Halifax upsets some customers with pronoun usage

Halifax upsets some customers with pronoun usage

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TonyRPH

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13,120 posts

174 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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Halifax upsets some customers with pronoun usage

I don't care what people want to be known as, but is all this really necessary?


ZedLeg

12,278 posts

114 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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People getting wound up and threatening to cancel their accounts because someone has their pronouns on their badge is embarrassing for us as a society tbh.

I have my pronouns in my work email sig and no one has ever mentioned. Maybe I should post it on social media to farm some outrage laugh

dundarach

5,306 posts

234 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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I added it to my works email just to annoy people as it's optional and the majority think it's 'woke gone mad pal'

Once everyone does it, I'll take it off again smile

I try to be a non-conformist by following rules other people think are nuts, it really plays with their minds.

To the point where the people I sit next to expressed disbelief that I had do so, until I pointed out I was the only one in the team of 30 who had, at which point the realised the majesty of the act!!


Zetec-S

6,221 posts

99 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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rofl

What a load of bks, complete non-event, but I guess the Daily Mail needs to pander to it's readers.

How many people genuinely care enough to dick around closing their accounts and moving mortgages? I bet a handful at most actually do so. The rest are just keyboard warriors venting off about something which doesn't affect them.

Seesure

1,197 posts

245 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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People were frothing about it on Facebook this morning, not sure what group it was but there was about 400 comments mostly about how crazy things are getting these days and then other folk arguing as to why pronouns must be displayed...

mwstewart

7,941 posts

194 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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dundarach said:
I added it to my works email just to annoy people as it's optional and the majority think it's 'woke gone mad pal'

Once everyone does it, I'll take it off again smile

I try to be a non-conformist by following rules other people think are nuts, it really plays with their minds.

To the point where the people I sit next to expressed disbelief that I had do so, until I pointed out I was the only one in the team of 30 who had, at which point the realised the majesty of the act!!
Better to rise above it. Not sure setting out to annoy others is the best way, even if they have questionable justifications.

chrispmartha

16,521 posts

135 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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Why on earth would someone get upset about it let alone cancel their account.

Tonberry

2,122 posts

198 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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Why would people get upset about too many brown faces and mixed race couples on TV?

Welcome to Britain.

Jockman

17,988 posts

166 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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Could be a Gerald Ratner moment for Halifax.

Largechris

2,019 posts

97 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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I don't really understand the badge TBH

In the Halifax case it says:

"she/her/hers"

Is that, like, a specific option? Doesn't say Miss or Mrs?

Can I pick and choose from the whole list, so could I have a badge saying:

"she/her/him/it"

Or is that forbidden? Srs question.

TonyRPH

Original Poster:

13,120 posts

174 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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Ironically, I suspect 99% of those frothing about this never actually go near a branch, and hence never get to see a name tag with a pronoun on it.

Additionally, they probably don't receive email directly from Halifax personnel, so nothing to see there either.

Moving mortgages and bank accounts seems such a lot of trouble to go to, just on 'principal' (as so to speak)...

bitchstewie

54,598 posts

216 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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Jockman said:
Could be a Gerald Ratner moment for Halifax.
Not really.

Maybe a few frothers will close their accounts but nobody sensible is going to go to all that trouble over this.

Jockman

17,988 posts

166 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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bhstewie said:
Jockman said:
Could be a Gerald Ratner moment for Halifax.
Not really.

Maybe a few frothers will close their accounts but nobody sensible is going to go to all that trouble over this.
Why lose a single account?

ZedLeg

12,278 posts

114 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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Largechris said:
I don't really understand the badge TBH

In the Halifax case it says:

"she/her/hers"

Is that, like, a specific option? Doesn't say Miss or Mrs?

Can I pick and choose from the whole list, so could I have a badge saying:

"she/her/him/it"

Or is that forbidden? Srs question.
"she/her/him/it"

You can have those as your pronouns if you want. There's no set rules, it's just supposed to be helpful to refer to people in their preferred manner. Which used to just be polite but is apparently a radical political statement these days.

Vanden Saab

14,709 posts

80 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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chrispmartha said:
Why on earth would someone get upset about it let alone cancel their account.
Now, shall we reverse that and actually think about why they feel they have to do it in the first place?

ZedLeg

12,278 posts

114 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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Vanden Saab said:
chrispmartha said:
Why on earth would someone get upset about it let alone cancel their account.
Now, shall we reverse that and actually think about why they feel they have to do it in the first place?
ZedLeg said:
it's just supposed to be helpful to refer to people in their preferred manner. Which used to just be polite but is apparently a radical political statement these days.

bitchstewie

54,598 posts

216 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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Jockman said:
Why lose a single account?
Showing support for some of their staff and some of their customers for whom this might mean something has obviously been judged worthwhile.

GT03ROB

13,542 posts

227 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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Why do I even need to show my pronouns anywhere? I must be old .......don't get all this nonsense

DanL

6,406 posts

271 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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Largechris said:
I don't really understand the badge TBH

In the Halifax case it says:

"she/her/hers"

Is that, like, a specific option? Doesn't say Miss or Mrs?

Can I pick and choose from the whole list, so could I have a badge saying:

"she/her/him/it"

Or is that forbidden? Srs question.
Miss or Mrs isn’t really something that works when the badge only shows the first name…

"she/her/him/it" would presumably make you a “they/them/theirs”.

pquinn

7,167 posts

52 months

Friday 1st July 2022
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ZedLeg said:
I have my pronouns in my work email sig and no one has ever mentioned.
Probably because you told them all thirty times already and they just tune it out now.