Lesbian couple have deaf baby by choice

Lesbian couple have deaf baby by choice

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Oliver Hardy

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81 months

Wednesday 31st January
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https://www.theguardian.com/world/2002/apr/08/davi...

I know a lady who is deaf from birth, I am not syre it effects her quality of life, works as a chemist, but trying to have a child with disability????

Terminator X

16,350 posts

211 months

Wednesday 31st January
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What was that?

TX.

ALawson

7,857 posts

258 months

Wednesday 31st January
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Terminator X said:
What was that?

TX.
hehe

Skeptisk

8,246 posts

116 months

Wednesday 31st January
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Oliver Hardy said:
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2002/apr/08/davi...

I know a lady who is deaf from birth, I am not syre it effects her quality of life, works as a chemist, but trying to have a child with disability????
Mmmm…you reference a story from 21 years ago…hardly deserves to be in the News section.

119

9,639 posts

43 months

Wednesday 31st January
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Oliver Hardy said:
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2002/apr/08/davi...

..... but trying to have a child with disability????
You could always contact the Guardian and ask for the couples contact details and you could find out first hand how it went, being this was 21 years ago.


anonymous-user

61 months

Wednesday 31st January
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People moaning about the article being 21 years old. So? I didn't know anything about this and found it to be interesting.

Skeptisk

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116 months

Wednesday 31st January
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pocketspring said:
People moaning about the article being 21 years old. So? I didn't know anything about this and found it to be interesting.
Would have been more interesting to hear (sic!) about how the adult child is doing and get his opinion.

PlywoodPascal

5,401 posts

28 months

Wednesday 31st January
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I don’t know which part to be angry about

greygoose

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202 months

Wednesday 31st January
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Skeptisk said:
Oliver Hardy said:
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2002/apr/08/davi...

I know a lady who is deaf from birth, I am not syre it effects her quality of life, works as a chemist, but trying to have a child with disability????
Mmmm…you reference a story from 21 years ago…hardly deserves to be in the News section.
If only it was a Mail story from 21 years ago, then we could reminisce about the price of the family’s house.

glazbagun

14,483 posts

204 months

Wednesday 31st January
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News when it's news, not when it's history. That baby is in its 20's now!

LF5335

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50 months

Wednesday 31st January
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OMGZ they’re (pronouns matter) will probably also be a vegan and woke and a Remainer and a Labour voter and all sorts of other stuff that means they’re a disgrace. Or something like that.

Oliver Hardy

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81 months

Wednesday 31st January
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sorry, did not look at date.

gazza285

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215 months

Wednesday 31st January
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What is bothering you OP?

Oliver Hardy

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Wednesday 31st January
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gazza285 said:
What is bothering you OP?
Having a baby so it is deaf, planning it that way!


Edited by Oliver Hardy on Wednesday 31st January 10:59

Quhet

2,528 posts

153 months

Wednesday 31st January
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Oliver Hardy said:
gazza285 said:
What is bothering you OP?
Having a baby so it is death, planning it that way!
Planning to have a dead baby would be pretty bothersome tbfh

Oliver Hardy

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Wednesday 31st January
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Quhet said:
Oliver Hardy said:
gazza285 said:
What is bothering you OP?
Having a baby so it is death, planning it that way!
Planning to have a dead baby would be pretty bothersome tbfh
You know what I mean!

gazza285

10,189 posts

215 months

Wednesday 31st January
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Oliver Hardy said:
gazza285 said:
What is bothering you OP?
Having a baby so it is death, planning it that way!
I shall presume you meant deaf.

Not sure why this bothers you though.

From a more practical point of view it makes a great deal of sense, if that is the right word. Two deaf parents raising a hearing child would present many challenges, the most obvious one would be language development and communication.

Evanivitch

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129 months

Wednesday 31st January
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Oliver Hardy said:
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2002/apr/08/davi...

I know a lady who is deaf from birth, I am not syre it effects her quality of life, works as a chemist, but trying to have a child with disability????
Surely every Time someone with a hereditary disability has a child they're doing the same thing?

They needed a sperms donor. They fundamentally disagreed with disability screening, and found a perfectly good donor with the exception of being deaf.

Oliver Hardy

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Wednesday 31st January
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gazza285 said:
Oliver Hardy said:
gazza285 said:
What is bothering you OP?
Having a baby so it is death, planning it that way!
I shall presume you meant deaf.

Not sure why this bothers you though.

From a more practical point of view it makes a great deal of sense, if that is the right word. Two deaf parents raising a hearing child would present many challenges, the most obvious one would be language development and communication.
So having designer diabled babies is OK?

Not sure why there would be language development problems?




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9,639 posts

43 months

Wednesday 31st January
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Oliver Hardy said:
gazza285 said:
Oliver Hardy said:
gazza285 said:
What is bothering you OP?
Having a baby so it is death, planning it that way!
I shall presume you meant deaf.

Not sure why this bothers you though.

From a more practical point of view it makes a great deal of sense, if that is the right word. Two deaf parents raising a hearing child would present many challenges, the most obvious one would be language development and communication.
So having designer diabled babies is OK?

Not sure why there would be language development problems?
Are you really that simple?