after or I had simply not noticed it, but it seems to have been a trend for a couple of years at least now and I have seen the look even being rocked mid-winter in wet and cold weather. Usually accompanied by vaping.

To the OP: I have wide and flat feet. I have the opposite problem in that some sandals can rub or cause blisters whereas others are too narrow. I find that the best flipflops / sandals are those with the two straps of material that diagonally cross over one another.

From my own experience, those flimsy thongs are just too flimsy, awful for driving and uncomfortable, particularly with that piece of rubber between your big and second toe. However if you're struggling to keep that footwear on then squeezing your toes together is certainly not an option!!

If you get sliders, make sure the strap that bridges over the foot is switched to or forms the main body, if that makes sense. I purchased a small quantity of sliders off Asos and the straps were bonded to the sides of the sole with the stingiest amount of weak adhesive that they've all peeled off with my feet width/flatness or the slightest additional stress from kneeling, twisting or accidentally kicking something slightly raised.

Oddly however I do have a pair that I purchased for very little from Home Bargains, which have definitely stood the test of time (4 years), including whilst renovating a house.

Otherwise as another forum member has said above, consider a pair with a buckle of sorts so that you can tighten them to fit your feet. Perhaps ensure the fabric is something breathable and/or easily washable for comfort and hygiene. The sight of grubby and sweaty Birkenstocks or faux suede is certainly not a pretty sight!


abzmike

9,131 posts

112 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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I used to have the issue of flop flops flipping off, but that was with the ones that had a solid rubber strap. Now I used ones with a broader fabric strap and they don’t flip off any more.

mart 63

2,125 posts

250 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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abzmike said:
I used to have the issue of flop flops flipping off, but that was with the ones that had a solid rubber strap. Now I used ones with a broader fabric strap and they don’t flip off any more.
Same here, i wear them every day, for most of the year.

Jamescrs

4,778 posts

71 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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Buy some crocs- It's what all the cool kids are wearing now according to J.D Sports

mart 63

2,125 posts

250 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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smn159

13,323 posts

223 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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Dr Murdoch said:
Getting ready for my hols, and my usual issue of footway has risen to the surface.

I would like to wear flip-flops or sliders, but they never stay on my feet, the just slip off when walking, especially when going down stairs.

Having narrow feet I suspect this is the issue. On this basis, has anyone had similar issues but managed to find a company that makes flip flops for narrow feet that stay on without needing super glue?
These are brilliant. Easy to walk in and extraordinarily comfortable

https://www.oofos.co.uk/products/mens-ooahh-slide-...

anonymous-user

60 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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What I don’t get with flip flops is when people complain about them due to a lack of support?

I was wearing some the other day and someone told me they were bad for my feet due to lack of support and they’re damaging my feet.

I asked what’s wrong with how our feet are made that we need this extra support in the first place? My feet seem to support my body just fine when I walk. I get that we might need protection from the elements or sharp objects etc but are our feet somehow made incorrectly?

His answer was that his son's football strengthening coach had said so and he knows about this stuff.

Is it because some people have been wearing supportive shoes for so long now that their feet/tendons/supporting structures don’t work properly any more?

My feet work just fine, I wear shoes as little as possible and grew up in bare feet and flip flops.

My view is that wearing all this unnecessary support is what’s damaging kids/adults feet not letting their feet develop and do the work like every other animal does. Fair enough if you actually have some7wrong with your feet like fallen arches or whatever.

Seems odd that humans were somehow made with feet that don’t work properly.

Edited by anonymous-user on Friday 15th July 08:30

Taita

7,713 posts

209 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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Yes.

Zetec-S

6,214 posts

99 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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El stovey said:
What I don’t get with flip flops is when people complain about them due to a lack of support?

I was wearing some the other day and someone told me they were bad for my feet due to lack of support and they’re damaging my feet.

I asked what’s wrong with how our feet are made that we need this extra support in the first place? My feet seem to support my body just fine when I walk. I get that we might need protection from the elements or sharp objects etc but are our feet somehow made incorrectly?

His answer was that his son's football strengthening coach had said so and he knows about this stuff.

Is it because some people have been wearing supportive shoes for so long now that their feet/tendons/supporting structures don’t work properly any more?

My feet work just fine, I wear shoes as little as possible and grew up in bare feet and flip flops.

My view is that wearing all this unnecessary support is what’s damaging kids/adults feet not letting their feet develop and do the work like every other animal does. Fair enough if you actually have some7wrong with your feet like fallen arches or whatever.

Seems odd that humans were somehow made with feet that don’t work properly.

Edited by El stovey on Friday 15th July 08:30
In all my 41 1/2 years I've never really thought about it like that, but now you say it I think it's a valid point.

Dr Murdoch

Original Poster:

3,535 posts

141 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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cavey76 said:
All well and good but only if you are taking your sexual partner with you...you sure as hell aint finding one on holiday wearing them.
Indeed, whilst going with my wife, if I were to put those on then I'll be dinning on my own...


anonymous-user

60 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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Zetec-S said:
In all my 41 1/2 years I've never really thought about it like that, but now you say it I think it's a valid point.
There’s possibly an argument that our bodies weren’t designed to last as long as they have or that they’re not designed to work on concrete but that’s stretching it imho.

As people are often saying kids need this feet support to develop properly, which always seems odd to me.

Surely kids need a total lack of feet support to develop properly as that’s how we’re made and our feet etc were designed and have developed to work just fine without any extra support.

anonymous-user

60 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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Dr Murdoch said:
cavey76 said:
All well and good but only if you are taking your sexual partner with you...you sure as hell aint finding one on holiday wearing them.
Indeed, whilst going with my wife, if I were to put those on then I'll be dinning on my own...
It’s the old situation where blokes from cold climates are in warm climates and having to dress differently and expose parts of their bodies they don’t normally.

Feet, legs, bellies. . . . usually pale looking after months inside or hidden under clothes. . . . it’s fraught with danger.

andyA700

3,191 posts

43 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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El stovey said:
Dr Murdoch said:
cavey76 said:
All well and good but only if you are taking your sexual partner with you...you sure as hell aint finding one on holiday wearing them.
Indeed, whilst going with my wife, if I were to put those on then I'll be dinning on my own...
It’s the old situation where blokes from cold climates are in warm climates and having to dress differently and expose parts of their bodies they don’t normally.

Feet, legs, bellies. . . . usually pale looking after months inside or hidden under clothes. . . . it’s fraught with danger.
Exactly, my natural body colour goes from light blue to pink (I am a ginge), so introduce a fair whack of heat and things can get dodgy fairly quickly. As for flipflops and arch supports, I hate the former but use the latter. As we get heavier and older our feet need a bit of help. You won't find any modern athletes failing to take advantage of arch supports or orthotics, even if in the past people such as Abebe Bikila or Zola Budd ran barefoot.

Shnozz

27,911 posts

277 months

Friday 15th July 2022
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Tend to wear havaianas around the terrace and streets with no issues.

However, they can be hard work on a beach. Recently discovered the joys of aqua shoes for the beach and also means I can drive to the beach wearing them rather than changing from trainers to flip flops after parking the car up.