Think she's pregnant
Discussion
Well after reading several other recent threads of a similar vein, I now find myself in a familiar predicament. I wouldn't normally talk openly about my private life like this, but felt the need to on this occasion.
My job means I work variable hours, and am often out evenings and late night. I have got home from working late several nights recently to find my lady out. She has crept in thinking I am asleep,and I have said nothing or asked where she has been.
I now have reason to believe she may be pregnant, and I know it is definately not mine. Really not sure how to approach this, so really looking for some advice.
My job means I work variable hours, and am often out evenings and late night. I have got home from working late several nights recently to find my lady out. She has crept in thinking I am asleep,and I have said nothing or asked where she has been.
I now have reason to believe she may be pregnant, and I know it is definately not mine. Really not sure how to approach this, so really looking for some advice.
1598 said:
So being out at night = being pregnant? Surely that just equals cheating on you.
Am I missing/unaware of some PH'ism.
I don't think he's drawing the conclusion that she's pregant based on her nocturnal shenanigans. The nocturnal shenanigans however, would lead him to believe that if she is pregnant, it's probably not his.Am I missing/unaware of some PH'ism.
t. You could of corse just ask her why she is getting so fat latley, but that may just drop you in the same s
An interesting predicament. When I found out my last partner was cheating on me I managed to keep schtum for about 4 days whilst making the arrangements to leave, then dropped the news on her/him in an entertainingly vitriolic manner.
[stalker] Follow her, find him, lime pit.[/stalker]
[stalker] Follow her, find him, lime pit.[/stalker]
There could be a perfectly reasonable explanation for this. Perhaps, because you've been working late, she has joined a baking class. She is not pregnant, just getting increasingly fat from eating all the baked goods. Of course, there is a chance she's met someone at her baking class who has popped a bun in her oven... Best of luck!
Maury?
But in all seriousness, sounds like you two need to talk to one another. Me and my OH know pretty much know all the time where/what we're up to.
Have a chat, maybe you've got nothing really to worry about, but you need to know.............only then you can act on it, hope it works out ok.
But in all seriousness, sounds like you two need to talk to one another. Me and my OH know pretty much know all the time where/what we're up to.
Have a chat, maybe you've got nothing really to worry about, but you need to know.............only then you can act on it, hope it works out ok.
Edited by grar on Wednesday 2nd March 12:32
carreauchompeur said:
An interesting predicament. When I found out my last partner was cheating on me I managed to keep schtum for about 4 days whilst making the arrangements to leave, then dropped the news on her/him in an entertainingly vitriolic manner.
[stalker] Follow her, find him, lime pit.[/stalker]
her/him?[stalker] Follow her, find him, lime pit.[/stalker]
were you dating a hermaphrodite?
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