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Drawweight

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3,174 posts

126 months

Friday 24th February 2023
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OH and I called into an Italian restaurant today.

Lovely place, friendly staff and the starters were great.

However we both had steaks and first of all my wife’s had to go back because it was overcooked (she like it blue). Second time they were cooked to perfection, well seasoned but poor quality meat. I’ve had better from Asda. It wasn’t the most expensive I’ve had but still.

Now we have steak regularly and this was disappointing.

We just paid and left but should we have said anything?

Would they want to know or would they just think we were after a freebie?

Muzzer79

11,331 posts

197 months

Friday 24th February 2023
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Not cooking it to your liking deserves sending it back

But if it was subsequently "cooked to perfection"; what you interpret as poor quality meat is a subjective

During or at the end of a meal, someone from the waiting staff usually asks if everything was OK. I would choose one of those moments to inform them that we are disappointed with the quality of the steak, despite it being cooked correctly. If nobody asks, I would raise it when paying the bill.

The restaurant may try to mitigate your dis-satisfaction - either with a discount, FOC course, bottle of wine, voucher, whatever.

However, you shouldn't feel entitled to that. If you get nothing; vote with your feet and just don't go back.

21TonyK

12,088 posts

219 months

Friday 24th February 2023
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Drawweight said:
Second time they were cooked to perfection, well seasoned but poor quality meat. I’ve had better from Asda. It wasn’t the most expensive I’ve had but still.
"Quality" is subjective to your taste, what was it you weren't happy with?

Ham_and_Jam

2,736 posts

107 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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Don’t go to an Italian for steaks .

LordFlathead

9,646 posts

268 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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Ham_and_Jam said:
Don’t go to an Italian for steaks .
^ This

rdjohn

6,497 posts

205 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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In the end you tend to get what you pay for.

Douglas Quaid

2,506 posts

95 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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I never order steak from restaurants any more. It’s almost always a disappointment and I can do better myself. I just order different stuff nowadays.

Zarco

18,698 posts

219 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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Douglas Quaid said:
I never order steak from restaurants any more. It’s almost always a disappointment and I can do better myself. I just order different stuff nowadays.
Snap.

sociopath

3,433 posts

76 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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I'd say an Italian isn't the place for a decent steak.


Evoluzione

10,345 posts

253 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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It"s what Trip Advisor is for.
Did they actually ask?

Drawweight

Original Poster:

3,174 posts

126 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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21TonyK said:
"Quality" is subjective to your taste, what was it you weren't happy with?
Just tough to chew, both medium rare and blue. If a blue steak is tough then something is wrong.

rdjohn said:
In the end you tend to get what you pay for.
On the whole I agree. Fortunately this was a lunchtime menu so not ruinous but they were still 26 quid apiece on the main menu so deserving of a decent bit of meat. And yes I expect comments that unless it’s double that it’s cheap but the best steak I ever had was at a French restaurant on a 20 quid lunch menu so price doesn’t always reflect quality.

Evoluzione said:
It"s what Trip Advisor is for.
Did they actually ask?
Trip advisor reviews were excellent. The starter was fine and the food going past our table looked amazing. Maybe as someone said above Italians can’t do steaks.

They didn’t actually ask except when my wife’s other steak came they asked her to cut into it to check it was cooked correctly which I thought was good.

I think the reason I didn’t say anything was although it was poor we still ate 75% of it (we were starving). I don’t want to be a Karen that clears the plate and demands a refund. But we definitely left feeling disappointed.

Ryyy

1,769 posts

45 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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Ham_and_Jam said:
Don’t go to an Italian for steaks .
Yes,big mis-steak getmecoat

I stopped eating a burger once in a restaurant and when the lady asked if everything was alright I told how terrible it was and She just said she was sorry to hear that and did absolutely f all anyway rolleyes


croyde

24,224 posts

240 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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Considering how expensive eating out is getting, I'm starting to avoid it now as it is almost always disappointing.

Plus it ruins the occasion if you feel that you have to complain.

Went to a posh pub near my place to treat my old mum to one of their £20 Sunday Roasts. It didn't even come with roast potatoes, they were a £4 extra. It's a fking roast dinner FFS!

Only value one gets nowadays is at a Greasy Spoon.

vixen1700

24,925 posts

280 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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croyde said:
Considering how expensive eating out is getting, I'm starting to avoid it now as it is almost always disappointing.
Sadly, that's quite true these days.

The costs now are shocking before you even risk a disapoinment.

We're still reeling from a bite to eat before a Micky Flanagan night near Leicester Square the other week: Two (admittedly very nice) salads, two glasses of wine and a beer which came out at £79! In a pub.

My mrs. is a great cook so can usually make something better than the local Indian restaurants, so we've knocked them on the head too.


HTP99

23,506 posts

150 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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Douglas Quaid said:
I never order steak from restaurants any more. It’s almost always a disappointment and I can do better myself. I just order different stuff nowadays.
Same here, unless it is a steak specific restaurant.

PositronicRay

27,714 posts

193 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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If it's a business I want to continue using I'll complain. If not just vote with my feet.

croyde

24,224 posts

240 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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vixen1700 said:
croyde said:
Considering how expensive eating out is getting, I'm starting to avoid it now as it is almost always disappointing.
Sadly, that's quite true these days.

The costs now are shocking before you even risk a disapoinment.

We're still reeling from a bite to eat before a Micky Flanagan night near Leicester Square the other week: Two (admittedly very nice) salads, two glasses of wine and a beer which came out at £79! In a pub.

My mrs. is a great cook so can usually make something better than the local Indian restaurants, so we've knocked them on the head too.
I've virtually knocked pubs on the head too.

Was out walking with a friend and she fancied a drink. Wanted to stop at a very posh looking hotel bar.

I managed to steer her to a more spit and sawdust sort of place. A real pub smile

2 glasses of white for her, 2 pints of cider for me and over £30 spent. Bonkers.

Ham_and_Jam

2,736 posts

107 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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HTP99 said:
Same here, unless it is a steak specific restaurant.
I can usually cook a steak better than 95% of the restaurants, so usually spend my money on getting the best ingredients and cook them myself.

The best steak I’ve had recently and my go to now is a Hawksmoor prime rib. Will set you back about £35-40, but will feed 2 very hungry people with some leftovers for a sandwich the following day. Unbelievable taste ant texture.


sherman

14,040 posts

225 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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Ham_and_Jam said:
HTP99 said:
Same here, unless it is a steak specific restaurant.
I can usually cook a steak better than 95% of the restaurants, so usually spend my money on getting the best ingredients and cook them myself.

The best steak I’ve had recently and my go to now is a Hawksmoor prime rib. Will set you back about £35-40, but will feed 2 very hungry people with some leftovers for a sandwich the following day. Unbelievable taste ant texture.

Hawksmoor is a restaurant chain.

Ham_and_Jam

2,736 posts

107 months

Saturday 25th February 2023
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sherman said:
Hawksmoor is a restaurant chain.
Err yeah I know. They also sell probably one of the best steaks you can buy.

https://www.ocado.com/products/hawksmoor-35-day-dr...

Edited by Ham_and_Jam on Saturday 25th February 12:32