Annoying dog owners

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HTP99

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23,154 posts

146 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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You; the tt with the two big Husky dogs yesterday, both off leads yet one of them that ignores your pathetic attempt at calling him back, the issue is your dog not my two.

I'm out with my two at a local dog walking spot, Daisy has a long training lead as she cannot be let off; it gives her a bit of freedom, Barry loves his ball and as long as he has a ball to run after then he is happy.

We are walking at the edge of the field, I can see in the distance this guy and his two dogs, one of which starts approaching, I rapidly pull Daisy in; she hates other dogs and goes for them, at first the owner does nothing and carries on walking with the other dog and his wife; wife then starts to try and call the other dog back, her pathetic attempts are ignored.

Meanwhile the Husky is now hassling Barry and trying to grab his ball, Barry doesn't like this and starts to get a bit cross; think small yappy Terrier, he loves other dogs but woe betide another dog trying to get his ball, Barry is now getting angrier and is going for this dog, in the meantime I am trying to keep Daisy away; which is proving difficult as the Husky is pretty much on top of us; still the owner is not doing a great deal, Daisy makes the odd lunge and connects a few times; as does Barry.

Finally the guy realises that things are getting a bit out of hand; takes the tt a while to realise this, one would have thought that me rapidly reeling in Daisy as his dog approaches us would send out a bit of a clue that his dog approaching us isn't the best thing to be happening.

He grabs his dog, turns to me and says; all aggressive "what's all that about then?"

FFS man do you not have eyes, I was a bit stunned and just blurted out "she is on a lead for a reason" pointing to Daisy, he looks a bit shocked and shuts up, then wanders off

I am sick and tired of other people who a) cannot control their dogs b) can't work out that really a dog off a lead shouldn't really approach another dog that is on a lead, without first checking it is OK to do so c) don't seem to realise that me frantically pulling in my dog when their dog approaches, means my dog isn't great with other dogs and d) your dog approaches mine, I was out of the way minding my own business, so therefore it is your dog that is at fault if things get nasty, not mine.

To give you an idea of the chap he was a bit overweight in that "I'm ard" way, close cropped hair, grey jogging bottoms and matching top, finished off with a body warmer, his wife was overweight and bleach blonde and they drove a Frontera. (See "A bit council thread!!)

The vast majority of dog owners are fine, there are always the odd few though and it drives me nuts.

Edited by HTP99 on Sunday 17th April 11:51

LordHaveMurci

12,072 posts

175 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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My lad & I were walking our two recently & saw a Malamut type dog with a couple coming our way so we put our Westie on the lead as he can be a bit funny with other dogs.

Their bloody dog wouldn't leave us alone, she was running after it shouting 'away' & wondering why she couldn't catch it!
Like you, I ponted out our Westie was put on the lead for a reason & dared to suggest she should have done the same, you can imagine how well that went down, it was very clearly my fault after all!

God help her OH, bet he really copped it for the rest of the evening!

Alucidnation

16,810 posts

176 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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Its astonishing that most people take great offence when their dog is causing trouble and one has the nerve to comment on it!

Spiffing

1,855 posts

216 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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Yep. Basic manners, if a person has a dog on a lead or puts it on when he sees you coming out yours on the lead.

My dog was injured and needed lead walks for 18 months, ideally not on tarmac because of of the hard surface. So many times another dog would appear and leap around him getting him excited and often aggravating his injury. This was despite me calling that he was injured to the other owner.


HTP99

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23,154 posts

146 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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In the past when I've been reeling her in people have said "oh it doesn't matter (insert dogs name here) needs putting in her place every once in a while; err you may not mind my dog attacking your dog but I do!!

I did have one guy; who was training his Spaniel, have a right go at his dog when she ran up to Daisy, with him trying to call her back; Daisy made her yelp and run off, the guy apologised to me and told his dog that it was her fault.

