Being let down by a very good friend

[srebbe64]

Anyone else had this? You have a really good friend, who you trust like a brother, and it transpires that there were things going on behnd your back. I still like the guy, and really feel for him, but I'm just gutted and disappointed. It could easily cause me to not want close friends any more but that would be wrong.

[abdulaziz]

Gayer

[Heskey]

...Tell us more?

"Done things behind your back"

What? Your girlfriend, your dog, went to the pub without you? What?

We can't gauge severity based on what you've told us.

[Nick.w]

abdulaziz said:

Gayer

For sure.

[okgo]

Yes I hate this.

I can't trust any of the people I am so called "freinds" with. Tehey are all incapable of keeping promises, it pisses me off. So much so I am going to live in a room on my own.

[Mc Lovin]

i dont have any friends

[toastboy]

Friends can only remain so while there is respect and trust.

Once either of these has disappeared, it's very hard to maintain the friendship.

[Don]

srebbe64 said:

Anyone else had this? You have a really good friend, who you trust like a brother, and it transpires that there were things going on behnd your back. I still like the guy, and really feel for him, but I'm just gutted and disappointed. It could easily cause me to not want close friends any more but that would be wrong.

Sorry to hear that, Steve. Few of us always live up to expectations.

[srebbe64]

Mc Lovin said:

i dont have any friends

I wish I didn't at times.

[smutbag]

Yup - nothing surer that most people will let you down at some point. And it's not always intentioned.

Everyone does, no-one is perfect, but we (the royal we) tend to have high expectations, put people on pedestals and then get disapointed.

T'would be a better place if we just took people as we find them.

[Heskey]

Mc Lovin said:

i dont have any friends

Well if you stopped traversing the globe solving mysteries, Tintin.

[Apache]

okgo said:

Yes I hate this.

I can't trust any of the people I am so called "freinds" with. Tehey are all incapable of keeping promises, it pisses me off. So much so I am going to live in a room on my own.

one thing you can count on......people will always let you down

[madrob6]

Aaah I remember having friends.

[Matt_N]

Mc Lovin said:

i dont have any friends

Under the missus' order eh?

[RobCrezz]

Elaborate please.

[Eddh]

abdulaziz said:

Gayer

+1

[Mc Lovin]

Heskey said:

Mc Lovin said:

i dont have any friends

Well if you stopped traversing the globe solving mysteries, Tintin.

its a lifestyle choice, least i have my trusty companion Snowie. Although if he pisses on the carpet again he may not make the next adventure.

[Monki]

I had a close friend who I found out had been sgging me off behind my back for no reason

So kicked him in the bks and left it at that

[rude-boy]

srebbe64 said:

Mc Lovin said:

i dont have any friends

I wish I didn't at times.

Balls to that Shrubbery!

Having friends is like having a partner. 99% of the time they make your life complete. 1% of the time they break your heart.

[srebbe64]

anonymous said:

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Imagine of that friend turned you over, how would you feel?