What to wear?
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Steameh

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3,155 posts

239 months

Friday 24th August 2012
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I have recently been invited to an assessment centre with an evening meal the night before for a job that ticks all the boxes. The meal will be with other candidates and some members of the management from the company.

Suit to the assessment centre is a given, not sure what to wear for the meal before, should I wear a suit? Or just go with shirt, tie, trousers and shoes?

Never been in this situation before so any ideas or advice will be appreciated!

davepoth

29,395 posts

228 months

Friday 24th August 2012
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what's the restaurant? If it's Nandos you may dress a little differently than if it was The Ivy.

My guess would be to go with a jacket and shirt, and have a tie in your pocket just in case it turns out to be a bit dressier.

Steameh

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3,155 posts

239 months

Friday 24th August 2012
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davepoth said:
what's the restaurant? If it's Nandos you may dress a little differently than if it was The Ivy.

My guess would be to go with a jacket and shirt, and have a tie in your pocket just in case it turns out to be a bit dressier.
Its in the hotel we are all staying at the night before if that helps

944fan

4,962 posts

214 months

Friday 24th August 2012
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I think it is always better to be over-dressed than under. Wear your suit. If it looks less formal when you arrive take your tie off and open a couple of shirt buttons. Some people might be in jeans but that doesn't mean you should.

If you are wearing a suit with no tie and everyone else is wearing jeans you might stick out a bit. If you are in jeans and everyone else is in a suit you will look very out of place.

rog007

5,828 posts

253 months

Friday 24th August 2012
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If you're sitting down to dinner then slacks, casual shirt (single cuff) & tie (sober) with sports jacket and brown shoes. Jacket and tie can be easily taken off; much more difficult to put on if you don't have them top hand. If it's a bar snack or all sat around eating off your knees, then drop the tie only; jacket can come off after you've eaten and are leaning against the bar putting the world to rights (over a shandy of course; you do have an interview the next day!!). Good luck!

MrAndyW

544 posts

177 months

Saturday 25th August 2012
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Also don't forget that part of the assessment will possibly be how you behave during the evening. So just be aware of whats going on around you,enjoy yourself.BUT make sure you don't drop yourself in it after a few beers and getting into a stupid discussion/argument about football or some other such nonsense.
I've been to a couple of things like this before and it can be quite interesting just standing back a little and watching people dig themselves a massive hole after they've had a few beers.
Good luck.

Steameh

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3,155 posts

239 months

Saturday 25th August 2012
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Thanks for the advice guys, I went and got a sports jacket, some new formal trousers, a shirt and new tie today for the evening meal. Like you all say, better to be over than under dressed.

Looking forward to it as havent been to an assessment centre before, I will definitely take it easy the night before I'll have a beer, but not much more than that, keep myself fresh for the next day!

Pommygranite

14,466 posts

245 months

Sunday 26th August 2012
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Sports jacket, slacks, tie and brown shoes - how old are you?!

Evening - everyone else is going to turn up in nice jeans and a decent shirt. Tie to dinner? Unless its to a rotary dinner I wouldn't think so.

Please post back what was actually worn.

Steameh

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3,155 posts

239 months

Sunday 26th August 2012
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Pommygranite said:
Sports jacket, slacks, tie and brown shoes - how old are you?!

Evening - everyone else is going to turn up in nice jeans and a decent shirt. Tie to dinner? Unless its to a rotary dinner I wouldn't think so.

Please post back what was actually worn.
I think I'm going to go with Jacket, trousers, black shoes and grey shirt, with tie in the pocket if everyone else is that formal, if not just the top button undone.

I'll post a picture up of what I wore

Edited by Steameh on Sunday 26th August 11:07

iphonedyou

10,409 posts

186 months

Sunday 26th August 2012
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Pommygranite said:
Sports jacket, slacks, tie and brown shoes - how old are you?!

Evening - everyone else is going to turn up in nice jeans and a decent shirt. Tie to dinner? Unless its to a rotary dinner I wouldn't think so.

Please post back what was actually worn.
You see, I completely disagree. In this (admittedly very specific) situation I'd go with wearing the same standard of attire you'll be wearing to the assessment centre, particularly given this is your first contact with management of the company.

I'd definitely, definitely - really can't overstate this enough - not be wearing to jeans to dinner on first contact with company management.

There's an argument that if the dinner was after the assessment centre, jeans might be appropriate. But even then, I wouldn't.

Art0ir

9,423 posts

199 months

Monday 27th August 2012
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May I seek clarification on what a 21st Century "Sports Jacket" looks like?

Cotty

42,217 posts

313 months

Monday 27th August 2012
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Trousers, shoes and shirt should be fine