My worry is that both Daisy and Barry are relatively small, this Husky thing was huge, it could easily have taken offence to having both a tiny Terrier with small man syndrome and a mad Frenchie, having a go; causing alot of damage to both of them.

Edited by HTP99 on Sunday 17th April 18:25

essayer

9,487 posts

200 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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Huskies are renowned for being bad off lead. I'm surprised he risked it.

kowalski655

14,884 posts

149 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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Huskies & Malamuts seem to be replacing Staffies as dogs for the terminally ignorant!

HTP99

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23,154 posts

146 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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kowalski655 said:
Huskies & Malamuts seem to be replacing Staffies as dogs for the terminally ignorant!
Very much so, I did read somewhere that they are the trendy dog of the moment.

kowalski655

14,884 posts

149 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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Friend of the OH has 2,never walked properly,cooped up in tiny house,1 got annoyed by the other,she turned to attack & got her baby son,took a chunk out of his face! They blamed the innocent dog,he had to be "done",bloody miracle they didnt have to have it PTS!

Roscco

276 posts

228 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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I have a young Doberman,

It doesn't matter that he's on his lead and carrying a stick/ball, when ever some idiots off the lead staff/husky/mongrel comes over and my dog isn't amused its always his fault cause is Doberman innit???


bayleaf

285 posts

105 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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HTP99 said:
You; the tt with the two big Husky dogs yesterday, both off leads yet one of them that ignores your pathetic attempt at calling him back, the issue is your dog not my two.

I'm out with my two at a local dog walking spot, Daisy has a long training lead as she cannot be let off; it gives her a bit of freedom, Barry loves his ball and as long as he has a ball to run after then he is happy.

We are walking at the edge of the field, I can see in the distance this guy and his two dogs, one of which starts approaching, I rapidly pull Daisy in; she hates other dogs and goes for them, at first the owner does nothing and carries on walking with the other dog and his wife; wife then starts to try and call the other dog back, her pathetic attempts are ignored.

Meanwhile the Husky is now hassling Barry and trying to grab his ball, Barry doesn't like this and starts to get a bit cross; think small yappy Terrier, he loves other dogs but woe betide another dog trying to get his ball, Barry is now getting angrier and is going for this dog, in the meantime I am trying to keep Daisy away; which is proving difficult as the Husky is pretty much on top of us; still the owner is not doing a great deal, Daisy makes the odd lunge and connects a few times; as does Barry.

Finally the guy realises that things are getting a bit out of hand; takes the tt a while to realise this, one would have thought that me rapidly reeling in Daisy as his dog approaches us would send out a bit of a clue that his dog approaching us isn't the best thing to be happening.

He grabs his dog, turns to me and says; all aggressive "what's all that about then?"

FFS man do you not have eyes, I was a bit stunned and just blurted out "she is on a lead for a reason" pointing to Daisy, he looks a bit shocked and shuts up, then wanders off

I am sick and tired of other people who a) cannot control their dogs b) can't work out that really a dog off a lead shouldn't really approach another dog that is on a lead, without first checking it is OK to do so c) don't seem to realise that me frantically pulling in my dog when their dog approaches, means my dog isn't great with other dogs and d) your dog approaches mine, I was out of the way minding my own business, so therefore it is your dog that is at fault if things get nasty, not mine.

To give you an idea of the chap he was a bit overweight in that "I'm ard" way, close cropped hair, grey jogging bottoms and matching top, finished off with a body warmer, his wife was overweight and bleach blonde and they drove a Frontera. (See "A bit council thread!!)

The vast majority of dog owners are fine, there are always the odd few though and it drives me nuts.

Edited by HTP99 on Sunday 17th April 11:51
So your dogs are anti-social, his aren't, and he's somehow the problem? If your dogs were properly socialised then none of this would have happened.

I love how you describe their clothing. What were you wearing and what's your bmi?

HTP99

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23,154 posts

146 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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bayleaf said:
HTP99 said:
You; the tt with the two big Husky dogs yesterday, both off leads yet one of them that ignores your pathetic attempt at calling him back, the issue is your dog not my two.

