New Kitten Troubles

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XDA

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2,151 posts

192 months

Wednesday 22nd June 2011
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Looking for some advice regarding my 2 new kittens.

Bought kitten A on Sunday night, and she's settled in fine. We bought kitten B last night, but all she has done is hiss, spit and arch her back at kitten A.

I know that they are likely to be wary of each other at first, but is the hissing, spitting and arching her back normal behaviour? Obviously they have only been together less than 24 hours so will they situation improve?

I'm in 2 minds whether to take kitten B back. Is it acceptable to return a kitten back to the place it was bought from? It was bought privately after spotting an advert in the local petshop.

Any advice/help very much appreciated.

greggers

208 posts

205 months

Wednesday 22nd June 2011
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It's pretty normal, introducing them gradually is the key. I've never had a cat who hasn't eventually gotten on with the others.

itsnotarace

4,685 posts

216 months

Wednesday 22nd June 2011
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Give it a week or so, they will be fine

bexVN

14,682 posts

218 months

Wednesday 22nd June 2011
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How is kitten B with you, how much interaction has it had with 'life' ie other people other animals etc this can make a difference to how it will cope with a new environment.

Jasandjules

70,510 posts

236 months

Wednesday 22nd June 2011
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itsnotarace said:
Give it a week or so, they will be fine
This.

They will be sleeping together and playing soon enough.

XDA

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192 months

Wednesday 22nd June 2011
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bexVN said:
How is kitten B with you, how much interaction has it had with 'life' ie other people other animals etc this can make a difference to how it will cope with a new environment.
Kitten B is fine with me, happy to be picked up and stroked etc.

As for interaction with others, not sure. Its only been at it's birth home with the person we bought it off, and then our house.

Will see how it gets on over the next week then, cheers all.

Mubby

1,237 posts

189 months

Wednesday 22nd June 2011
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i ws looking into this recently as thinking of getting a new kitten... found this useful..

http://www.humanesociety.org/animals/cats/tips/int...

bexVN

14,682 posts

218 months

Wednesday 22nd June 2011
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XDA said:
bexVN said:
How is kitten B with you, how much interaction has it had with 'life' ie other people other animals etc this can make a difference to how it will cope with a new environment.
Kitten B is fine with me, happy to be picked up and stroked etc.

As for interaction with others, not sure. Its only been at it's birth home with the person we bought it off, and then our house.

Will see how it gets on over the next week then, cheers all.
I was wondering what it's first home was like, other kittens, pets etc.

It's a good sign that it is good with you, hopefully in a few days all will be well. What I would say is that a kitten should adapt quickly, if no improvement after a wk there could be a chance it'll not accept the other kitten

XDA

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2,151 posts

192 months

Wednesday 22nd June 2011
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Mubby said:
i ws looking into this recently as thinking of getting a new kitten... found this useful..

http://www.humanesociety.org/animals/cats/tips/int...
Cheers, will have a read tonight.

bexVN said:
XDA said:
bexVN said:
How is kitten B with you, how much interaction has it had with 'life' ie other people other animals etc this can make a difference to how it will cope with a new environment.
Kitten B is fine with me, happy to be picked up and stroked etc.

As for interaction with others, not sure. Its only been at it's birth home with the person we bought it off, and then our house.

Will see how it gets on over the next week then, cheers all.
I was wondering what it's first home was like, other kittens, pets etc.

It's a good sign that it is good with you, hopefully in a few days all will be well. What I would say is that a kitten should adapt quickly, if no improvement after a wk there could be a chance it'll not accept the other kitten
I didn't go and collect the kitten, but it was there with it's brothers/sisters but no sign of the mother despite the seller calling for it.

If it doesnt get along after a week, not sure what to do. I don't want to hand it over to a rescue centre, they've got enough unwanted animals.

bexVN

14,682 posts

218 months

Wednesday 22nd June 2011
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Don't stress yet. You just want to see gradual improvement over the next wk it's only if you don't see a change for the could you have an issue.

Jasandjules

70,510 posts

236 months

Wednesday 22nd June 2011
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Do you feed them next to each other? Also, get them both together for treats. Chances are they will be more interested in the good food than each other.

