Co-habiting

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jezzaaa

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1,889 posts

265 months

Monday 17th October 2011
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Afternoon chaps smile

Got a question for you all!

A friend of mine is coming over having bagged a job in Abu Dhabi. He's on his own and he was asking me if he could move in with me and pay rent...and I told him that it's illegal, and two blokes living together might (unlikely but possible!) cause my Arabic neighbours to make a complaint etc.

I discussed it with some work colleagues, and one of them suggested instead he should rent a room from him and his wife who have a villa.

Leaving aside the fact that they would need to make the landlord aware, does anyone have any knowledge of the legal ins and outs of this situation, given that he's obviously not related to them but will be sharing a large house with them, but that they're a married couple?

Thanks all,

J.

dxbtiger

4,427 posts

179 months

Monday 17th October 2011
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I certainly wouldn't tell the landlord!

In that situation if ever questioned then it would be the wife's cousin who was staying with them


jezzaaa

Original Poster:

1,889 posts

265 months

Monday 17th October 2011
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dxbtiger said:
I certainly wouldn't tell the landlord!

In that situation if ever questioned then it would be the wife's cousin who was staying with them
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I kind of agree...but it's a lie easily discovered if the police get involved and check IDs. I think they'd rather tell the truth if possible. My initial reaction was that, although I get the impression (and this is why I was hoping for some specific legal advice) it's technically illegal, I'd be surprised if anyone would be bothered/offended by it given that it's clearly not 2 or 3 young mixed gender Arab/Muslim singletons involved. And there's an obviously large age gap between my mate and the married couple. And that they could probably just carry on and not worry.


Edited by jezzaaa on Monday 17th October 12:35

dxbtiger

4,427 posts

179 months

Monday 17th October 2011
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Pretty sure Chilli is involved in the swingers scence, he may know.....































































that may be a joke... smile

jezzaaa

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1,889 posts

265 months

Monday 17th October 2011
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wink

Chilli

17,320 posts

242 months

Monday 17th October 2011
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Brilliant, The word Swinger is mentioned on here, and I get a text message!

Could the 2 guys simply get married in the UK? Problem sort of solved?

jezzaaa

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1,889 posts

265 months

Monday 17th October 2011
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Chilli said:
Brilliant, The word Swinger is mentioned on here, and I get a text message!

Could the 2 guys simply get married in the UK? Problem sort of solved?
Thanks Chilli ... great advice as always! biggrin

Hitch78

6,117 posts

200 months

Monday 17th October 2011
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I believe that any form of subletting is illegal, regardless of the circumstances so I guess it comes down to how much he is paying!

Mattt

16,663 posts

224 months

Monday 17th October 2011
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Hitch78 said:
I believe that any form of subletting is illegal, regardless of the circumstances so I guess it comes down to how much he is paying!
Many things are illegal, but doubt you'd have a problem.

Few of my mates lived together in AUH (guys) and never had an issue - just follow the usual rules, i.e. don't be a dick and you won't have a problem.

shirt

23,229 posts

207 months

Tuesday 18th October 2011
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i though same sex flatshares were ok?

jezzaaa

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1,889 posts

265 months

Tuesday 18th October 2011
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Thanks guys...it's all very confusing as to what the actual legalities are. There are numerous examples of co-habiting...look at the villas/apartments shared by loads of philippinos of both genders!!

I think Matt's advice is probably the thing to go with in the absence of solid facts. Cheers all smile

shirt

23,229 posts

207 months

Tuesday 18th October 2011
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people advertise flatshares on dubizzle, which is how i found my place. surely they wouldn't advertise something illegal? i thought it was just mixed sex cohabitation they didn't approve of.

jezzaaa

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1,889 posts

265 months

Tuesday 18th October 2011
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shirt said:
people advertise flatshares on dubizzle, which is how i found my place. surely they wouldn't advertise something illegal? i thought it was just mixed sex cohabitation they didn't approve of.
I think, as Mattt says, these are technically illegal...but the landlords are all Emirati, so it's in their interests for the law to turn a blind eye. As long as noone draws attention of the authorities to it, I'm sure it's fine. And it also provides a mechanism for the landlord to get rid of his tenants early if he needs to...I gather this used to go on when the rent prices were booming, in order to get the landlord out of being resticted to annual 5% max rent increases!!

Mike Biddle

84 posts

200 months

Wednesday 19th October 2011
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same sex co habiting is no problem, and proving sub letting would be impossible if there is no paperwork or bank records.

Not to mention the fact that the cops are not running around looking for illegal sub lets!

I very much doubt that you would have any problem.

Asterix

24,438 posts

234 months

Wednesday 19th October 2011
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I was living with my girlfriend for years here. When I asked a police bloke what the score was he said that its almost irrelevant. As long as you don't piss anyone off, no one will ever worry about it.

Hitch78

6,117 posts

200 months

Wednesday 19th October 2011
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I tried to live with my girlfriend when I first got here, the wife didn't like it that much though. Ba. Dum. Tish!

I'm here all week, try the pork cho...oh, on second thoughts.

jezzaaa

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1,889 posts

265 months

Sunday 23rd October 2011
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Nice Hitch biggrin

Thanks for all the answers guys...much appreciated.