Relocating for work

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Shermanator

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564 posts

82 months

Tuesday 17th January 2023
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Hi All, my head is scrambled, my chest is tight/tense even thinking about this. Nobody in my family is in a job where they would ever get the opportunity to do something like this so I would be a trailblazer, even if it is preposterously scary:

I currently work in the Glasgow area, as a Parts Assistant in an Accident Repair Centre however a site down in Yorkshire, Castleford/Wakefield is currently looking for a Parts Manager. And they want me. I have been to the site twice before, a week at a time, over the past 2 months, for support as the manager got promoted and they were waiting on the new one starting (said new one has since left). All sounds pretty normal, so some background on myself: I am 23, been doing the Assistant role for 4.5 years, trained from an Apprentice. I have anxiety, a lot less than just a few months back and improving everyday,but it is still there. I am single, currently live with my parents and have £35,000 saved up for a house deposit right now.

I am not scared of the job, due to the way my current site is run, I do a lot of the role anyway now. I'm scared of the relocation. I haven't done the sums yet so don't know the financials, but I do know the new role would pay £32-34,000 (gross) whereas I am currently on a gross of about £20,000. I will be doing hours of maths tomorrow night, to see how badly the bank account would be hit, but what are people's opinion?
Also, career progression where I am currently is still there. I've been speaking to my Area Manager (really good guy) who has said there will be other opportunities. Another site will be opened in Scotland but he doesn't know when it will be, could be a year, could be 2, he just doesn't know.

Any opinions? Do I stick out my current job, until they open another site up here and become the manager there or do I move down south?
Speaking to the old manager (the one who was promoted) he has pointed out I theoretically could move down, rent and then when it is announced they are opening another site up north make the decision on what to do then.

Bluesgirl

779 posts

98 months

Tuesday 17th January 2023
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First of all, well done for managing to saving a big chunk of cash for a house deposit - that's a real achievement.

In practical terms, relocating will involve renting/sharing, at least to start with, and finding a new circle of friends. The fact that you've already been to the site for a couple of weeks is really helpful, you know the team there, if they're friendly, work well together etc. It makes a big difference to how much you'll enjoy the move.

Your experience has obviously put you in a good position with the company - they're impressed with your performance and want to use your skills and experience.

I'd say grab the opportunity with both hands and go for it.

Glosphil

4,503 posts

241 months

Tuesday 17th January 2023
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You're much more likely to regret not taking the opportunity than taking it & I talk from personal experience.

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2,750 posts

58 months

Tuesday 17th January 2023
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I'm with Bluesgirl on this.
Go for it mate.
You already know how to do the job from what you say.
You're young and mobile.
They want you for the post - highly likely "they" know what they want better than you do.
I have only two caveats:
Go and talk to your GP about the anxiety. It won't harm and it could help.
And don't cock it up. Put the effort into doing a great job and you're daisy-fresh for the new site when it comes up.

I'm an old bloke and there are too many things in my history that make me think "if only I'd taken that chance ". You don't want to think that in ten years.

Very best of British luck to you mate.

dudleybloke

20,477 posts

193 months

Tuesday 17th January 2023
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I would jump on the opportunity.

fourstardan

5,008 posts

151 months

Tuesday 17th January 2023
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Nice one.

You are getting far more money coming in to not be as worried about rental money, and with all that deposit saved you have the time to find the right area.

Other side is new mates, new fanny and new places to go out. Do you play golf or a social sport to get the network of people?

Leeds isn't that far away in the grand scheme of things to Glasgow to still do family visits.

MYOB

4,999 posts

145 months

Tuesday 17th January 2023
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Yup, carpe diem and all of that!

What a wonderful opportunity for you, both professionally and personally.

Easy for me to say but don’t allow the anxiety issue to be a factor in making your decision.

Good luck.

Muppet007

444 posts

52 months

Tuesday 17th January 2023
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I moved for work. Lancashire to Berkshire.
It's a roll I would never get in the north.
Plan was 5 years and move back. 13 years later I'm still with the same company but have moved north again wink

Is it hard, yes. I was away from my wife for most part of 6-8 months.
Was it worth it? Hell yes. We are both in a much better position now than we would have been.

