my Marriage is over !!
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stesrg

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1,578 posts

268 months

Thursday 3rd November 2005
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Well nearly 20 years of it, and you could not say I have not tried, she has had every think, last 5 years been trying to patch things up it seems we have just driffted apart, different interests and changed personalitys. oh well I get to keep the house in spain.
Anyone need a lodger ????.
Ste..

lazyitus

19,931 posts

296 months

Thursday 3rd November 2005
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Are you pissed ?

stesrg

Original Poster:

1,578 posts

268 months

Thursday 3rd November 2005
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lazyitus said:
Are you pissed ?


YERR bUt its true.........

ZR1cliff

17,999 posts

279 months

Thursday 3rd November 2005
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Get ready for a life of this,guess you need a laugh.

far off bird said:
hello i am from Ghana west african i am single girl looking for very honest man who can be with me and have my all family with me i belive in body to body my email adderss is (**********@yahoo.com) u can writ me there so we can talk because i dont have money to pay for this site so writ me on my email adderss . have a nice day and take care Mavis

lazyitus

19,931 posts

296 months

Thursday 3rd November 2005
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Judging by this post and this one....


www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?t=219481&f=141&h=0

you're officially leathered.


Chill man. You sound like your head is about to pop.

supaspark

2,105 posts

268 months

Thursday 3rd November 2005
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Keep your chin up matey...plenty more fish in the ocean












But would you be happy with a wrinkled old cod riddled with worms....

lazyitus

19,931 posts

296 months

Thursday 3rd November 2005
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Ste, you've gone quiet.

I hope you're OK my friend.

gafferjim

1,337 posts

295 months

Thursday 3rd November 2005
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Been there, done that! My sympathy for now. You wonder why you made the effort, and that you've wasted your life. BUT! all is not in vain...............Seriously!

Get the paperwork and official stuff sorted as soon as possible, the longer it goes on, the more they start to demand (Note, I didn't say "ask for!" If you can, sort things out yourselves (difficult if there's kids under 18) see if she'll agree to just one soliciter for the pair of you, just to sort the legal bits out. Let her have what she wants out of the house, come to some arrangement. give here half of the equity in the house (after you've deducted the morgage settlement figure etc) She'll be gobsmacked about how agreeable you are, and sign. Then that's it, what you earn from then on, is yours! not ours! you'll soon realise that femals are VERY expensive to run, don't get another one......not perminantly anyway!)
I finished up with 2 morgages (the original, + one to buy her half of the property) £50 in the bank, and an old car. Within 6 years, I'd paid off both morgages (house is mine now!) got a decent car, 2 kitcars, new furniture (that I like!) big TV, and the bank balance is growing steadily.
I pay a woman to come in and clean now & again, when I can't be arsed.
Other women would be told not to take their coats off, their knickers, yes, but not their coats, they aren't stopping!

lazyitus

19,931 posts

296 months

Thursday 3rd November 2005
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anonymous said:
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Oh yes.

Sleep tight

grahamw48

9,944 posts

268 months

Thursday 3rd November 2005
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stesrg said:
Well nearly 20 years of it, and you could not say I have not tried, she has had every think, last 5 years been trying to patch things up it seems we have just driffted apart, different interests and changed personalitys. oh well I get to keep the house in spain.
Anyone need a lodger ????.
Ste..


Best of luck.
They don't deserve us.

I recommend a couple of weeks at Pattaya beach, Thailand.

R988

7,496 posts

259 months

Thursday 3rd November 2005
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grahamw48 said:
stesrg said:
Well nearly 20 years of it, and you could not say I have not tried, she has had every think, last 5 years been trying to patch things up it seems we have just driffted apart, different interests and changed personalitys. oh well I get to keep the house in spain.
Anyone need a lodger ????.
Ste..


Best of luck.
They don't deserve us.

I recommend a couple of weeks at Pattaya beach, Thailand.


Just make sure its actually a woman, dont want any moments

pwig

12,003 posts

300 months

Thursday 3rd November 2005
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Now go buy a Ferrari

pzero64

2,154 posts

271 months

Thursday 3rd November 2005
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I have witnessed a number of separations at work during the past 4 years, ALL of the people involved have gone from strength to strength.








Lucky w*nkers.












Just kidding dear!



allnighter

6,663 posts

252 months

Thursday 3rd November 2005
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ZR1cliff said:
Get ready for a life of this,guess you need a laugh.

far off bird said:
hello i am from Ghana west african i am single girl looking for very honest man who can be with me and have my all family with me i belive in body to body my email adderss is (**********@yahoo.com) u can writ me there so we can talk because i dont have money to pay for this site so writ me on my email adderss . have a nice day and take care Mavis

Mavis? strange name for a chick in GHANA

grahamw48

9,944 posts

268 months

Friday 4th November 2005
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She sounds nice.

Please PM me the email address.

kenny chim 4

1,604 posts

288 months

Friday 4th November 2005
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Steve, tough as it is- you so have to hang on to the Griff, That is a nice profile photo (even though blue cars are slow :stickstogueout:

Seriously, wish you well

mrsimmo

5 posts

252 months

Friday 4th November 2005
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i split up with my missus earlier this year...

It does get easier mate, chin up.

shaw-cross shark

4,292 posts

264 months

Friday 4th November 2005
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Try to be happy and try not to let it get to you too much. You'd be surprised at what is just around the corner.

Not long since I was posting a similar thing mate. You'll find good friends on here

Steve

Davel

8,982 posts

288 months

Friday 4th November 2005
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Been there - done that!

It may not seem like it but it will get better.

ZR1cliff

17,999 posts

279 months

Friday 4th November 2005
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allnighter said:
ZR1cliff said:
Get ready for a life of this,guess you need a laugh.

far off bird said:
hello i am from Ghana west african i am single girl looking for very honest man who can be with me and have my all family with me i belive in body to body my email adderss is (**********@yahoo.com) u can writ me there so we can talk because i dont have money to pay for this site so writ me on my email adderss . have a nice day and take care Mavis

Mavis? strange name for a chick in GHANA


Ive been working all day on turning my 2 bedroom house into a 15 bedroom hut nearly there!