Blind People - Etiquette at Dinner
Blind People - Etiquette at Dinner
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ThePainter

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306 posts

196 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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Hi guys,

A question to those who may know: we have some friends coming over to see us, which will be great. They have two daughters, one of whom is 16, and blind.

I offered to cook some dinner (sunday roast) and they said they would love to come. Is there any etiquette to how to prepare the food/ table for a blind person?

I'm assuming serve up for them, in already sized pieces, keeping the gravy separate in a jug on the table, but I'm open to suggestions.

I could just ask her mum and dad but I'd rather open it to the floor first, then I can appear all caring when they come over and I've already thought about/ discussed it.

Thanks in advance.

No prizes to anyone who only read the "they only have two daughters" bit and got distracted... smile

Urban Sports

11,321 posts

231 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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Is it the coupe or saloon?

wink

Shaw Tarse

31,874 posts

231 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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I can see this thread going badly!
frown

Flintstone

8,644 posts

275 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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Swop apples for peeled onions.

oOTomOo

594 posts

219 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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Prepare it the same as for everyone else.
Chances are you'll upset them more by making 'special allowances' / 'a fuss' than just to let them get on with it.
They're blind, they will have learned to cut up their own food, and probably dress themselves in the right order.

Alternatively you could liquidise the whole lot and put it in a sippy cup...

Magog

2,653 posts

217 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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16 you say?

Try and be as charming as possible, and hope no one's told her how ugly you are.

E31Shrew

5,963 posts

220 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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oOTomOo said:
Prepare it the same as for everyone else.
Chances are you'll upset them more by making 'special allowances' / 'a fuss' than just to let them get on with it.
They're blind, they will have learned to cut up their own food, and probably dress themselves in the right order.

Alternatively you could liquidise the whole lot and put it in a sippy cup...
I have to admit to a small chuckle....sippy cup

Petrolhead_Rich

4,659 posts

220 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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ThePainter said:
They have two daughters, one of whom is 16, and blind
Every Ugly Blokes Dream! LOL

I would imagine she has leant how to eat, or if not, that her parents are used to sorting things out for her, prep as normal, ask mum/dad if there is anything that needs to be done for her?


bigTee

5,546 posts

249 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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ThePainter said:
I'm assuming serve up for them, in already sized pieces,
rofl

what?

Davey S2

13,389 posts

282 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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Just ask her parents. Saves a potentially embarassing mix up.

lawrence567

7,507 posts

218 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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She's 16 you say?

Neil H

15,418 posts

279 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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Don't wave your hand in front of her face and say "can you really not see me?".

ThePainter

Original Poster:

306 posts

196 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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bigTee said:
ThePainter said:
I'm assuming serve up for them, in already sized pieces,
rofl

what?
Which makes me wonder, how do blind chinese people cope? Chopsticks are hard enough for sighted people...

ThePainter

Original Poster:

306 posts

196 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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Davey S2 said:
Just ask her parents. Saves a potentially embarassing mix up.
I will do. But I wondered if someone might have experience of this already and could give me the inside track?

cinque

833 posts

310 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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Serve up hot-dogs, on a tray, at waist height.

Snoop Bagg

1,879 posts

222 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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Choo Choo Train or the Aeroplane?

Roger645

1,792 posts

275 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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Maybe ask on the forum here:

http://www.rnib.org.uk/Pages/Home.aspx

ThePainter

Original Poster:

306 posts

196 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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I can't believe I asked on PH before Googling for it. PH is such a powerful website that it is often the first port of call! I've just been googling for "blind person dinner" and got some useful tips. Cheers guys!

21TonyK

13,223 posts

237 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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IME of dining with someone who is blind no special allowances necessary. Only time I ever do anything is to explain what sauces there are, horseradish etc and offer them the bowl and spoon etc

Neil H

15,418 posts

279 months

Wednesday 11th August 2010
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ThePainter said:
I can't believe I asked on PH before Googling for it. PH is such a powerful website that it is often the first port of call! I've just been googling for "blind person dinner" and got some useful tips. Cheers guys!
This thread is now the top search result. nuts