Saying goodbye to a beloved pet

Saying goodbye to a beloved pet

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anonymous-user

Original Poster:

60 months

Friday 30th January 2015
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Hi all, this is more of a cathartic release than anything else.

Goodbye Buster. I fking loved you man.


AKA PABS

316 posts

128 months

Friday 30th January 2015
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Bye bye buster, RIP.
My cat of 16 year was PTS last Monday, and it does not embarrass me one bit to say it was heartbreaking.

Mobile Chicane

21,125 posts

218 months

Friday 30th January 2015
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Aaaawww... frown

Think of the good times. I'm sure there would have been many, since he looks like a 'proper' character. hehe

Any stories to share?

Jasandjules

70,424 posts

235 months

Friday 30th January 2015
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Sorry for your loss.

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

60 months

Friday 30th January 2015
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Mobile Chicane said:
Aaaawww... frown

Think of the good times. I'm sure there would have been many, since he looks like a 'proper' character. hehe

Any stories to share?
Indeed he was a proper character, that's part of the reason I am so cut up about losing him. We adopted him when he was about 3 years old. He was a house rabbit for the first years of his life, living in a flat with a young family. They had to move and couldn't take him with them, so we offered to give him a new home.

Because he was a house rabbit, he was totally 100% humanised. He was also a little hard of eye sight, he had slightly cloudy eyes, and although he could definitely see, we think that it might have been blurry or cloudy as he never really responded to visual stimulus.

We made him a large run and house in the garden, which he had free run of, and we would let him out into the garden whenever we could. He was such a great chap, never trying to escape, never being naughty, just enjoying rabbiting about in the garden.

He was never neutered, and so from spring to autumn each year he was just completely fueled by testosterone. So much so that he would take to humping peoples feet and legs like a dog might. To combat this, we got him a series of rabbit stuffed toys which he would defile on a daily basis.

He loved human attention and would come to you when you called him. Always wanted his nose stroked and loved to be picked up and cuddled. Nothing like any rabbit I had met before.

Every autumn he would start on his yearly quest to dig a warren for himself. Something which we tried to control to start with, but quickly gave up as every effort we made to stop him digging he would circumvent. He wasn't digging to escape, merely to make a winter home for himself. In the photo in the OP, you can see all the mud over the grass which he dug from this hole and spread around over his run, like a scene from the great escape.

To us he was like the trusty family dog. We buried him today in his favorite spot in the garden.

TigerS6

521 posts

256 months

Friday 30th January 2015
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AKA PABS said:
Bye bye buster, RIP.
My cat of 16 year was PTS last Monday, and it does not embarrass me one bit to say it was heartbreaking.
Our cat also 16 was PTS Wednesday morning frown
Must be a bad week this week.

It was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do :'(


My sympathies go out to both.

bexVN

14,682 posts

217 months

Friday 30th January 2015
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Aww, handsome bunny, how old was he? really reminds me of my old bunny, he was a character, lost him when he was 7. Sounds like Buster had a pretty good deal sharing his life with you. So sorry for your loss frown

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

60 months

Friday 30th January 2015
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Thanks for the kind words all.

Buster had started to suffer from arthritis in his back legs over the last 12 months. We did all that we could for him, and he was happy enough although wasn't as spritely as he used to be.

Over the last two weeks his health really fell off the cliff to the point were he couldn't sit up or walk any more. He was still giving it his all, bless him, but yesterday and today he just started to give up and really struggle to move and breathe. We took him to the vets this morning and did the only thing that we could to help him.

As other said it was the single hardest thing that me and the Mrs have ever had to do. I held it together at the vets but fell to bits afterwards. Even more so when I had to tell the kids when they got home from school. At least they got to say goodbye, and he will always be in his favorite spot in the garden.

I feel a bit better after typing this all out. Thanks all.

Edited to add - he was about 9 years old, although we don't know exactly.

moorx

3,795 posts

120 months

Friday 30th January 2015
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What a lovely looking bun. It sounds as though Buster had a wonderful life with you smile

My sympathies.

bexVN

14,682 posts

217 months

Friday 30th January 2015
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Arthritis affected my bunny aswell (along with a few other things) not nice to watch them struggle, feel a bit helpless frown. In time you will remember the fun and laughter he provided.

ali_kat

32,019 posts

227 months

Friday 30th January 2015
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Awwww frown

I'm sorry for all of your losses


mrmaggit

10,146 posts

254 months

Saturday 31st January 2015
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Oooh there's a Bun with character. I glad that you and he had so many years together, and that he is now where he best felt at home.

Rip little friend, don't leave it too long to let another share your world.

maggit

speedysoprano

224 posts

125 months

Saturday 31st January 2015
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Skodasupercar said:
Hi all, this is more of a cathartic release than anything else.

Goodbye Buster. I fking loved you man.

What a gorgeous bun. So sorry for your loss.

jbudgie

9,226 posts

218 months

Saturday 31st January 2015
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Had her for 39 years , died 3 years ago.

Still miss her everyday.






Rich1973

1,208 posts

183 months

Sunday 1st February 2015
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Mother and daughter. Lost them both within 8 months 2010 / 2011
Not a day goes by when I don't miss them.

AKA PABS

316 posts

128 months

Thursday 5th February 2015
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That was my little girl Alice, she was a rescue cat having spent the first 4 years of her life being abused, it took years of work to bring her out of her shell. I was rewarded with the loyalist pet you could have hoped for.


Hope that time is helping the OP, I'm finding that now I am remembering all the good things. Looking through her photos saw this and thought I would share with the community.