what a f**ked up world we live in
what a f**ked up world we live in
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princeperch

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8,268 posts

276 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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just seen on ceefax that a mother who "cooked" her baby son on top of an oven (the kid died from 90% burns), has been given a "guardianship" supervision order....

I have no idea what that is, but if she was so irresponsible and remedial herself to place a baby on an ignited oven then she a)should not have been allowed to reproduce and b)should spend a very long time in clink or in the funny farm.

Some people are so desperate to have children and cant for several reasons and would have given this one a loving and secure home, yet this child was left with this excuse for a human.


Makes me sick.


alexkp

16,484 posts

273 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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princeperch said:


Some people are so desperate to have children and cant for several reasons and would have given this one a loving and secure home, yet this child was left with this excuse for a human.


Makes me sick.




I agree entirely.

southpaw

635 posts

258 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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I agree, that is totally sick.

Should be locked up and have the key thrown away.

Guzzi Steve

246 posts

270 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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Poor kid.

princeperch

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276 months

Mon Ami Mate

6,589 posts

297 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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Wonder what the sentence would have been if it was a father that committed this act rather than a mother...

wizzpig

2,039 posts

257 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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That reminds me of this case I heard a while ago of a woman in America (where else) who tried to sue Moulinux I think it was, because it didn't clearly state in the operating instructions of her shiny new microwave that she couldn't dry little "tiddles" in it after she had bathed him.

"Tiddles" ended up an omlette IIRC. The woman, in some distress, immediately got on the phone to the manufacturers help line complaining.

Would love to have been in the call centre for that one.

Hilts

4,684 posts

311 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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Tragic indeed, but look beyond the baby killer headlines and you can this woman is obviously severely psychiatrically ill.

Guardianship means she'll be stuck in a mental hospital probably for a long, long time.



princeperch

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276 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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unfortunatly I find it hard to look beyond that, it was a total and utter waste of life and if social services had been on the ball they would have taken this child off its mother and given the child to someone that had half a braincell.

Obviously she is sick - and you cant stop people from reproducing.

She should not have been left with the child in her mental state.

thepeoplespal

1,694 posts

306 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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Post Partum depression is rather underestimated here in the UK, in this article www.obgyn.net/femalepatient/default.asp?page=leopold it shows that a woman has a sevenfold increase in the risk of psychiatric hospitalization in the first 3 months after delivery.5 In this study, the risk of psychosis was 22 times higher than the prepregnancy rate, and the calculated relative risk (RR) of childbirth for the development of psychosis was 16.

Much as I share your horror with this childs death, child birth does bring very real risks of psychosis and unfortunately when these problems are not picked up, very real tragedies like this can, do and will happen.

ErnestM

11,621 posts

296 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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Bedford - not just you, mate. I won't even click on the links.

First it makes me sick. Then it makes me angry beyond belief...

ErnestM

princeperch

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276 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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some interesting stuff there thepeoplespal. Maybe it wasnt avoidable, maybe it was. Still a total waste, and has somewhat marred this lovely day I was having up until now.

'A single death is a tragedy, a million deaths is a statistic?'

pdV6

16,442 posts

290 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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ErnestM said:

anonymous said:
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Bedford - not just you, mate. I won't even click on the links.

First it makes me sick. Then it makes me angry beyond belief...

ErnestM

I did and instantly regretted it. Deep breaths needed to prevent me getting all Old Testament about it...

wizzpig

2,039 posts

257 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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Hilts said:
Tragic indeed, but look beyond the baby killer headlines and you can this woman is obviously severely psychiatrically ill.

Guardianship means she'll be stuck in a mental hospital probably for a long, long time.


Correct. She is obviously not well and needs help. You wouldn't normally, even the most clumsy of us, leave a child on a lit stove.

A mothers paternal instinct is extremely powerfull and overides many higher brain function processes. So for her to do this suggests that there is in fact a deep underlying psychological inbalance.



haze

1,531 posts

259 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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Its a bad old world we live in, it seems to be getting worse. They should lock her up for life, a life for a life.

What she has done is pure evil.

Eric Mc

125,609 posts

294 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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The world is no worse than it ever was.

Caligula eat his own sister's baby.

Mrs Fish

30,018 posts

287 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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I feel a bit sick too.

thepeoplespal

1,694 posts

306 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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haze said:
Its a bad old world we live in, it seems to be getting worse. They should lock her up for life, a life for a life.

What she has done is pure evil.


What part of psychosis don't you understand, chances are she was suffering puerperal psychosis which isn't "pure evil" but a statistically significant side effect of childbirth. Most probably why she didn't get jailed in the first place.


At the other end of the spectrum is the truly devastating puerperal psychosis. A comparatively rare disease, it complicates only 0.1% to 0.2% of deliveries--but this is 12 to 14.5 times the prenatal incidence of psychosis........snip a bit
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....Patients suffering from puerperal psychosis are severely impaired, suffering from hallucinations and delusions that frequently focus on the infant dying or being divine or demonic. These hallucinations often command the patient to hurt herself or others, placing these mothers at the highest risk for committing infanticide and/or suicide. Most of these patients suffer from affective disorders (primarily bipolar illness), but schizophrenia and even organic brain syndromes are also diagnosed.7

princeperch

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Wednesday 8th June 2005
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she didnt get jailed because she wasnt tried for murder (becuase the defendant would have had malice aforethought the judge has no discretion), but manslaughter where the judge has some discretion.

spaximus

4,365 posts

282 months

Wednesday 8th June 2005
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Clearly this woman was ill, too ill to be left alone with a kid. This is the PC world where people in authority are so reluctant to take action for fear of being wrong.
Nice to see the husband, who left the kid with a woman who was known to be seriously ill, has a soliciter looking in to who to sue!
We need to get back to a situation where mentaly ill people are helped in appropriate hostles / hospitals, where they have to take the treatment, not as we have now where ill people are expected to keep appointments.
It is tragic that cost and so called freedoms have lead to another death at the alter of care in the community.