Abandoned babies
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CheesecakeRunner

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120 months

Tuesday 4th June 2024
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SpudLink

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221 months

Tuesday 4th June 2024
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Was reported on the Today program this morning that the babies share the same mother and father. Something horrific is going on.

markbigears

2,485 posts

298 months

Tuesday 4th June 2024
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Parents need to be tracked down and sentenced

iphonedyou

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186 months

Tuesday 4th June 2024
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markbigears said:
Parents need to be tracked down and sentenced
May well be the case; but not unimaginable that there's something else entirely going on. The children may have been taken from parents kept prisoner, for example.

God awful, whatever's going on. Awful.

ChocolateFrog

34,954 posts

202 months

Tuesday 4th June 2024
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How sad.

If only there was some way to prevent unwanted pregnancy.

Rusty Old-Banger

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242 months

Tuesday 4th June 2024
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iphonedyou said:
markbigears said:
Parents need to be tracked down and sentenced
May well be the case; but not unimaginable that there's something else entirely going on. The children may have been taken from parents kept prisoner, for example.

God awful, whatever's going on. Awful.
This.

Poor kids, and poor parents - I can't imagine it's EVER an easy decision. I'm grateful the babies are abandoned in such a way that they are highly, highly likely to be found healthy.

LittleBigPlanet

1,208 posts

170 months

Tuesday 4th June 2024
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ChocolateFrog said:
How sad.

If only there was some way to prevent unwanted pregnancy.
Not sure if you're being disingenuous or not (I hope so).

peterperkins

3,439 posts

271 months

Tuesday 4th June 2024
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Could be some poor captive woman in a cellar and being abused.
When babies inevitably arrive Mr Hostage taker removes child and abandons it.
Rinse and repeat frown

Very sad lets hope they find the parents and can work out WTF has been going on.

SpudLink

8,132 posts

221 months

Tuesday 4th June 2024
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peterperkins said:
Could be some poor captive woman in a cellar and being abused.
When babies inevitably arrive Mr Hostage taker removes child and abandons it.
Rinse and repeat frown

Very sad lets hope they find the parents and can work out WTF has been going on.
That's sort of what crossed my mind. Too horrible to contemplate.

Petrus1983

11,141 posts

191 months

Tuesday 4th June 2024
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My first feeling is that I'm glad the known babies are ok. My second thought is that are there others that aren't ok and may need help/too late. My third is that the mother needs to be found urgently as something is very very wrong about this and no doubt she needs help.

Mark-C

7,581 posts

234 months

Tuesday 4th June 2024
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Petrus1983 said:
My first feeling is that I'm glad the known babies are ok. My second thought is that are there others that aren't ok and may need help/too late. My third is that the mother needs to be found urgently as something is very very wrong about this and no doubt she needs help.
This sums up my thinking as well ...

Looks like the Judge's agreement to let this be published is based on it helping find the parents which can only be a good thing in terms of sorting this out in whatever way is appropriate.

Randy Winkman

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218 months

Tuesday 4th June 2024
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Mark-C said:
Petrus1983 said:
My first feeling is that I'm glad the known babies are ok. My second thought is that are there others that aren't ok and may need help/too late. My third is that the mother needs to be found urgently as something is very very wrong about this and no doubt she needs help.
This sums up my thinking as well ...

Looks like the Judge's agreement to let this be published is based on it helping find the parents which can only be a good thing in terms of sorting this out in whatever way is appropriate.
I agree. The remark above about parents being "sentenced" is rather an assumption.

PurpleTurtle

8,855 posts

173 months

Tuesday 4th June 2024
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peterperkins said:
Could be some poor captive woman in a cellar and being abused.
When babies inevitably arrive Mr Hostage taker removes child and abandons it.
Rinse and repeat frown

Very sad lets hope they find the parents and can work out WTF has been going on.
Alternatively the parents are overstayers living here under the radar without a visa.

If they were to put the children up for adoption through official channels there would be questions as to who they are.

No NHS number, no NI number, "the system" would soon find them out.


Silvanus

6,910 posts

52 months

Tuesday 4th June 2024
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Poor kids, hope they go on to have loving lives in their adopted families

A lot of people judging and not looking at the bigger picture. There is every chance something untoward is going on and the mother could be at risk.

TwigtheWonderkid

48,970 posts

179 months

Tuesday 4th June 2024
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anonymous said:
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Surely the same DNA testing that identified it was the same parents to all 3 children would be able to identify mum and dad being related? I'm no DNA expert but couldn't they tell it was father/daughter, brother/sister or uncle niece etc?

But I think the hostage situation with a coercive man keeping a woman in his cellar is a definite possibility. It could also be just a pair of feckless scumbags. Who knows?

smifffymoto

5,186 posts

234 months

Wednesday 5th June 2024
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I think the most likely situation is the parents are drug abusers or have severe mental illness.

Randy Winkman

22,336 posts

218 months

Wednesday 5th June 2024
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smifffymoto said:
I think the most likely situation is the parents are drug abusers or have severe mental illness.
I'd say that something like this is more likely than the basement idea. But guessing really. Though it still doesn't make me think about looking for people so they can be punished.

anonymous-user

83 months

Wednesday 5th June 2024
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Incredibly sad stories and thoughts are with the babies and the mother.

Whatever the reason for this happening, it’s horrific and so far removed from our bubbles we live in it’s difficult to comprehend. I guess this is why people tend to get angry and want punishment but let’s try and show some humanity and empathy for others not so lucky.

poo at Paul's

14,601 posts

204 months

Wednesday 5th June 2024
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smifffymoto said:
I think the most likely situation is the parents are drug abusers or have severe mental illness.
Yup, Ocams Razor!

You only have to read a bit about them pair that went "on the run" after the car broke down on the M6 and ended up living rough and in Brighton to see the level of fkwitted fecklessness that is tolerated by society and the authorities. Again, that poor kid was not #1 that they'd born.

richhead

3,329 posts

40 months

Wednesday 5th June 2024
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peterperkins said:
Could be some poor captive woman in a cellar and being abused.
When babies inevitably arrive Mr Hostage taker removes child and abandons it.
Rinse and repeat frown

Very sad lets hope they find the parents and can work out WTF has been going on.
this was my first thought.
I do hope that the parents can be found whatever is going on, as its not a good situation