I'm out with my two at a local dog walking spot, Daisy has a long training lead as she cannot be let off; it gives her a bit of freedom, Barry loves his ball and as long as he has a ball to run after then he is happy.

We are walking at the edge of the field, I can see in the distance this guy and his two dogs, one of which starts approaching, I rapidly pull Daisy in; she hates other dogs and goes for them, at first the owner does nothing and carries on walking with the other dog and his wife; wife then starts to try and call the other dog back, her pathetic attempts are ignored.

Meanwhile the Husky is now hassling Barry and trying to grab his ball, Barry doesn't like this and starts to get a bit cross; think small yappy Terrier, he loves other dogs but woe betide another dog trying to get his ball, Barry is now getting angrier and is going for this dog, in the meantime I am trying to keep Daisy away; which is proving difficult as the Husky is pretty much on top of us; still the owner is not doing a great deal, Daisy makes the odd lunge and connects a few times; as does Barry.

Finally the guy realises that things are getting a bit out of hand; takes the tt a while to realise this, one would have thought that me rapidly reeling in Daisy as his dog approaches us would send out a bit of a clue that his dog approaching us isn't the best thing to be happening.

He grabs his dog, turns to me and says; all aggressive "what's all that about then?"

FFS man do you not have eyes, I was a bit stunned and just blurted out "she is on a lead for a reason" pointing to Daisy, he looks a bit shocked and shuts up, then wanders off

I am sick and tired of other people who a) cannot control their dogs b) can't work out that really a dog off a lead shouldn't really approach another dog that is on a lead, without first checking it is OK to do so c) don't seem to realise that me frantically pulling in my dog when their dog approaches, means my dog isn't great with other dogs and d) your dog approaches mine, I was out of the way minding my own business, so therefore it is your dog that is at fault if things get nasty, not mine.

To give you an idea of the chap he was a bit overweight in that "I'm ard" way, close cropped hair, grey jogging bottoms and matching top, finished off with a body warmer, his wife was overweight and bleach blonde and they drove a Frontera. (See "A bit council thread!!)

The vast majority of dog owners are fine, there are always the odd few though and it drives me nuts.

Edited by HTP99 on Sunday 17th April 11:51
So your dogs are anti-social, his aren't, and he's somehow the problem? If your dogs were properly socialised then none of this would have happened.

I love how you describe their clothing. What were you wearing and what's your bmi?
The comment about the clothing was a joke; hence why I added the council thread comment on the end.

One dog doesn't like others and is always on a lead, she is also deaf so she can be defensive and the fact that I was reeling her in should make that pretty obvious to the owner of the other dog, my other dog is fine with other dogs but if they start to a) go for his ball or b) are overly boisterous towards him and hassling him then he gets cross.

The fact of of the matter is, the Husky was off a lead, it was hassling my dogs, its re-call was non existent and the owner couldn't see an issue so yes the problem wasn't my dogs.

If Barry goes off to see another dog/person/bush/whatever and I call him back, he will always come back to me.

You clearly have no idea.



Edited by HTP99 on Sunday 17th April 19:26

bayleaf

285 posts

105 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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Your dogs are poorly socialised, it's very easy to understand.

I hate coming across poorly socialised dogs, doesn't reflect well.

ruggedscotty

5,774 posts

215 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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To the OP - I read your post and went away for a bit as I didnt want to respond at the time. I think that you need to be aware that the issue here was your dog. Im sure that putting the dog on a lead makes you feel that you are taking reasonable duty and care to protect others. Please Please Please reconsider putting the dog on the lead doesnt absolve you. Have you muzzled the dog ? If not then I think that you should consider one. Thats the only way to be sure and to be safe - yes it means that your dog wont be able to defend itself but it also means that your dog wont be able to bite. And thats the important thing here.