Do it and enjoy!

sociopath

3,433 posts

73 months

Tuesday 17th January 2023
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You'll never regret anything if you never do anything.

Yorkshire is a good place to try, we're all as friendly as fk to other northerners (except lancastrians) even Scots.

It's not that far, not like relocating to the south.


sunbeam alpine

7,080 posts

195 months

Tuesday 17th January 2023
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It's always difficult to make the first move, but once you've done it you won't regret it.

I was in your position 30 years ago - I almost bottled out of moving for a new job. I took the move, and a combination of hard work and some good luck has put me in a position I couldn't have dreamed of when I was growing up.

Go for it!

jimmythingy

314 posts

69 months

Tuesday 17th January 2023
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Go for it, your at the right age. As said you will only regret it and it shows your employer you are keen and committed. Life's an adventure and all that.


Steve Campbell

2,192 posts

175 months

Wednesday 18th January 2023
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Go for it. Waiting for the other site to open....might never happen, plus you won't have more experience to set yourself up for success for that role even if it does come up.....and you will have earnt ~ 24k more (gross) in that time period.

Check if the company are also willing to soften the move with some additional enhancements to ease the move (relocation allowance).

MBVitoria

2,505 posts

230 months

Wednesday 18th January 2023
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You're young and single, perfect time to step outside of your comfort zone and take a chance like this.

Your pay is going to nearly double, albeit you'll need to pay for accommodation. Get in a house share and make a load of new mates.

Glasgow is a decent drive but you can still get home on weekends to see friends and family if that's your worry.

I'd be all over it - "he who dares Rodney, he who dares" etc!

Defcon5

6,304 posts

198 months

Wednesday 18th January 2023
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I live in that area so if you need any local advice ask away

RedWhiteMonkey

7,255 posts

189 months

Wednesday 18th January 2023
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Go for it, you'll regret it if you don't. I moved from the UK to Isle of Man for a job that I thought I would give 3 years, stayed there for 11 years. Never went back to the UK and I now live in Germany.

Vasco

17,366 posts

112 months

Wednesday 18th January 2023
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Understandable concern but plenty of people move around the country, or abroad. If it was me I'd absolutely jump at the opportunity.
Go for it, you'll regret it otherwise.

RizzoTheRat

26,012 posts

199 months

Wednesday 18th January 2023
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The old manager's spot on with the rental advice. I'd consider renting something like an air-bnb apartment (they offer huge discounts for longer term stays) or lodging for a couple of months to begin with so you can get to know the area a bit before deciding where you want to look for a longer term rental.

I'd also advise you avoid the temptation to head back home at the weekends, you need to spend that time in the area to build up a life there and get to know some people. Lodging or a house share can help here if you find someone of a similar age you you get on with

It sounds like a great opportunity, if you do it and you don't like it you can always go home, if you don't do it you'll never know hoe good it could have been.

I relocated for work a few years ago and love it.


Edited by RizzoTheRat on Wednesday 18th January 15:20

Fozzie73

131 posts

211 months

Wednesday 18th January 2023
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I’ strongly agree with the above comments - I’ve moved around a few times and have gained different things, experiences and friends from each and every move and have ended up somewhere much nicer than where I began!

If you do it, you always have the option of moving back - however if you don’t try it, you may end up with a severe case of ‘what if’ in the future.

Sounds a great opportunity and you’ve obviously worked for it to be approached. I’d think very hard about holding off based on promises for a ‘potential’ local role - opportunities tend to arise out of the blue. Plus - once you get some demonstrable experience As a Manager you’ll be able to access opportunities in lots of locations as a stronger (and proven) candidate.

Good luck with it whichever way you go!


parabolica

6,807 posts

191 months

Wednesday 18th January 2023
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Would definitely recommend taking a chance on this, even if it doesn’t work out (I’m sure it will) you can say you gave it a crack. I was 3-4 years older but in the same situation back in 2012 when I was asked to move from Aberdeen to Surrey, which I did, then ended up moving to East Africa, then Dubai, back to London, back to Aberdeenshire, and now out to Romania. I was unsure on the initial move but it was the best thing I ever did and don’t regret it one bit.

vaud

52,395 posts

162 months

Wednesday 18th January 2023
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Go for it. You can always lodge or get a shared house instead of renting for the first few months.