waaaaaaay O/T: cummerbunds

waaaaaaay O/T: cummerbunds

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NDT

Original Poster:

1,766 posts

270 months

Friday 17th December 2004
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the other half and I have had a long running argument about this, which intensifies every year at christmas party time...

is there any protocol for the wearing of a cummerbund?
I think there is: i.e. cummerbund with double breasted dinner suit, waistcoat with single breasted.

Does anyone know?
(does anyone care? - I can't really explain why I give two hoots about this.....)

pdV6

16,442 posts

268 months

Friday 17th December 2004
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NDT said:
cummerbund with double breasted dinner suit, waistcoat with single breasted.

Not sure, but if anything I'd have thought it was t'other way 'round.

tvrgit

8,473 posts

259 months

Friday 17th December 2004
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AFAIK, the single-breasted tuxedo should always be worn unbuttoned, and a double breasted one should always be buttoned up.

Cummerbunds are optional - but are only appropriate for single breasted jackets - you should never see it with a double-breatsed one anyway, so not necessary.

Cummerbunds, if worn, should have the pleats facing upwards - so that one can tuck one's opera tickets into the pleats, don't you know!

A waistcoat with any style of dinner jacket is a no-no...

Have to admit I'm not sure though because I wear highland dress to such affairs and the rules for that are even more complicated!

titiany

2,122 posts

239 months

Friday 17th December 2004
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there's something quite tasty about a man in a cummerbund.

jacobyte

4,746 posts

249 months

Friday 17th December 2004
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tvrgit said:
Have to admit I'm not sure though because I wear highland dress to such affairs and the rules for that are even more complicated!


Cue predictable joke...

What's worn under the kilt?




Actually, it's all in perfect working order!

Plotloss

67,280 posts

277 months

Friday 17th December 2004
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No real protocol, but the 'bund should match the tie...

pdV6

16,442 posts

268 months

Friday 17th December 2004
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Plotloss said:
No real protocol, but the 'bund should match the tie...

Which would mean "black", as coloured bow ties are naff

Plotloss

67,280 posts

277 months

Friday 17th December 2004
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Of course, I just didnt want to point out that particular sartorial gaff

bouffy

1,540 posts

269 months

Friday 17th December 2004
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I never wear cummerbunds, but I wouldn't say they are naff necessarily - stick to dark colours (burgundy, v dark green, black etc) and you'll be OK.

1. Never wear waistcoats with double breasted jackets - black tie or not.
2. Waistcoats with single breasted dinner jackets should be black.
3. The bottom button (as with all waiscoats, all the time) should be left undone.
4. Stick to black bow ties. These should be real, not elasticated. Anybody who pulls it undone should be swiftly smacked in the chops - it's really not that funny.
5. Shirts should have no buttons but brass coloured studs.
6. Cufflinks should not be garish.
7. Do not wear shirts with patterns etc on the back, that can only be seen when jacket is removed - naff.
8. Jackets should not be removed anyway.
9. Socks should be black.
10. And please never do up the button on a morning coat. They should be left open and flappy. If that's an appropriate word.

All in my opinion / experience of course!

>> Edited by bouffy on Friday 17th December 11:38

d3ano

7,408 posts

260 months

Friday 17th December 2004
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Is a cummerbund that thing that rolls up on the fat opera singers chest in Bugs Bunny cartoons?

bouffy

1,540 posts

269 months

Friday 17th December 2004
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d3ano said:
Is a cummerbund that thing that rolls up on the fat opera singers chest in Bugs Bunny cartoons?


noope. not sure what that's called, but you wear it with white tie...it's the front of a shirt has a little tag on the bottom that attaches to the inside front of one's trouser - keeps the shirt pulled tight, and stops the 'ruffling' of one's shirt.

A cummerbund is the 'spare tyre' that goes around your middle, from a few inches below the top of your trousers, to your belly button (ish).

DanL

6,437 posts

272 months

Friday 17th December 2004
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bouffy said:
9. Socks should be black.
A gentleman never wears black socks.

...which explains why I always wear 'em.

Dan

bouffy

1,540 posts

269 months

Friday 17th December 2004
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DanL said:

bouffy said:
9. Socks should be black.

A gentleman never wears black socks.

...which explains why I always wear 'em.

Dan


I'll go with that. Gents always wear red, green etc socks, and younger toffs wear their school games socks / uni colours / regimental socks etc. Doesn't look good with black tie, however.

But if you're posh, you generally don't give a !

justayellowbadge

37,057 posts

249 months

Friday 17th December 2004
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No one in England should ever use the word 'Tuxedo'.

nicecupoftea

25,313 posts

258 months

Friday 17th December 2004
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Agreed with most of the thread.

I would say, however, that cummerbunds with double breasted jackets are OK. Unlikely to be seen when the jacket is done up, but OK none the less.

Tis also true about the pleats facing upwards.