XDA

Original Poster:

2,151 posts

192 months

Wednesday 22nd June 2011
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bexVN said:
Don't stress yet. You just want to see gradual improvement over the next wk it's only if you don't see a change for the could you have an issue.
The thing is though, kitten A was spent all day hiding in her bed, where as before kitten B arrived we couldn't get her to stay in her bed!! It's as if she's too scared to come out.

(We haven't named them yet, hence the A and B biggrin)

Jasandjules said:
Do you feed them next to each other? Also, get them both together for treats. Chances are they will be more interested in the good food than each other.
Can't really get them together. Kitten A steps back to a safe distance and kitten B immediately goes all defensive (growling and pawing the other.

bexVN

14,682 posts

218 months

Wednesday 22nd June 2011
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http://www.fabcats.org/behaviour/introducing/index...

Some of the above may be worth a read, admittedly most of it is based on bringing a kitten into a home with established pets but prob still worth a look at for tips re: introductions.

I could have a chat to a colleague at work on Friday she has a special interest in cat behaviour so I can see if she can help.

Seems harsh that it's caused kitten A to regress, I think they need some time apart, the first kitty would seem to be the more submissive at the moment and needs to start feeling confident in its home again.

XDA

Original Poster:

2,151 posts

192 months

Wednesday 22nd June 2011
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bexVN said:
http://www.fabcats.org/behaviour/introducing/index...

Some of the above may be worth a read, admittedly most of it is based on bringing a kitten into a home with established pets but prob still worth a look at for tips re: introductions.

I could have a chat to a colleague at work on Friday she has a special interest in cat behaviour so I can see if she can help.

Seems harsh that it's caused kitten A to regress, I think they need some time apart, the first kitty would seem to be the more submissive at the moment and needs to start feeling confident in its home again.
Cheers for the link, well have a read tonight.

If you could speak to your colleague on Friday, that would be great. Kitten B (newest one) seems to growl at kitten A, and kitten A then arches her back in response. Hasn't been any physical contact just growls and hissing. Both are female (we think).

Catz

4,812 posts

218 months

Thursday 23rd June 2011
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I've been in this situation!
I brought a new kitten into the house when the other was about 3 months old. The new kitten hissed, growled, arched it's back and I honestly thought I'd have to give it back.
However I kept the 2 kittens separate for a few days with neutral territory being the hall where the litter tray sat. Then I left the room doors open so both kittens could explore and gradually they became best of pals, and remained that way for 18 years. smile

I think my new kitten was just terrified of being in another kitten's territory initially, although my older kitten didn't respond in any way.

As they got older, and became pals, if one of them was hidden away the other would start calling for it. Sweet!

I'd give your new kitten a few weeks to settle in and all should be well.

IainT

10,040 posts

245 months

Thursday 23rd June 2011
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We introduced two kittens to our older cat after his brother died. Followed the guidelines from various sources - separate rooms, gradual intro, etc. Kittens were kept in one room and the old cat had the normal run of the house.

It took a few months until they became comfortable with each other but, a year on, they're often found in a heap sleeping.

Cats, even kittens, don;t like too much change and they take time to adapt.

Don't rush it.

XDA

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2,151 posts

192 months

Thursday 23rd June 2011
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Cheers Catz and IainT.

Will see how the get on, I guess it's early days yet.

okgo

39,362 posts

205 months

Thursday 23rd June 2011
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I bought two, brother and sister and the female would hiss at the male for about two weeks, they're mad as hatters and partners in household crime now. bds.

XDA

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2,151 posts

192 months

Thursday 23rd June 2011
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Got home tonight and they've been chasing each other around the house for most of the day, only briefly stopping for a pawing session.

Looks like they're on friendly terms...for now bounce

ali_kat

32,033 posts

228 months

Thursday 23rd June 2011
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As the others have said, cats don't like changes & B has had the major shock of leaving mum & litter brothers & sisters to go to a new home with an unknown cat.

She's not going to be happy.

A isn't going to be happy becuase she is just getting used to her new home when along comes a strange cat

Try & follow the advice in the links above, given them both their own 'safe' rooms. Let each out into the rest of the house at different times so smells can be gotten used to. Put each in the others safe room for a few minutes, again, so they can smell the other without feeling threatened.

Swapping over litter trays can be a good smell transferrance as well.

Good luck, sounds like they may not need this ^^, mine still have odd spats with each other tho after nearly 2 years.