I would also look at enrolling on dog training and see about getting those anger issues resolved. A husky is a pretty big dog and it can and will do a fair bit of damage. Its never the dogs fault but the situation that the dog is allowed to get itself into. Manage those situations and you reduce the risk. As for other dogs and other people, you cant control them. Thats part of life. People do unexpected things. What would happen if a kid poked the dog in the eye ? or picked up the dogs stick or ball, These things are plausable and they do happen. What if the person doesnt speak english and you try to warn them away ?


Pickled

2,055 posts

149 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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kowalski655 said:
Huskies & Malamuts seem to be replacing Staffies as dogs for the terminally ignorant!
Only those that don't understand the breed(s)

Neither should be allowed off lead, unless in an enclosed space, high prey drive coupled with little or no recall; no doubt someone will pipe up and say theirs always comes back - I personally wouldn't ever take the risk, I love my dog too much to risk him chasing something across a road etc.

I've had a Husky, Samoyed and currently have a Malamute and have never had any problems with them, well apart from everyone thinking the mal is a husky despite being twice the size... They are actually very sociable with other dogs, if a little boisterous.

P.S Malamute has an E on the end wink

Edited by Pickled on Sunday 17th April 19:42

Butter Face

31,213 posts

166 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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bayleaf said:
Your dogs are poorly socialised, it's very easy to understand.

I hate coming across poorly socialised dogs, doesn't reflect well.
Some people don't like other people, some dogs don't like other dogs. Don't be a dick.

I keep my boy on a lead because he gets very defensive and when he does he completely ignores any attempt to recall him, I wouldn't dream of letting him off the lead because if he went for another dog it would be my fault. If your dog does not instantly come back when you call it DON'T let it off a lead, pretty fking simple really.

bayleaf

285 posts

105 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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Butter Face said:
bayleaf said:
Your dogs are poorly socialised, it's very easy to understand.

I hate coming across poorly socialised dogs, doesn't reflect well.
Some people don't like other people, some dogs don't like other dogs. Don't be a dick.

I keep my boy on a lead because he gets very defensive and when he does he completely ignores any attempt to recall him, I wouldn't dream of letting him off the lead because if he went for another dog it would be my fault. If your dog does not instantly come back when you call it DON'T let it off a lead, pretty fking simple really.
That's fine. I bet you don't expect every other dog in sight to be on a lead too because of yours do you?

Butter Face

31,213 posts

166 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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bayleaf said:
Butter Face said:
bayleaf said:
Your dogs are poorly socialised, it's very easy to understand.

I hate coming across poorly socialised dogs, doesn't reflect well.
Some people don't like other people, some dogs don't like other dogs. Don't be a dick.

I keep my boy on a lead because he gets very defensive and when he does he completely ignores any attempt to recall him, I wouldn't dream of letting him off the lead because if he went for another dog it would be my fault. If your dog does not instantly come back when you call it DON'T let it off a lead, pretty fking simple really.
That's fine. I bet you don't expect every other dog in sight to be on a lead too because of yours do you?
Of course not, but that's not what I said. If a dog gets close to mine then the owner will know about it be use my lovely creamy coloured Scottie becomes a foaming screaming killer. If they don't see that and don't recall it then it's their damn fault.

I also know that if I see a dog on a lead then the likelyhood is that it's on the lead for a reason.

rasto

2,205 posts

243 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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With HTP99 on this one, our dog Holly used to be quite happy with other dogs until an out of control rottweiler cross attacked her while she was on a lead. She now no longer trusts pretty much any other dog so she has to be kept on a lead for the majority of our walks. Most other dog owners are OK with this and will control their dogs, but there are still the occasional few that think it is OK to let their dogs wander over and harass (in her mind anyway) Holly.
The annoying thing is that she was properly socialised as a puppy and used to love playing with other dogs, but her ability to trust them and our ability to trust her possible reaction has been completely lost.

av185

19,143 posts

133 months

Sunday 17th April 2016
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'And they drove a Frontera'.

Definite Chav tendency....biggrin: