Do you regard yourself as rich?
Do you regard yourself as rich?
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Althalus

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344 posts

268 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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Following on from the have you been poor thread..

Do you regard yourself as rich and why?

I guess it comes down to what makes you tick, from my point of view I’m rich - thought I have only just come to see it like that. I'm about to finish uni, I’m in a stable relationship with someone I love (yer ok, I know I’m young (well 22), but it works really well for both of us) I get on phenomenally well with my parents who live sensibly close, I have a car (all be it not one I want!) yet I have no money.

I have spent a long time debating what I want to do, I have been working for a small local company during uni and I enjoy the work. They have offered me a job, but it pays less than other offers; it is all they can afford. I'm going to take it; they are a really nice bunch the work/life balance is good with one day a week working from home. Eventually this might pay off as the employees how a 40% share in the company which when sold will be divided up. They are also happy to help in anyway possible.

I figure as long as you are happy you are rich…
So I guess a better question might be what makes you happy?

Iria

854 posts

281 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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Yes, I have no money but I have no debts, I have no car, but I don´t need one yet (would not be able to afford one though). Have a room and I know that I´ll be able to pay for it next month, even though I know I won´t be able to pay for a computer if this one breaks down. Have food and if things got really really wrong parents would be able to help (much to my shame).Have to acknowledge that without the help of my bf, yes, I´d be rather poor and would have to stop studying, which, the end of the day, is a luxury I have paid for.

minimax

11,985 posts

285 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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what makes me happy?

my cars (when they work)

money to spend as I please

great nights out

PH meets (all those cool cars being driven as they ought to be)

that's about it.

my, what a vacuous character I am!

tvrbob

11,197 posts

284 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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I'll let you know after the Lottery numbers come in tonight.

shadowninja

80,022 posts

311 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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As I looked out across the Med from my 10 berth yacht parked up in my bay in Monaco, I considered this question. Then I considered my 575 Maranello 'runaround' parked just over there.









Then I woke up

Being rich is relative to your way of life, I think. Being stupidly rich is having more money than you know what to do with. It must be such a bind.

t1grm

4,657 posts

313 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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No matter what you have someone else always has more. Some PH'ers may consider other PH'ers rich. I'm sure those PH'ers look at other people and consider them rich. It's all a question of persepctive. To wit the regular "how much money would you need to retire" threads on here.

>> Edited by t1grm on Saturday 28th May 18:30

minimax

11,985 posts

285 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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I think being rich is being able to have the lifestyle you want.

the majority (I assume) want for yachts and holiday homes et cetera but there are people out there whose only goal is to pay off their mortgage and get a conservatory and when they get there I would say that they consider themselves rich.

personally, i'm not stopping until I have far more money than I know what to do with, and then I can pass it on to my offspring...assuming I have any that is

Lois

14,706 posts

281 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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no

planetdave

9,922 posts

282 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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shadowninja said:
As I looked out across the Med from my 10 berth yacht parked up in my bay in Monaco, I considered this question. Then I considered my 575 Maranello 'runaround' parked just over there.









Then I woke up

Being rich is relative to your way of life, I think. Being stupidly rich is having more money than you know what to do with. It must be such a bind.


I went to school with some of the kids of the worlds richest/famous people.

Aside from the kidnap and mutilation (notorious case if you are of a certain age) of one.........

I don't think they had a good time of it. They were generally listless and looking for excitement. Quite often ended in drug abuse and death.

Balance is obviously the key - take all the stress from life and you lose a quintisential human quality.

Obscenely rich is obviously better than being extremely poor.

But may I try it please?(the rich bit you dolt!)

Twincam16

27,647 posts

287 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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I think 'being rich' has as much to to with being careful with your money as it does having lots of it.

I mean, looking out for bargains, buying things for what they're worth, eliminating the unnecessary excess and only being interested in the 'quality' and so on.

IMO being rich has as much to do with how you reflect your quality of life as it has with how much you can physically buy.

Wacky Racer

41,278 posts

276 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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I am considerably richer than yow, cos I've got LOADSAMONEY!!!





vixpy1

42,699 posts

293 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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You get those who are Asset rich.. and those on high incomes with few assets who are cash rich. You cannot simply define people as being rich or not.

However, a Gentleman does not answer such questions.

Bill Gates

90,809 posts

284 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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What was the question again...?

bruciebabie

895 posts

265 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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Yes. I have a gorgeous wife, am fit and healthy and can afford to do the things I want to do.
No. I know quite a few people who are seriously cash and asset rich. The nice thing is that if you met them you wouldn't know it.
I can't stand the BMW on finance, credit cards to the limit posers who go round like they are something special. They have no idea.

Twincam16

27,647 posts

287 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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Bill Gates said:
What was the question again...?


minimax

11,985 posts

285 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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vixpy1 said:

However, a Gentleman does not answer such questions.


:awaits answer from charlie:


minimax

11,985 posts

285 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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bruciebabie said:

I can't stand the BMW on finance, credit cards to the limit posers who go round like they are something special. They have no idea.


that winds me up too

Balmoral Green

42,561 posts

277 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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Hmmm, rich? not me. I earn little more than average, my wife similar, but as a joint income, it's not bad I suppose. But not wealthy, or rich like many PH'ers are. I havent amounted to much, I dont think I ever will now, although I have travelled a lot and done some cool things in my youth.

Mr ordinary me, except for when I am being a loon in BG

Pistonheads has made me rich with new freinds though.

anonymous-user

83 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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A lot about how you view yourself (rich/poor/happy/sad) comes from the values you hold. I have a frined who is worth close on £40M - has multiple cars (Bentley, Ferrari, Aston, Porsche etc etc) a massive mansion, a helicopter and every other "toy" you could imagine. However...his value set comes from his position in work. He works every hour god sends, still desparately tries to climb the corp ladder even higher and has a disasterously failed marriage and child he never sees behind him. He is fiancially minted but to me he is not rich as he has become a slave to everyhing about power and lost a fantastic wife and child along the way. Being rich is all about being happy with who you are, your position in life and having the time to enjoy the moment you live in with close friends and family. It's about being able to choose your life rather than being a slave to it! IMHO!!!

scared but happy

24,147 posts

258 months

Saturday 28th May 2005
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Yes! Why?