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drivin_me_nuts

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17,949 posts

241 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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Anyone here been through it?

- Was it the best thing or the worst thing that happened to you?


Just curious to know what your experiences were.

bored-of-coding

1,292 posts

227 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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2793 posts and you ask if anyone's been through it ...there's more experience here than Relate .. I'm pretty good at the finance/ access CSA bit

Edited by bored-of-coding on Wednesday 19th November 18:42

ajcj

798 posts

235 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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The worst thing was the whole thing.

The best thing is afterwards. Quite a long time afterwards.

Dilligaf10

2,431 posts

240 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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I feel suitably qualified to answer this one, 4 marriages, 3 divorces; (at time of writing!!)

Worst bit: Saying goodbye to at least half of your assets

Best bit: Looking for new blood!

G'kar

3,728 posts

216 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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Why do you ask?

hornetrider

63,161 posts

235 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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Dilligaf10 said:
I feel suitably qualified to answer this one, 4 marriages, 3 divorces; (at time of writing!!)

Worst bit: Saying goodbye to at least half of your assets

Best bit: Looking for new blood!
Jesus eek

4th time down the aisle, what are your thoughts?!

ajcj

798 posts

235 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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hornetrider said:
Dilligaf10 said:
I feel suitably qualified to answer this one, 4 marriages, 3 divorces; (at time of writing!!)

Worst bit: Saying goodbye to at least half of your assets

Best bit: Looking for new blood!
Jesus eek

4th time down the aisle, what are your thoughts?!
'Here we are again'?

At least halving your assets three times means only 12.5% of the original pot to go at this time....

krallicious

4,312 posts

235 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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Probably I hope this is the ONE

drivin_me_nuts

Original Poster:

17,949 posts

241 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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G'kar said:
Why do you ask?
curiosity. I would just like to know what other peoples experiences are

Andy Zarse

10,870 posts

277 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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drivin_me_nuts said:
G'kar said:
Why do you ask?
curiosity. I would just like to know what other peoples experiences are
It's a right laugh. No really, it is.

Jon C

3,214 posts

277 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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Dilligaf10 said:
I feel suitably qualified to answer this one, 4 marriages, 3 divorces; (at time of writing!!)

Worst bit: Saying goodbye to at least half of your assets

Best bit: Looking for new blood!
That will be all those weekends away Richard :-)

dave_s13

14,028 posts

299 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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I've nearly been divorced twice, to (or is that from) the same women. Got to the stage of having the documents/settlement drawn up and everything. Thankfully we sorted it all out and are solid now.

Unless you feckin hate your wife and wish she was dead then it's really a very $hite experience.

G'kar

3,728 posts

216 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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drivin_me_nuts said:
G'kar said:
Why do you ask?
curiosity. I would just like to know what other peoples experiences are
fking ingly bd lifefk of a ststorm.

Then the lawyers get involved and it gets worse.

MrV

2,748 posts

258 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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Dilligaf10 said:
I feel suitably qualified to answer this one, 4 marriages, 3 divorces; (at time of writing!!)

Worst bit: Saying goodbye to at least half of your assets

Best bit: Looking for new blood!
yikes you addicted to wedding cake ?

shadowninja

80,068 posts

312 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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At the time, felt like my life was over. Glad it happened now.

Busamav

2,954 posts

238 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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MrV said:
Dilligaf10 said:
I feel suitably qualified to answer this one, 4 marriages, 3 divorces; (at time of writing!!)

Worst bit: Saying goodbye to at least half of your assets

Best bit: Looking for new blood!
yikes you addicted to wedding cake ?
biggrinbiggrin

Mrs Trackside

9,299 posts

263 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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I instigated our divorce for a number of reasons (no I wasn't shagging anyone else!)

On the day I got my Degree Nisi (or whatever it's called) I felt extremely sad and cried. However, it's the best thing that I could have done and the same night I was off to the local nightclub with some close friends dancing to I'm Free by Ultra Nate.

spikeyhead

20,446 posts

227 months

Wednesday 19th November 2008
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It's very expensive but its worth it.