Mid summer blues - anyone else suffering?

Mid summer blues - anyone else suffering?

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Hitch78

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6,117 posts

200 months

Wednesday 8th August 2012
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Got back of hols on Saturday and I'm stuck in the worst post-holiday/mid-summer-blues I've experienced yet. The weather is st, my garden has died, A/C in master bedroom stuffed, there are no corners to drive around (was spoiled by the Peak District last week), I can't find a decent pint of Black Sheep or Timothy Taylor anywhere, I work with a bunch of retarded mouth-breathing spaz-mongs and a restructure I was desperate for has been put on hold.

I have applied for two jobs back in the UK already this week so things must be bad...though I'm still not paying any tax and my champagne is suitably chilled so things could be worse!

Any ideas on how to get out of the hole? I usually have a grumpy first day back in the office but this is much much worse than that.

dxbtiger

4,429 posts

179 months

Wednesday 8th August 2012
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I hear ya.

My 2 weeks off at the start of July seems a lifetime away already. Work is like groundhog day, a constant battle between what my team can actually do during Ramadan and what my MD thinks should be done.

Dreading going back to 'normal' hours, really hope Eid is a 4 day weekend.

I was up at Banyan Tree last weekend for a night, thoroughly recommended for an out of Dubai jaunt.

However, I haven't considered looking to move back to the UK, things must be bad at your end!!

Chilli

17,320 posts

242 months

Wednesday 8th August 2012
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I think I can help out here......I haven't had a holiday for 3 years.

There, hope you're all feeling better.

Reffio

113 posts

158 months

Wednesday 8th August 2012
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Ouch! Chilli wins so far!

DubaiJohn

371 posts

192 months

Wednesday 8th August 2012
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Know what you mean, this time of year post-holiday sucks and blows at the same time. Balancing the expectations of bosses in the USA and UK with what you ca actually achieve with most people I need to see on holiday or are Emirati and are the Scarlett Pimpernell.

The only way for us is the odd long weekend, we have a couple of nights at Bab al Shams coming up which I am pinning my hopes on.

As for applying for jobs in the UK, I went through that about 6 months ago and came close to pulling the trigger while in a self-pitying funk. Needless to say pleased I am still here dodging rain/hail/tax/chavs...but mostly tax.

Hitch78

Original Poster:

6,117 posts

200 months

Wednesday 8th August 2012
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Chilli said:
I think I can help out here......I haven't had a holiday for 3 years.

There, hope you're all feeling better.
You've been on hols for the past three months haven't you?!

On a serious note I don't know how you do it. I live from holiday to holiday; I go a bit mental if I don't get out of Dubai every couple of months.

IanUAE

2,939 posts

170 months

Wednesday 8th August 2012
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My holiday this year consists of taking the last 2 weeks of June off to finish rebuilding the BMW race car and 1 week in September running the car in the Barcelona 24hr event.

I have / will be spending every week of July and August in Oman with Thusday and Friday in Dubai. Still will the family on a 7 week holiday in the US and India, I am getting plenty of WR2 on the PS3 done (feels bliss doing what I want to do without a jobs list from SWMBO).

shirt

23,231 posts

207 months

Wednesday 8th August 2012
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i don't mind dubai but am glad i get to leave regularly, even if it is for work. got 12 days in cameroon coming up and then to barcelona for the race. when i get back it'll be mid september so only a few weeks away from the start of the decent weather.

Dusty964

6,962 posts

196 months

Wednesday 8th August 2012
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8 days off since chrimas- including Fridays.

I'm sick of it

yorky500

1,715 posts

197 months

Thursday 9th August 2012
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I also have just got back from a 10 day jaunt which took in the sights of Adelaide (Aus); Hong Kong and Koh Samui, Thailand. Bit hectic but good.

Really struggling to get back into it

Chilli

17,320 posts

242 months

Thursday 9th August 2012
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Hitch78 said:
You've been on hols for the past three months haven't you?!

On a serious note I don't know how you do it. I live from holiday to holiday; I go a bit mental if I don't get out of Dubai every couple of months.
Yeah, but its not really the same......being at home and not in the sun..Oh....

shirt

23,231 posts

207 months

Thursday 9th August 2012
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you do realise there's a cure for all this don't you?

http://www.pistonheads.com/xforums/topic.asp?h=0&a...

Chilli

17,320 posts

242 months

Thursday 9th August 2012
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shirt said:
you do realise there's a cure for all this don't you?

http://www.pistonheads.com/xforums/topic.asp?h=0&a...
Oh, we've been busy....think my net worth has reduced by 99% since March! It's getting to apoint where I'm having to ask for "just 20 dirhams" at the petrol station!!!

oilydan

2,030 posts

277 months

Thursday 9th August 2012
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shirt said:
you do realise there's a cure for all this don't you?

http://www.pistonheads.com/xforums/topic.asp?h=0&a...
I bought a TV to replace the perfectly serviceable one I already have hehe

I also started P90X and now can't walk anywhere without looking like I have Muscular dystrophy. At least I get away with parking in disabled parking!!

If it makes anyone feel better my week in Spain felt like I was living with mouth-breathing hoards of obese dole-scum and bailing out Spain at the same time. A further week in the UK was as wet as the Summer in the UK could possibly get.

Waste of time/money/effort/Holiday days all round.

shirt

23,231 posts

207 months

Thursday 9th August 2012
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do you have the p90x dvd's? things have got so bad for me that i have only been out on the beer twice in the past month and have found the gym.

Chilli

17,320 posts

242 months

Thursday 9th August 2012
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shirt said:
do you have the p90x dvd's? things have got so bad for me that i have only been out on the beer twice in the past month and have found the gym.
Damn, that sounds serious.

Impspeed

299 posts

149 months

Thursday 9th August 2012
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Holiday, what's that?

I finished my 6 month probation with my job yesterday so I'm finally allowed to take holiday - this will amount to 4 days in the UK, cleaning up as I came over here in such a rush. I've then got 4 weeks holiday remaining and just 4 months in which to take them - not a chance that's going to happen.

I'm in a fortunate position where I love my job and enjoy my life in Dubai without needing to seek enjoyment elsewhere. I'm sure that'll soon change though.

shirt

23,231 posts

207 months

Thursday 9th August 2012
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6 mths probation and no holidays? i am so glad i work for brits in the free zone sometimes.

Hitch78

Original Poster:

6,117 posts

200 months

Thursday 9th August 2012
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I decided to have a 'positive day' in work and have been offering supportive and inspirational comments where normally I would at best say "pah" and at worst launch into an explitive-laced monologue on the failings of said person/opportunity/idea.

People seem scared of me now.