Modern 21st century woman needs help

[petrol_penelope]

For a while now been thinking that I want to do something really special for my OH, I know its not leap year and it is only seen as the women can only really ask THE question in this year. But i don't want to, we have talked about the M word a few times and have alot of commitment to each other and we booth want the same thing.

But i want to be the different one and ask my OH, but have no clue as to how to do it???

[schmokin1]

Don't do it. When he's ready, he'll ask. He's probably saving up for a mahoosive diamond ring for you and needs more time. Or a very large CZ ring for you and hasn't found the perfect experimantal hookers for the stag night, in which case he still needs more time.

[Neil_H]

Steak & BJ, then do it while you're already kneeling down?

[10 Pence Short]

Haven't you rogered your boss yet?

[roboxm3]

Wait for him to ask you.......seriously!

There are a million and one decent things you can do for him / get him that he will love and remember, just don't pop THE question!

[Zod]

Somebody post that attention we picture.

[f13ldy]

As much as man may give off the impression he loves you more than the world. It isn't strictly true.

You see men only get married when eventually pushed into by constant badgering from the OH.

You asking him will result in some kind of end-of-the-world type scenario followed by words does-not-compute and you never seeing him again...

Get him an iPod instead.

[petrol_penelope]

10 Pence Short said:

Haven't you rogered your boss yet?

NO i haven't and do not intend to even with a Ten foot barge pole

[ukwill]

f13ldy said:

As much as man may give off the impression he loves you more than the world. It isn't strictly true.

You see men only get married when eventually pushed into by constant badgering from the OH.

You asking him will result in some kind of end-of-the-world type scenario followed by words does-not-compute and you never seeing him again...

Get him an iPod instead.

and a steak & bj

[10 Pence Short]

petrol_penelope said:

10 Pence Short said:

Haven't you rogered your boss yet?

NO i haven't and do not intend to even with a Ten foot barge pole

To be fair I think it's him who wants to use the 'barge pole'. Especially when you giggle at him and flutter your eyelashes, eh.

[petrol_penelope]

f13ldy said:

As much as man may give off the impression he loves you more than the world. It isn't strictly true.

You see men only get married when eventually pushed into by constant badgering from the OH.

You asking him will result in some kind of end-of-the-world type scenario followed by words does-not-compute and you never seeing him again...

Get him an iPod instead.

I would never badger him about it to be honest i haven't even mentioned it or dropped hints.

[MK4 Slowride]

Are you prepared for your relationship to abruptly end?

If yes propose to him.


Then call me on 0800 SLOWRIDE.

[Mc Lovin]

If he wants it he'll ask you.

[petrol_penelope]

10 Pence Short said:

petrol_penelope said:

10 Pence Short said:

Haven't you rogered your boss yet?

NO i haven't and do not intend to even with a Ten foot barge pole

To be fair I think it's him who wants to use the 'barge pole'. Especially when you giggle at him and flutter your eyelashes, eh.

Theres no eyelash fluttering here my duck, nor giggling at him. blurgh

[petrol_penelope]

Mc Lovin said:

If he wants it he'll ask you.

Thats just it we have both spoken about it in depthand have both said we want it and to be with one another.

[Cara Van Man]

[Munter]

Are you still having sex (as a couple! ), if so then he's comitted to you and he might still ask. If not he's shagging around and you'll need to marry him quick to steal some of his cash.

[Mc Lovin]

petrol_penelope said:

Mc Lovin said:

If he wants it he'll ask you.

Thats just it we have both spoken about it in depthand have both said we want it and to be with one another.

well in that case he will ask, when he feels the time is right, in the words of the Grolsh ad's, Schtooop, it's not ready yet!!!

[petrol_penelope]

Munter said:

Are you still having sex (as a couple! ), if so then he's comitted to you and he might still ask. If not he's shagging around and you'll need to marry him quick to steal some of his cash.

Yes we are

[Chris_w666]

Does getting married really make a difference?

I thought the reason us blokes did the asking is because we expect the ladies to earn that expensive bit of bling over a long time period.

I suggest Steak and BJ nightly then wait.