bit of advice regarding women

[wizzbilly]

well this is one of the threads i didnt think i would be making but there you go lol

all started this afternoon , the misis has been visting family miles away as i had to stay at home for work , not sure if its just me been paronied or not so other pepoles opinions much apreciated .

she has got real bad epelipciy so i worry a bit which surly is understanable .

other day she said lets have a break to sort our heads out while she is up there so no phone calls all that bkss lol and i told her that if she needed a break from me shouldnt be with me simple realy .

yesterday had big fall smashed all her face up as she had a fit and smacked head on bath fractied nose etc

now this morning she went of leaving her phone at family members claiming forgot it ,come 6ish claims going to town, ( maybe its me but who would want to be going shopping etc looking like this and what shops are open at this time of night on a sunday , told me was leaving phone at home on charge again which i questioned later to be made to be the one that dont trust her etc

come 11ish i says am going to bed as got early start and banging headache she says ok , phoned her up 10mins later to find out she is going round to her cousins for a drink he his paying taxi and sleeping there etc
( midnight ).

text me when she got there to let me no she had got there ok and asked if i was asleep , to which i replied no couldnt sleep didnt feel tired and she seamed eager as if she wanted me to go to sleep , now been trying to get hold of her for the last 2 and 1/2hrs but her phone is turned off,

i tend to worry with her health as not exactly as if she can call me if she is ill but is this just me been paronioied , just seams everytime i say anything she goes of on one saying i dont trust her trying to make me feel bad one .

and i no her phone cant be flat as apparntly its been on charge all day and also she has her charger with her i have checked and she tells me she has it so no exuse battrey went flat

Edited by wizzbilly on Monday 6th October 02:31

[welshbikerduck]

I feel sorry for you mate, i think you know already. I hope you are wrong but from what you describe i don't think so.

[wizzbilly]

well lets hope it turns out to be wrong, she got the st kicked out of her by her ex and ended up losing baby etc later to find out he was cheating with her best mate now surly this would sink home ,

[welshbikerduck]

wizzbilly said:

well lets hope it turns out to be wrong, she got the st kicked out of her by her ex and ended up losing baby etc later to find out he was cheating with her best mate now surly this would sink home ,

Some women just don't know when they have it good. Mind that goes for guys too.

The more you try to put a bird in a cage the more it tries to fly away. Lay some bread out everyday and that bird wont need a cage. I really hope it works out for you mate, i been in this position my self a few years ago and it was awful. Time will make all good tho.

[thehawk]

That whole situation sounds screwed up, move on and forget her.

[Kaelic]

matey I think u already know what is going on, I hope to god it's all wrong and she is just being a class muppet!

Being paranoid is only natural.

But and I say but...........


Don't let a cheating 2bit we make u feel as if ur paranoia about the situation is wrong. You have every right to be concerned with her dehaviour and the current events. Don't let her turn this into a "you don't trust me" blame game by her!

If it's all innocent then get her to explain in simple terms, if not get rid!


Best of luck with it all

[Poledriver]

[wizzbilly]

just got a message at 3;55 saying sorry put my phone down and it went flat,and only just realised , asks what the fk is wrong with me by sending loads of text and leaving answer phone messages saying i need to chill out lol made a joke of it basicly .

then said cant talk as everyone else is asleep .

does someone spell bullst or is it just me .

[SkinnyBoy]

If you are suspicious then you need to investigate her properly, covert surveillance and a key-logger on her computer etc. That way you get the facts not assumptions.

[elster]

You don't trust her so you may as well look elsewhere now.

[drivin_me_nuts]

you are not going to find answers on an internet forum .. sleep, chew it over, ask some questions, get some answers, make some decisions..

[slideways]

if you dont trust her leave her life is too short, if you need to confirm it you could always follow her under the guise of being worried that with her condition she isn't answering her phone and could be lying in a ditch somewhere, if she is fk her off

[Toni896]

Only you know the state of your relationship, you need to talk to her.
Bit of a cliché, prepare for the worst hope for the best.

From the otherside of the fence, I was the other bloke, lass just wanted a bit of a laugh, no nookie involved.

[carerra g tea]

She is cheating on you. The signs all point to it. Steel yourself...tough days ahead.

Don't do anything stupid, and don't be too revealing of your suspicions, intentions, etc. Lay your plans, carry them out methodically as far as living and financial arrangements, and look forward to the day when you will have your freedom.

It's over in her mind. It should be in yours too.

[V8mate]

She's sh4gging her cousin? Or did I miss something?

[pies1981]

she's taking you for a mate, fk her off and find yourself someone who will appreciate you alot more and not st on you from a great height. Some bh i went out with fked someone behind my back, she really messed me up for 12 months i feel for you i really do.

[andy400]

Women are like monkeys.

They'll never let go of one good branch til they've got a hand firmly on another.

[Nick.w]

i would have got in the car and gone round the Cousins to see if she was there, if not.. clothes in the black bag out side and bolt down the door.

[bull996]

carerra g tea said:

She is cheating on you. The signs all point to it. Steel yourself...tough days ahead.

Don't do anything stupid, and don't be too revealing of your suspicions, intentions, etc. Lay your plans, carry them out methodically as far as living and financial arrangements, and look forward to the day when you will have your freedom.

It's over in her mind. It should be in yours too.

Good advice.

Similar thing happened to me. I just queitly prepared to leave, saw our landlord and sorted that side of things out, as well as a new place to live.
One luchtime when all was sorted out, I nipped home, dog knapped my dog, threw all my clothes etc into bin liners and fooked off. She couldnt believe it as she thought I knew nothing about what was going on. It was like a huge wieght off my shoulders and I consoled myself by boning the 17 year cleaner from the office.

You know already its over, so leave before she can make it worse.

[Rach*]

bull996 said:

carerra g tea said:

She is cheating on you. The signs all point to it. Steel yourself...tough days ahead.

Don't do anything stupid, and don't be too revealing of your suspicions, intentions, etc. Lay your plans, carry them out methodically as far as living and financial arrangements, and look forward to the day when you will have your freedom.

It's over in her mind. It should be in yours too.

Good advice.

Similar thing happened to me. I just queitly prepared to leave, saw our landlord and sorted that side of things out, as well as a new place to live.
One luchtime when all was sorted out, I nipped home, dog knapped my dog, threw all my clothes etc into bin liners and fooked off. She couldnt believe it as she thought I knew nothing about what was going on. It was like a huge wieght off my shoulders and I consoled myself by boning the 17 year cleaner from the office.

You know already its over, so leave before she can make it worse.

Me too, the cheating lying bd! Arranged a room on camp, packed my stuff, left with the exhaust hanging off my poor little AX, and then went to my parents for a few days. He had my bridesmaid round to stay over and get drunk with him